Sex on the first date = yay or nay?

[Peter_20]

So what are you opinions on having sex right after the first date?
Personally I find it both good and bad; I mean, if you're dating someone for the first time, you should at least spend some time on a more "modest" level, and not go off with sex all of a sudden, and certainly not if you don't even know each other.
But then again, I'd not exactly say no to it. :D

Anyway, what do you think? :)

[Christmas]

Is it something like a one night stand and remember to use BRAND NEW CONDOMS or else you will end up (http://forums.eyesonff.com/general-chat/104910-eoff-tale.html)like LITTLE MANUS. :(

[Tavrobel]

It's alright by me. Assuming it's consentual.

[demondude]

Nay:)

[Serapy]

Well it's kinda more wrong, I mean imagine this: once you have successfully dated a girl on a first date and apparently you don't know her that much yet, but after one day later and you've found out that she was a massive hoe who got screwed by many guys :X. Kindy disturbing but meh :\ but there are many other reasons as well, like she probably was just a girl who wanted sex only, not caring about you, using you for your money, etc etc :|, this can be embrassasing... It's quite hard to find a good girl nowadays.

I personally think that you should get to know the girl more before making any commitments, I mean if you had sex with her, and you may afterward love/miss her but there's always a chance that the girl's reputation is dirty, not unless if you get to know her more before making any decision, you may don't want to regret what you did... regretting is a horrible feeling :(

But if you just want sex, not pure relationship, maybe you don't need date. There must be some other easier ways to get girls

[Laddy]

No way. It makes it seem like you stay for sex in the end. So, I reccomend if you're going to have sex, do it at at least the four or fifth, IMHYVBO. (In my humble yet very biased opinion.)

[Bunny]

If I'm paying, I better get laid.

[Serapy]

No way. It makes it seem like you stay for sex in the end. So, I reccomend if you're going to have sex, do it at at least the four or fifth, IMHYVBO. (In my humble yet very biased opinion.)

Yeah, I guess that's more appropriate. Getting on fourth or fifth dates means you have learnt about the girl, more deep of her personality, etc.

[Sergeant Hartman]

A coffee would suffice.

[Old Manus]

A coffee would suffice.more liek hot coffee am i rite lol

[Mitch]

There's an alternative?

[rubah]

I don't think that if you're dating you should be having sex at all! So that's a no.

[Roto13]

Usually not a good idea. Not that I necessarily take my own advice. -_-

[Dreddz]

When is sex ever a bad idea ?


Actually, no one answer that....

[Tavrobel]

When is sex ever a bad idea ?
Actually, no one answer that....

Good save.

[Ashley Schovitz]

No it's not okay on a first date, that would make me look like some skank hoe. Firstly you definetly don't know what the person has and if you can trust them, it's just so sluttish on any person's part.

[Nominus Experse]

Personally, I most likely would not have sex the first night I met someone; however, if others wish to do such a thing, then by all means, do so. I honestly couldn't care less.

I love sex, but I would much rather fuck a person I know well.

[Rocket Edge]

If i'm really interested in the girl then it's a definite no, because I find that I lose alot of respect for her, & then in turn lose interest altogether.

[CloudDragon]

For the most part I'd say no. Sometimes your lust can get the best of you, though.

[Zante]

Don't see anything wrong with it.

[Del Murder]

Does this actually happen outside TV and movies?

[Araciel]

sure why the hell not

[Zeromus_X]

Personally, I most likely would not have sex the first night I met someone; however, if others wish to do such a thing, then by all means, do so. I honestly couldn't care less.

[Sefie1999AD]

No, I don't think it's alright to have sex on your first date. I think one should wait and get to know the partner better. I mean, you can't even be sure on your first date if the relationship between you and your partner has a chance of working. IMHO, one should never rush with having sex.

[Spammerman]

Nay. No sex b4 marriage fer me.

['eMeRaLdFaYe']

Nay, absolutely nay... I mean, sex on the first date? In a way, she's/he's still a stranger... it's just... wrong. Well, in my opinion, it is... you don't even know her/him that much and you're already on "that" level. For me, it's kinda gross.

[Discord]

If both parties want it, I don't see a reason for saying no.