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Princess_Yuna
08-02-2005, 07:04 AM
Hello guys, tell me how did you felt when you broke up with your boyfriend/girlfriend???

SomethingBig
08-02-2005, 07:06 AM
Like peaches and cream.

Winter Nights
08-02-2005, 07:07 AM
I did the breaking up and it was very much needed.. So I felt just fine. More relaxed, I'd say.

Jebus
08-02-2005, 07:35 AM
I had a girlfriend?

Why didn't anyone tell me? :/

Mitch
08-02-2005, 07:42 AM
*checks watch*

~Keep it Gooey~

-had to be done

I just ignored them for a few weeks then entered back into the casual-conversation zone

Princess_Yuna
08-02-2005, 07:44 AM
I had a girlfriend?

Why didn't anyone tell me? :/
Tell you what?

rubah
08-02-2005, 08:00 AM
I had a girlfriend?

Why didn't anyone tell me? :/
Tell you what?

Jebbus doesn't hear the words 'girl' and 'friend' in very close proximity much.

ZuZu
08-02-2005, 08:07 AM
give me a boyfriend that I can broke up with him :shifty:

Reles
08-02-2005, 08:14 AM
I've never broken up with someone before. :s Well, I was tricked into it once! But I don't count that. But I've been broken up with a million times, I guess I make a horrible girlfriend. :s

SeeDRankLou
08-02-2005, 08:19 AM
I feel like crap. I wonder what went wrong, I go through stuff in my head. Then I feel depressed, so I go to a bar and get drunk. And in the process some hot guy hits on me and makes me feel all better. So all in all I'm usually alright.

Pant Leg Eater from the Bad World
08-02-2005, 08:20 AM
give me a boyfriend that I can broke up with him :shifty:
ooh ooh, pick me, pick me!!

Princess_Yuna
08-02-2005, 08:25 AM
[QUOTE=Reles]I've never broken up with someone before. :s Well, I was tricked into it once! But I don't count that. But I've been broken up with a million times, I guess I make a horrible girlfriend. :s[/QUOT
Hey don't say you were a horrible girlfriend! :p

boris no no
08-02-2005, 08:29 AM
my ex broke my heart
i didn't do anything for months and i drank alot.
i mean alot
now i'm ok though
time heals wounds
and new boyfriends heal stuff too :love:

Princess_Yuna
08-02-2005, 08:32 AM
Υπαρχουν και αλλου πορτοκαλιες που κανουν πορτοκαλια!

boris no no
08-02-2005, 08:34 AM
Υπαρχουν και αλλου πορτοκαλιες που κανουν πορτοκαλια!
O___O
what is this crazy lingo??
*cannot read in greek*

Princess_Yuna
08-02-2005, 08:36 AM
This is what we say in Greece!It means it's better to made up with an other boy when you are disapointed with yours!

*ETERNAL FANTASY*
08-02-2005, 08:38 AM
To this day i think she still hates my guts!

I've tried my best to be a good friend but it ends up being one sided, she wants nothing to do with me!

boris no no
08-02-2005, 08:38 AM
This is what we say in Greece!It means it's better to made up with an other boy when you are disapointed with yours!
ahhhhhhhhh
how very sensible <3

Boosk
08-02-2005, 11:36 AM
I lost 2 stone when my fella left me but then I discovered chocolate and pudding.....now put it all back on and more :( but aw well! At least im well shot of him :D
Kagg no need man! Kagg got chocolate!!!!

Kagga :love:

Meat Puppet
08-02-2005, 12:06 PM
Get a beer.

Alive-Cat
08-02-2005, 12:07 PM
We just completely hate and ignore eachother. I hate her. She's first on the list.

Del Murder
08-03-2005, 04:02 AM
When my e-girlfriend broke up with me I posted the cry smiley over and over again and then made a livejournal entry in all caps.

kikimm
08-03-2005, 04:22 AM
From what I've experienced so far, relieved.


:D

disapointedchild
08-03-2005, 04:28 AM
WHERE THE HELL DO YOU THINK I GOT MY USERNAME FROM.
Man, that one girl, broke my heart in so many places.
The sad thing is I think she is trying to get back together with me, but I cant go through that again.

Peegee
08-03-2005, 04:34 AM
I was going insane and stuff but too dorky to break it up with her so obviously she broke up with me. Then the 'omg I can't believe this' set in and I freaked out again and started acting all needy and stupid.

Didn't happen ever again, but it did result in me being a tad bit uncaring and tactless.

TheAbominatrix
08-03-2005, 04:40 AM
I was pretty glad, because it was an unhappy relationship. So I did a dance.

Yamaneko
08-03-2005, 04:56 AM
I ate a sandwich.

eestlinc
08-03-2005, 04:58 AM
I just move on

CloudSquallandZidane
08-03-2005, 05:04 AM
Kinda bad, UNTIL i started kissing on her friend. Yes, i am an asshole, but u only live once.

Spammerman
08-03-2005, 05:13 AM
I've never broken up with someone before. :s Well, I was tricked into it once! But I don't count that. But I've been broken up with a million times, I guess I make a horrible girlfriend. :s
Maybe you just had horrible boyfriends.

my gf just broke up with me, but im ok with it.We really didn't talk much.

Mahal Kita
08-03-2005, 06:19 AM
Surprisingly, it wasn't the worst thing that had ever happened to me in my life. I didn't feel that bad. I was letting go, and that's something I had been holding off on doing and once I confronted that, I just got over it and moved on. I do think about it from time to time but I made the right decision.

Fonzie
08-03-2005, 06:23 AM
I took the easy way out. I killed her. lol j/k

Reles
08-03-2005, 06:26 AM
I've never broken up with someone before. :s Well, I was tricked into it once! But I don't count that. But I've been broken up with a million times, I guess I make a horrible girlfriend. :s
Maybe you just had horrible boyfriends.

my gf just broke up with me, but im ok with it.We really didn't talk much.

Negative.

Princess_Yuna
08-03-2005, 07:58 AM
I took the easy way out. I killed her. lol j/k
That's great this is what I want to do.........

Mitch
08-03-2005, 08:27 AM
What you need is a little afternoon delight

Princess_Yuna
08-03-2005, 12:07 PM
Hehehehe...........

Dragonfire
08-03-2005, 11:54 PM
I broke it off caus she was a compulsive liar and tried to cheat on me, with all these guys she supposedly hates but in reality they hate her and want nothing to do with her..... It hurt and still hurts badly because of my feelings for her...... the motives behind what she did is a very long story, but let's just say she's really f***ed up in the head.

Jack
08-04-2005, 04:51 PM
Surprisingly fine.

escobert
08-04-2005, 05:06 PM
I don't remember.

Kilrane
08-04-2005, 05:09 PM
i've only had 3 serious relationships and each time i was dumped. after each i kinda just mopped around school and did nothing. i was depressed and talked to no one. it took me half a year to date after the first one and then 3 months after the second. basically i wanna just kill myself cuz all their friends say that i was the best boyfriend they had ever had but then i think to myself 'why did she dump me then?'

silverpigeon97
08-04-2005, 05:13 PM
the last time i got dumped i didnt feel a thing. The funny thing was that she dumped me because i wasnt sensitive enough.

Spiffing Cheese
08-04-2005, 06:01 PM
my gf just broke up with me, but im ok with it.We really didn't talk much.

Aren't you, like, twelve? O_O

Give me a boyfriend and I won't bother breaking up with him. I'll just lock him in a closet 'til he starves. :love:

Selphie Fan
08-05-2005, 05:01 AM
I dunno I only went out with my friend for 5 days. I guess it depends on the intensity of the relationship.

Squall's Gal
08-05-2005, 05:27 PM
The first few times my relationships ended I didn't mind too much, because I didn't care too much about those guys, but the last guy I was with, I loved him, and I still do, but we're just good friends now and things work better this way, so although it hurt and I miss it, I feel like we've moved on to something better. :)

Ashi
08-05-2005, 08:15 PM
Tried to keep busy and stop thinking about it. Then after a while (like 6 weeks or so) I realized it didnt bother me that much anymore.

Laugh at face of Danger
08-05-2005, 08:22 PM
i went moody

then i ate some ice cream

then everything was back the way it was

Princess_Yuna
08-06-2005, 08:09 AM
Ice cream?Cool!

GooeyToast
08-06-2005, 09:06 AM
I feel fine.

Just play checkers, it will cure all your heartache.

Mitch
08-06-2005, 09:59 AM
Some feelings are best explained in song

*breaks out into singing*

Princess_Yuna
08-06-2005, 10:15 AM
Hehehehe...that's cool too!Hey guys you give me ideas!

Dazed and Confused
08-06-2005, 10:17 AM
Drink yourself stupid?

Just a thought.....

Princess_Yuna
08-06-2005, 11:54 AM
:save:Hmmmm.......:save:

kawaiileena
08-06-2005, 12:14 PM
What I felt when I broke up? I felt bad, but I didn't cried or get depressed. When we were on, I was like, okay, fine, whatever. I only agreed so that I can experience it. It was fine, having the "I love you" gets me the warm feeling. But when it happened, okay then. I never really liked him 'that way' anyways.

But after a while, I have realized I miss him, but anyways, I never cried. What I did? I just did what I do like everyday :p

Leeza
08-06-2005, 05:37 PM
Relieved, renewed, a zillion pounds lighter. It was an excellent feeling. :)

XSabinX
08-06-2005, 08:47 PM
To this day i think she still hates my guts!

I've tried my best to be a good friend but it ends up being one sided, she wants nothing to do with me!

same thing here.


But on topic, it feels like hell. Its the worst feeling in the world and I really hope you get over it soon. I would never wish that on anyone.

BloodyQueen
08-07-2005, 03:43 PM
The last time I broke up with someone, I felt awful, but then I just upped my chocolate intake, and now I'm all better! Seriously, break-ups are awful but you do get over them eventually. Or you just sit and pine endlessly over your ex. I do a bit of both. :D

Obsidian
08-07-2005, 03:54 PM
It felt brilliant to be free again, but I still get rather pissed when I look back on her.

Pure Strife
08-07-2005, 03:56 PM
Wrote a catchy, depressive yet ultimately uplifting pop-punk masterpiece about it, made an album of utter /xxx.gif/xxx.gif/xxx.gif/xxx.gif to go with it and got myself signed to a major label.

Last time I broke up with someone was the first time it felt really good to do so.

TurkSlayer
08-08-2005, 08:57 PM
I'm the one who broke it off. People always give me funny looks when I tell them that, mainly because they can't believe I had a girlfriend to begin with. Still, I did, and I felt like /xxx.gif/xxx.gif/xxx.gif/xxx.gif, mainly because I made her cry. I tried to break it off as nicely as I could, yet she still cried. I hate seeing a woman cry.

But I was fine after a day or two, and she forgave me after a week. Most of her friends still hate me, though.

Princess_Yuna
08-08-2005, 08:59 PM
I understand you!I can't see people crying cause of this!

TurkSlayer
08-08-2005, 09:05 PM
I understand you!I can't see people crying cause of this!

Someone understands me? Woah... Hold on, I need a moment to take this in. Its a whole new experience me.

YukiKiro
08-08-2005, 09:05 PM
lost, confused, angry, betrayed, hurt... the list goes on. it had felt like someone had taken a 30 lbs sledge hammer to my glass heart.

Olliey2k
08-08-2005, 09:18 PM
Bitch broke my heart.

So i spent 5 months being a drunken mess until i decided to kick myself up the arse and get over her ^^ Been quite happy (but single -.-) since.

Mercen-X
08-08-2005, 09:45 PM
My first girlfriend proposed to me this way: "In the future, you're going to have three girlfriends and I'm one of them." Seriously, that's what she said. I've never heard any girl hit on a guy like that. So, it wasn't mere desperation to have a girlfriend that lead to our relationship, I was genuinely intrigued by her in particular.

We never actually broke up. She moved and we later met up and that's where she denied we ever had a relationship. Part of me hurt, part of me wanted to kill her. Then again, throughout my life, I've wanted to kill a lot of people. Mostly, for a while, I consider letting myself out. The only thought that stopped me was my mother's sanity, which seemed fragile to me.

Leene
08-08-2005, 10:36 PM
Υπαρχουν και αλλου πορτοκαλιες που κανουν πορτοκαλια!
:save:αυτο να το πεις στον εαυτο σου :D !!!!!!!

I felt relaxed.............. :tongue: :save:

Princess_Yuna
08-09-2005, 08:51 AM
Υπαρχουν και αλλου πορτοκαλιες που κανουν πορτοκαλια!
:save:αυτο να το πεις στον εαυτο σου :D !!!!!!!

I felt relaxed.............. :tongue: :save:
Hehehehehehehe..........................

Pant Leg Eater from the Bad World
08-09-2005, 09:02 AM
you know what really annoys me. when people talk in languages that I cant understand. escpecially where I oculd possibly say something. :rolleyes2

ugh... if only I was un-lazy enough to learn greek.

Princess_Yuna
08-09-2005, 09:07 AM
Hehehehehehehehehe................................ :tongue:
You can't understand what I'm saying....... :bgl:

escobert
08-09-2005, 09:07 AM
I haven't had a girlfriend in around 3 - 4 years. Girls still seem to plague my life though.

Omni-Slash Master
08-09-2005, 11:57 PM
I have never broke up with a girl in my life, i dunno why, i always make they do it by doing something wrong, i dunno why i'm not gud at break ups but........
The last girlfriend i had really just using me, i really liked her but all she wanted was my best friend. she made a pass at him and he sed no (hahaha) and then i dumped her.
i felt bad at first but then i remembered that there was this other girl who liked and she liked me, and we've bin together ever since..

Its ironic really cause i hate happy endings lol