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Lil Ripsta
03-31-2006, 01:03 PM
How old were you when you had sex for the first time? :D

Shaun
03-31-2006, 01:07 PM
I'm seventeen, but still a virgin. I'd only want it to happen if it were meaningful...

The Devourer Of Worlds
03-31-2006, 01:07 PM
Damn it. This has got to be the worst poll ever for allowing people to view your results.

Meh, I stand by it.

theundeadhero
03-31-2006, 01:07 PM
I don't see any reason to tell you. http://forums.eyesonff.com/user/avatar/avatar11089_17.gif

smittenkitten
03-31-2006, 01:09 PM
Sex is'nt Meaningful?!!! :eek:

Wuggly Blight
03-31-2006, 01:12 PM
Im the oldest Virgin on earth, Im 20 and all.

Lil Ripsta
03-31-2006, 01:16 PM
Damn it. This has got to be the worst poll ever for allowing people to view your results.

Meh, I stand by it. Oh my god! And that's a problem with you huh? I bet you're feeling shy in here.

Meat Puppet
03-31-2006, 01:17 PM
15.

The Devourer Of Worlds
03-31-2006, 01:23 PM
Damn it. This has got to be the worst poll ever for allowing people to view your results.

Meh, I stand by it. Oh my god! And that's a problem with you huh? I bet you're feeling shy in here.
No, but now I'm pissed that I didn't answer 13< to make myself look like a complete whore :(.

TheAbominatrix
03-31-2006, 01:27 PM
I lost mine very recently, I'm 22.

I was waiting until I was ready, and then I was and then I did it and I was like "Oh hey this is nice."

Lil Ripsta
03-31-2006, 01:30 PM
Damn it. This has got to be the worst poll ever for allowing people to view your results.

Meh, I stand by it. Oh my god! And that's a problem with you huh? I bet you're feeling shy in here.
No, but now I'm pissed that I didn't answer 13< to make myself look like a complete whore :(. Yep which means that was your fault!

Skarr
03-31-2006, 01:39 PM
I haven't done it yet. I'm looking for someone worth doing it too. You know, in case she gets pregnant, I don't have to run away into exile. :rolleyes2

theundeadhero
03-31-2006, 01:43 PM
Live in a cave on the mountains! Be an exile! Eat homegrown vegetables and wild mountain goat!

It's FUN! http://forums.eyesonff.com/user/avatar/avatar11089_17.gif

VorpalCyberWolf
03-31-2006, 01:50 PM
I was 17 at the time, not too long ago actually, and it was meaningful to both of us. Though unfortunately that ended up coming to an end anyway.

Anaisa
03-31-2006, 01:51 PM
I'm still a virgin. Due to choice mind, not lack of offers. ;)

Mirage
03-31-2006, 01:53 PM
A few weeks before I turned 21, actually.

Flying Mullet
03-31-2006, 01:54 PM
Live in a cave on the mountains! Be an exile! Eat homegrown vegetables and wild mountain goat!

It's FUN!
But I'm allergic to wild mountain goat. :(

Chris
03-31-2006, 02:02 PM
Well, I haven't gone all the way yet, but my partners wants to. I'm not sure if I'm 100% ready yet. I've done sinful things, though. :(

nik0tine
03-31-2006, 02:06 PM
Younger than 13. I was molested by my aunt Bertha.

~SapphireStar~
03-31-2006, 02:11 PM
I was 17. We were in his room and waiting for the ink to dry on the FF7 pics I drawn. Wish I hadnt lost it to my ex though. The jerk.

eestlinc
03-31-2006, 05:16 PM
oh yea good times

crazybayman
03-31-2006, 05:20 PM
Well, I haven't gone all the way yet, but my partners wants to. I'm not sure if I'm 100% ready yet. I've done sinful things, though. :(
Parteners ??? :eek:

:p

I was 5 by the way. My 16 year old babysitter was helping to do my pee, saw how well endowed I was, and had to have me there on the spot. :shifty: really.

Chris
03-31-2006, 05:24 PM
That's a common mistake! xD

Psychotic
03-31-2006, 05:28 PM
46 years old.

Rye
03-31-2006, 05:29 PM
46 years old.

Kids are giving themselves up too early these days!

Chris
03-31-2006, 05:31 PM
46 years old.

Kids are giving themselves up too early these days!
Hahahahahaha! <3

bennator
03-31-2006, 05:35 PM
17, and I don't regret it one bit.

Jebus
03-31-2006, 06:58 PM
I'm 20 and still a virgin. So I win.

Psychotic
03-31-2006, 06:59 PM
You should lose your virginity to this, Jebus:

http://i60.photobucket.com/albums/h15/thebonanza2006/rsl.jpg

I know I did.

Dignified Pauper
03-31-2006, 07:01 PM
Gay sex or straight sex?

I've never had straight sex.

Gay sex at 17.

Flying Mullet
03-31-2006, 07:02 PM
What about <a href="http://www.eyesonff.com/members/album/photos/Bladen/shoden3.jpg">PiP</a> sex?

SeeDRankLou
03-31-2006, 07:04 PM
20

Strider
03-31-2006, 07:05 PM
I was 18. You don't need to know more than that.

bipper
03-31-2006, 07:08 PM
16 - I am an asshole.

Damn kids

bipper

Anaisa
03-31-2006, 07:11 PM
You should lose your virginity to this, Jebus:

http://i60.photobucket.com/albums/h15/thebonanza2006/rsl.jpg

I know I did.
You waited 46 years for that?!

marc
03-31-2006, 07:12 PM
I had sex with myself.
If that counts?

lovehurts
03-31-2006, 07:13 PM
18 year old virgin.

Dignified Pauper
03-31-2006, 07:13 PM
Could someone change the thread title to be gramatically correct and use HAVE... It'd driving me crazy.

Anaisa
03-31-2006, 07:14 PM
I had sex with myself.
If that counts?
If you were cloned, an then had sex with "yourself", I think that would count.

Flying Mullet
03-31-2006, 07:17 PM
Could someone change the thread title to be gramatically correct and use HAVE... It'd driving me crazy.
Your just mad because they did had secks before you. http://www.geocities.com/chadmonkey/pimp.gif

anacacia
03-31-2006, 07:20 PM
Still a virgin here. Its not legal in michigan to have sex until you are 16, plus if my parents found me having sex, they would kill me.

marc
03-31-2006, 07:20 PM
I had sex with myself.
If that counts?
If you were cloned, an then had sex with "yourself", I think that would count.

Yeah thats about right then.

anacacia
03-31-2006, 07:21 PM
How did you have intercource with yourself?

Lychon
03-31-2006, 07:23 PM
Could someone change the thread title to be gramatically correct and use HAVE... It'd driving me crazy.
Your just mad because they did had secks before you. http://www.geocities.com/chadmonkey/pimp.gif

Man, I could tell you some <!--****ed-->*snip* up stories about me and sex, but I think I would be banned for being a perverse, mentally unstable, psychotic little bitch, lol . :D

Anyways, the first time I had sex...hmmm...you know, at this very moment I don't really remember when I had sex for the first time.

-LYCHON

Do no go around the filters. ~ Leeza

Flying Mullet
03-31-2006, 07:32 PM
Man, I could tell you some *snip* up stories about me and sex,
<a href="http://www.geocities.com/chadmonkey/baldenjesus.jpg">Me too.</a>

Madame Adequate
03-31-2006, 07:34 PM
20 and still not secksed by anyone. I thought it was going to happen, but apparently we had completely opposing views on where the relationship was going.

i.e. I thought that could be fairly described as 'somewhere' whilst she thought it was approximated better as 'nowhere'.

anacacia
03-31-2006, 07:35 PM
I could tell you a story...

This one time...

Aw screw it. :p

And who cares if you are grammically incorect... this is a messege board. Not english class.

marc
03-31-2006, 07:37 PM
How did you have intercource with yourself?

It depends what you mean by intercourse with oneself......
anyhow

Your story.
Plz tell.

Sephex
03-31-2006, 07:38 PM
17.

anacacia
03-31-2006, 07:39 PM
Okay... I would describe sex as anything doing with the male or female organ.

Okay...

This one time... I was in the shower... but I wanted soup... so I... like... totally got some.

There is my story.

I have no sex stories. I'm 14 years old and a virgin. :p

And I'm on a topic like this... :eep: Something must be wrong with me...

I dunno. :p

Madame Adequate
03-31-2006, 07:40 PM
And who cares if you are grammically incorect... this is a messege board. Not english class.

So proper grammar and spelling only has a place in an English class? Well, you're wrong.

Disagree? Too bad.

http://i2.:bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou:/snfok3.gif

anacacia
03-31-2006, 07:42 PM
I do not dissagree. Actually, I only beleive that on the computer you dont have to use proper english unless typing a report. I know you have to use it in real life.

But that was off topic! :p

I like cows...

That was off topic too.

Uh...

SEX.

There the topic is back on track.

Flying Mullet
03-31-2006, 07:42 PM
And who cares if you are grammically incorect... this is a messege board. Not english class.

So proper grammar and spelling only has a place in an English class? Well, you're wrong.

Disagree? Too bad.

http://i2.:bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou:/snfok3.gif

You just said that to use the pimp smiley.

http://i2.:bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou:/snfok3.gif

anacacia
03-31-2006, 07:44 PM
Pimp Smiley Rocks.

Yes... actually we are still on track. The topic is on sex, and a pimp sells sex with its hoes.

Madame Adequate
03-31-2006, 07:46 PM
You just said that to use the pimp smiley.

http://i2.:bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou:/snfok3.gif

Of course I did! What, are you expecting me to deny this? :p

http://i2.:bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou:/snfok3.gif

boris no no
03-31-2006, 07:49 PM
And who cares if you are grammically incorect... this is a messege board. Not english class.

So proper grammar and spelling only has a place in an English class? Well, you're wrong.

Disagree? Too bad.

http://i2.:bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou::bou:/snfok3.gif
:love:

16 to my best friend
Not really fussed, I lost it, and whoever I sex next better like it :P

fire_of_avalon
03-31-2006, 08:15 PM
18.

SoulTaker*
03-31-2006, 08:20 PM
16, but where Im from, we call it making love.

Lychon
03-31-2006, 08:28 PM
Man, I could tell you some *snip* up stories about me and sex,
<a href="http://www.geocities.com/chadmonkey/baldenjesus.jpg">Me too.</a>

Lol, classic.



Okay... I would describe sex as anything doing with the male or female organ.

Okay...

This one time... I was in the shower... but I wanted soup... so I... like... totally got some.

EXCELLENT!!!

-LYCHON


There is my story.

Shlup
03-31-2006, 08:37 PM
Stan: But Chef, when is the right age for us to start having sex?
Chef: It's very simple, children. The right time to start having sex is... 17.
Kyle: Seventeen?
Chef: Seventeen.
Sheila: So you mean 17 as long as you're in love?
Chef: Nope, just 17.
Gerald: But, what if you're not ready at 17?
Chef: Seventeen! You're ready.

I turned 18 a month later though.

'eMeRaLdFaYe'
03-31-2006, 08:37 PM
I'm was thinking of doing IT for the first time right now... :love: ...

Nah.. just kidding... ^^

Shoeberto
03-31-2006, 08:45 PM
I'm pretty big into the idea of holding off until marriage. So not yet, nor will I for a little while. I just don't think it would feel right until then :)

Chaos
03-31-2006, 11:02 PM
16. Awquard fun! :D:D

Venom
03-31-2006, 11:03 PM
I've been sexually inactive for 150 years.

Necronopticous
03-31-2006, 11:08 PM
This is a Final Fantasy message board, we're all virgins.

Shlup
03-31-2006, 11:11 PM
Shh... I'm trying to be cool here.

You know I drink alcohol too? Yeah, I can down a whole six pack of wine coolers by myself. Oh yeah, you wish you were cool like me.

nik0tine
03-31-2006, 11:12 PM
This is a Final Fantasy message board, we're all virgins.
Thank you. If I may add on to this, I would like to say that anyone who claims to have had sex hasn't.

amratis
03-31-2006, 11:17 PM
16 to my best friend
Not really fussed, I lost it, and whoever I sex next better like it :P

And that woulda been me! If you were coming to the meet-up, as it is though - :cry:

and on topic. 18, and dont regret it atall, it was with someone I really loved and still do.

edit - Man, I would just have to post after that comment from nikotine wouldn't I. :(

Leucant
04-01-2006, 12:22 AM
the tender age of 15, i was raped.......by a moogle... but in all seriousness it was a great experience(as you can imagine). And for all you waiting for marriage...that's so not cool and it's so 19th century. All the popular kids are doing it now. So chop, chop and get on with the gettin it on.

Miriel
04-01-2006, 12:25 AM
the tender age of 15, i was raped.......by a moogle... but in all seriousness it was a great experience(as you can imagine). And for all you waiting for marriage...that's so not cool and it's so 19th century. All the popular kids are doing it now. So chop, chop and get on with the gettin it on.
Your post is "so not cool."

People will get on with it when they're ready, not when someone from a Final Fanasy board tells them that they should do it in order to be one of the cool kids.

Leucant
04-01-2006, 12:30 AM
wow... you must be one of 'those' people with morals and stuff. I was just adding my two cents and if anyone wants to wait for that special time in their life then go right ahead but don't bitch at me when you find out how much fun you missed out on.

Miriel
04-01-2006, 12:35 AM
I can't believe that you're referring to me as someone with morals as though it's a bad thing. :p

And trust me, no one will come to you after having sex and say, "hey mister who made that one post in that one thread, I was SOOOO wrong about waiting til I was married to have sex and you were totally right, god I hate myself for waiting :("

Trust me, that'll never happen. I don't care when other people have sex, who they have sex with, or how many times they have sex. It's not my concern. But it's pretty silly to make a post stating that people who wait are somehow uncool or not popular because of their choice.

Rachel is the ish.
04-01-2006, 12:43 AM
Never. I'm still a virgin. I don't want to have sex, and then loose it to some asswipe. And then regret it.

Samuraid
04-01-2006, 01:15 AM
I'm pretty big into the idea of holding off until marriage. So not yet, nor will I for a little while. I just don't think it would feel right until then :)

NeoCracker
04-01-2006, 01:18 AM
Morals are for squares anyway

Ballistix Man
04-01-2006, 01:23 AM
13.
I dont remmeber it very well.

Mo-Nercy
04-01-2006, 01:30 AM
17. Still waiting on it. At this point, I wouldn't mind losing it to some asswipe of a girl. xD

-TIDUS-
04-01-2006, 01:36 AM
Haha, 15 and still working on it. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to if she didn't want to mainly because, I don't wanna aks her right now, and I think it would be awkward after.

Zeromus_X
04-01-2006, 01:39 AM
I wouldn't want my girlfriend to if she didn't want to mainly because, I don't wanna aks her right now, and I think it would be awkward after.

Acid Raine
04-01-2006, 01:43 AM
I dont plan to for a while. Mostly because of my low self-confidence.

Shlup
04-01-2006, 02:42 AM
This is a Final Fantasy message board, we're all virgins.
Thank you. If I may add on to this, I would like to say that anyone who claims to have had sex hasn't.
You sure about that, princess?

Jebus
04-01-2006, 02:55 AM
I really don't see the point to holding off until marriage, like losing your virginity is some special thing. Maybe it's just another one of those things I don't understand about humans. People are strange.

mega_tonberry
04-01-2006, 03:00 AM
Last year when I was 17. I was really stupid though and I regret it. I'm going to wait until marriage before I even consider it again.

Vyk
04-01-2006, 03:33 AM
That's it. I'm just gonna find me a hooker

lovehurts
04-01-2006, 03:35 AM
I really don't see the point to holding off until marriage, like losing your virginity is some special thing. Maybe it's just another one of those things I don't understand about humans. People are strange.

yep

SammieBabe
04-01-2006, 03:48 AM
This is a Final Fantasy message board, we're all virgins.
Thank you. If I may add on to this, I would like to say that anyone who claims to have had sex hasn't.

Wow. Then I guess both of my pregnancies have been immaculate conceptions...

Social Moon Firesky
04-01-2006, 03:55 AM
I don't see the point in sex, really. My friends all say it's nothing special, and considering I don't know what it's like, how can I say that I miss it?

Anyway, I'm happy being a virgin, and I'll happily continue to be a virgin until I'm about 23 and considering children, or until I find that 'special someone'.

NeoCracker
04-01-2006, 04:05 AM
This is a Final Fantasy message board, we're all virgins.
Thank you. If I may add on to this, I would like to say that anyone who claims to have had sex hasn't.

Wow. Then I guess both of my pregnancies have been immaculate conceptions...

Yes they have, your that good.

Melodies_of_life
04-01-2006, 04:07 AM
Ok I just turned 17 and I am still a virgin. I haven't met a guy yet that is worth loosing it to. Plus what is sooooooo wrong with waiting, when it is that persons choice to begin with. I don't see any problem with loosing it. I don't see any problem with waiting either. It just depends on the person, their values, and what they believe to be right at that time.

Clouded Sky
04-01-2006, 04:10 AM
18 years old, and I'm still waiting (for my wife), although, I'll admit, I've struggled. But I've managed to stay on what I consider the right path for so long, I just get prouder of myself the longer I stick to what i believe.

EDIT: nvm.

lovehurts
04-01-2006, 04:17 AM
This is a strangely sensitive issue for me. I don't even like it when I hardly know some one at the high school who got pregnant and the ass whole father runs away. Or there's some I saw once, and it's a knock up job from a immature and lesser intelligent football player (great future father image...not) I hate to see it in the high school...Maybe in the mid 20's would I consider it a fair decision when chosen wisely and in love...call me old fashion or what have you but these are my beliefs.

It actually angers me to think about at times. I don't know how I feel all round but there's a bit of it.

mooglebunni608
04-01-2006, 05:37 AM
14, still virgin.
might wait till I get married..... seems like a good idea right now... but later on you never kno....

Sing the Sorrow
04-01-2006, 06:31 AM
I'm 18 and still a virgin and like many guys, I'm waiting for that moment. This is not something you play around with. It's something serious. Everyday I have to sit back and watch all these guys take advantage over these girls which result in pregnancies. I say I'm different from every guy girls know, and I truly think I am.

FallenAngel411
04-01-2006, 06:39 AM
Sex scares me.

Ki Ki
04-01-2006, 06:46 AM
I have yet to find that special someone! :excited:

The Summoner of Leviathan
04-01-2006, 06:50 AM
18, virgin

Casey
04-01-2006, 06:53 AM
Im a virgin, so what.

Yew-Yevon
04-01-2006, 06:58 AM
19 virgin

The Captain
04-01-2006, 07:05 AM
17 for me.

With the right person and practice, sex can be an extremely wonderful, very intimate experience that can take a relationship to entirely new levels.

Here's the thing really about sex: it's all about personal comfort. If you feel truly comfortable and are safe, I don't see a problem with it. Now, how can you tell if you're truly comfortable? Therein lies the debate as it's different for everyone. Though in most cases, you'll know if you really feel THAT comfortable that you're ready to explore that aspect of your relationship. Granted, it might not be for everyone, but if you approach it in a mature fashion, it's not really a big deal.

I forget where I heard this, but it was part of a discussion that I found very interesting: the culture of sex, especially for teenagers and young adults has become very murky of late. There are a lot of myths and misconceptions out there that really sully all that sex can and should be with people. From the notions that you should be a complete love-making expert from your very first time (Which is just about impossible, though it improves) to the thought that the more partners you have, the better you become, the whole universe involving sex is very much in distress.

Sex for most people is a very touchy subject and I'm not sure what the answer is, but if approached correctly, it is a wonderful thing in my opinion.

Take care all.

Azure Chrysanthemum
04-01-2006, 07:05 AM
20, also virgin. Not in any big hurry really. We'll see how things go, I'm pretty laissez-faire about most things but I do believe there should be some kind of meaning behind such intimate contact.

It also requires one to have a significant other, as the concept of a hooker bugs me on many, many different levels.

Ugh, I saw one once while I was finishing up work at Target and she walked by me and winked at me and smelled of rancid, over-applied perfume and strong body odor. It turned my stomache.

Miriel
04-01-2006, 07:07 AM
I don't see the point in sex, really. My friends all say it's nothing special, and considering I don't know what it's like, how can I say that I miss it?
I think your friends might be doing something wrong if they call sex "nothing special". :p

The Captain
04-01-2006, 07:11 AM
Agreed.

Take care all.

GooeyToast
04-01-2006, 07:35 AM
I've had phone sex. Does that count?

Cid
04-01-2006, 07:35 AM
I think I had just turned 18. It was as good as it was cracked up to be.

The Captain
04-01-2006, 07:36 AM
Depends, did you give it your all or phone it in during the phone sex?

Take care all.

GhandiOwnsYou
04-01-2006, 07:44 AM
Yeah, anybody in here listen to Love Line? that show will scare you onto the strait and narrow, wholly monogamous path, with complete and total reverence for the act and for whoever you choose to do it with.

Love Line, for those who don't listen, is a sex and drug based radio show, starring Dr. Drew Pinsky, addiction specialist. It is filled with three types of people.

1) Druggies
2) Jackass college guys who want to know why their boy don't function right after they slept with that "girl who's name started with an N"
3) Girls who lost their virginity through rape, molestation, or a guy who obviously didn't respect the act.


#3 is what scares me. because every last one of them, EVERY one, was screwed up by their first sexually active boyfriend. When you see how the event can ping around and completely destroy their entire emotional center, you gain a healthy respect for the power of sex.

I lost my virginity at 18, to my girlfriend of two years. i had let her know a long time before we actually did how I felt, and that i was ready when she was. I went so far as to actually stop her on so many occassions i can't even remember them all, because even though she was telling me yes, I could tell she was still nervous and worried. When it actually did happen, it was good, it was calm, relaxing, very fulfilling, and it's never caused either of us problems in any sense, and i'm very happy it went down as it did.

Loony BoB
04-01-2006, 08:18 AM
19.

nik0tine
04-01-2006, 08:22 AM
You sure about that, princess?Oh, I'm always right. Even when I'm joking.

escobert
04-01-2006, 08:30 AM
I was 15 0r 16 when I lost mine. It was fun I don't regret it at all.



I don't see the point in sex, really. My friends all say it's nothing special, and considering I don't know what it's like, how can I say that I miss it?
I think your friends might be doing something wrong if they call sex "nothing special". :p
Sex to me is nothignspecial. I do frequently have sex and I just don't care. I went years after losing my virginity without sex. don't need nore desire sex. I have sex when the opportunity comes. :/ I dunno I'm weird

Zante
04-01-2006, 08:32 AM
Sex has the meaning you give it, is what I think. (18 years old virgin btw, dont plan to have sex anitime in the near future)

Miriel
04-01-2006, 08:37 AM
I don't see the point in sex, really. My friends all say it's nothing special, and considering I don't know what it's like, how can I say that I miss it?
I think your friends might be doing something wrong if they call sex "nothing special". :p
Sex to me is nothignspecial. I do frequently have sex and I just don't care. I went years after losing my virginity without sex. don't need nore desire sex. I have sex when the opportunity comes. :/ I dunno I'm weird
Perhaps sex might be more special if you found someone who was really special to have sex with. :)

But yeah, I feel bad for people who say that sex isn't anything special for them. It's like people who say that a piping hot giant white chocolate/macadamia nut cookie topped with homemade vanilla ice cream is "nothing special". I mean god, of course it's special, it's delicious.

Cid
04-01-2006, 08:37 AM
I took sex too seriously in the past. If I did it all over again, I wouldn't have waited so long nor been so conscious of keeping my partners to a minimum.

Dignified Pauper
04-01-2006, 08:38 AM
i had sex with Psy, Old Manus, and Meat Puppet. It was glorious.

Jebus
04-01-2006, 08:43 AM
Perhaps sex might be more special if you found someone who was really special to have sex with. :)

But yeah, I feel bad for people who say that sex isn't anything special for them. It's like people who say that a piping hot giant white chocolate/macadamia nut cookie topped with homemade vanilla ice cream is "nothing special". I mean god, of course it's special, it's delicious.


It really isn't that special. If it was special, it wouldn't happen so often.

It's a natural biological process, the closest *mundane* thing I can compare it to is cellular regeneration, and that's not exactly special.

I mean it only serves two purposes, procreation and pleasure, neither of which are anyways extraordinary.

Loony BoB
04-01-2006, 08:47 AM
I mean it only serves two purposes, procreation and pleasure, neither of which are anyways extraordinary.
For many people it serves more purposes, psychologically. For some it is a sign of commitment, for some a symbol of love, etc.

Jebus
04-01-2006, 08:48 AM
You people and your symbolism, honestly. Nothing means what it means anymore.

The Captain
04-01-2006, 08:51 AM
Sometimes sex is just sex?

Take care all.

Loony BoB
04-01-2006, 08:54 AM
For some people, yeah. But I rather see it as more, personally.

Nothing is special unless you make it special. But I'd rather have something special than not.

Jebus
04-01-2006, 08:54 AM
Well, that <i>was</i> my point, but then BoB threw in some sort of metaphysical/emotional thing messed that up, and completely threw me off in the process.

Even though I talk to them on a daily basis, I somehow keep forgetting that humans are a creature that thrives on it's emotions and beliefs. It's enough to give you an aneurism.

Miriel
04-01-2006, 08:54 AM
It really isn't that special. If it was special, it wouldn't happen so often.

It's a natural biological process, the closest *mundane* thing I can compare it to is cellular regeneration, and that's not exactly special.

I mean it only serves two purposes, procreation and pleasure, neither of which are anyways extraordinary.
You're calling sex mundane? Man I feel sorry for you. It is special to a lot of people even if it isn't for you. And in a word, sex should be orgasmic not mundane. :p

The Captain
04-01-2006, 08:56 AM
Can people that aren't human have aneurisms? (Question for Jebus)



Again, I agree with Miriel.


Take care all.

Shlup
04-01-2006, 08:56 AM
I've been having sex regularly with the same person for years and it's anything but mundane. It's fan-freaking-tastic is what it is.

EDIT: Can people that aren't... human... *ponders* ...what? No. What?

Strider
04-01-2006, 08:58 AM
Rub it in, why don't ya?

Jebus
04-01-2006, 09:00 AM
*shrug* Having never had sex myself, I have only conjecture and conversation with those who have had it to go off of.

I have to admit, that I understand little of the emotional aspect, so that just leaves the biological aspect, and the baser aspect based around pleasure. I guess I just don't know what I'm talking about then.

Maybe I just think too much.

Loony BoB
04-01-2006, 09:02 AM
Symbol isn't always the right word. More so giving something meaning. Just like you don't kiss every person you come across in the street just because you feel like it. You only kiss the ones you actually care about - it's a sign of love or lust. But is it really important in any way if you take away it's meaning? No, it's planting lips on some other person's body, nothing more. :p People have trophies, people have letters, people have sentimental value. They have framed photos. All of these things are down to emotion. To deny emotional attachment to things is to deny humanity.

The Captain
04-01-2006, 09:04 AM
Quite a lot of good points being made.

Take care all.

Yamaneko
04-01-2006, 09:04 AM
Everything is life should be experienced before any final conclusion can be derived. I think the scientific process calls for repeated experiments. ;)

Jebus
04-01-2006, 09:05 AM
Haha, that it does, but I don't think most women would appreciate some guy they don't know approaching them for sex "in the name of science."

fantasyjunkie
04-01-2006, 09:06 AM
I was 18 years old, and had a one night stand with a 28 year old telephone operator named Rosie :)

Shlup
04-01-2006, 09:06 AM
I think the scientific process calls for repeated experiments. ;)
Alright, but only because you've deemed it so. I'll be back in half an hour.

Yamaneko
04-01-2006, 09:07 AM
Haha, that it does, but I don't think most women would appreciate some guy they don't know approaching them for sex "in the name of science."
There goes my chance.

Shlup: Get me some Oreos before you come back.

Shlup
04-01-2006, 09:09 AM
I wish we had some freakin' Oreos. Oh man, now you've started me on a craving.

Miriel
04-01-2006, 09:13 AM
I wish we had some freakin' Oreos. Oh man, now you've started me on a craving.
OREO PAZOOKIE! *spasms*

Loony BoB
04-01-2006, 09:15 AM
Haha, that it does, but I don't think most women would appreciate some guy they don't know approaching them for sex "in the name of science."
You'd be surprised.

EDIT: Oh, you said 'most'. Never mind then.

The Captain
04-01-2006, 09:16 AM
Could be a new pick-up line craze.

Take care all.

escobert
04-01-2006, 09:24 AM
I don't see the point in sex, really. My friends all say it's nothing special, and considering I don't know what it's like, how can I say that I miss it?
I think your friends might be doing something wrong if they call sex "nothing special". :p
Sex to me is nothignspecial. I do frequently have sex and I just don't care. I went years after losing my virginity without sex. don't need nore desire sex. I have sex when the opportunity comes. :/ I dunno I'm weird
Perhaps sex might be more special if you found someone who was really special to have sex with. :)

But yeah, I feel bad for people who say that sex isn't anything special for them. It's like people who say that a piping hot giant white chocolate/macadamia nut cookie topped with homemade vanilla ice cream is "nothing special". I mean god, of course it's special, it's delicious.


eww that thing sounds gross :/ I agree I need to find that special person and it would make it a lot better. I dunno I just an't get inot it when it's random girls I don't have feelings for. I do't want to go into muhc detail but basically the last time I had sex lieka week or so aago I didn't even get off I just wanted to sleep. I couldn't wait for her to finiish so I could just pass out. That's all I wanted was sleep :/

Jebus
04-01-2006, 09:24 AM
Haha, that it does, but I don't think most women would appreciate some guy they don't know approaching them for sex "in the name of science."
You'd be surprised.

EDIT: Oh, you said 'most'. Never mind then.

One thing I learned through years of science classes is to never make 'always' 'never' or 'all' statements. :p

Edit: Oh the irony.

Kawaii Ryűkishi
04-01-2006, 09:25 AM
Daniel Towns's "I'll Suck off Your Face and Post Pictures on the Internet" and Other Surefire Pick-Up Strategies

Miriel
04-01-2006, 09:27 AM
eww that thing sounds gross :/
You're nuts.

escobert
04-01-2006, 09:30 AM
I am :( I don't care for sex and I hate sweets :(

GhandiOwnsYou
04-01-2006, 02:17 PM
Luda said it best

"Some people say sex is overated but they just aint doin it right"

Rocket Edge
04-01-2006, 02:42 PM
15. sex is overrated. its gotten better since im older but i think i built it up too much... maybe i need to find a person i can trust.

besides everything else, where i live the girls want it more than the guys, whats a guy to do?!:(

on a side-note, i think sex is anything but mundane, it means a big deal to alot of people.

Avathar
04-01-2006, 03:02 PM
17. I was together with my girlfriend since we were 15, and most people were surprised we haven't done it by like a year later O_o lmao, why should you have to hurry things up. That's no good for noone^^

Plus: Sex is just awesome:love:

Plus Plus: I'm still together with the same girl ^_^ O_^wow, almost 5 years........

Markus. D
04-01-2006, 03:02 PM
14, Nervously exciting... and I was sooooo not good at it, I am going to wait till I am either 18, or married, or bored when 16 later in the year.

KoShiatar
04-01-2006, 03:35 PM
46 years old.

Kids are giving themselves up too early these days!
Hahahahahaha! <3

XD

Huh, I was...quite old.

Night Warrior
04-04-2006, 07:29 PM
When i was 13 with the neighborhood tart,it was payment for a packet of cigs. (I regret it though)

Zell's Fists of Fury
04-04-2006, 07:49 PM
I dated this girl for a while... she was really a... nasty freak. She just loved to... get down with... sex all the time. It was like... anytime of day... she was like, "Yeah, let's go! I'm so nasty!" And I'd be nailing her and she'd be like, "Oh, you're nailing me! cool!"

Flying Mullet
04-04-2006, 07:50 PM
You really shouldn't talk about your mom like that Spiff. :(

Zell's Fists of Fury
04-04-2006, 07:58 PM
Nobody asked you. :mad2:

Rye
04-04-2006, 08:00 PM
I dated this girl for a while... she was really a... nasty freak. She just loved to... get down with... sex all the time. It was like... anytime of day... she was like, "Yeah, let's go! I'm so nasty!" And I'd be nailing her and she'd be like, "Oh, you're nailing me! cool!"

Did she feel like a bag of sand? ;)

Cruise Control
04-04-2006, 08:01 PM
I'm pretty big into the idea of holding off until marriage. So not yet, nor will I for a little while. I just don't think it would feel right until then :)

Levian
04-04-2006, 08:04 PM
I want to wait with sex until after Final Fantasy XII has been released.

War Angel
04-04-2006, 08:14 PM
I was with this dude... he said it was meaningful... next thing I know, he has a book written about him and millions worship him. :mad2:

WAY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME!

(A bit over 18, wasn't meaningful, wasn't fun, but it was about damned time)

Fuzakeru
04-04-2006, 08:28 PM
Long story tons of people have heard over and over again - the short version.

- Met a guy online
- Fell in love
- Flew up to Michigan six months later
- Lost my virginity to him the third night I was there at the age of 18 during ( He was 17 )

I remember making a thread about it in EoEE about whether or not I should go through with losing my virginity or not just to see what others thought of it. x_x

And by the way - if you have sex with someone that you feel comfortable around it can be one of the most rewarding experiences. Sometimes its mental and brings you closer and sometimes its just to get frustration out when you're angry or you try new things and discover new things about yourself. Either way - good times.

amratis
04-04-2006, 08:39 PM
I want to wait with sex until after Final Fantasy XII has been released.

That'll be another 5 years then?

Levian
04-04-2006, 09:02 PM
At least.

Rocket Edge
04-04-2006, 09:03 PM
I dated this girl for a while... she was really a... nasty freak. She just loved to... get down with... sex all the time. It was like... anytime of day... she was like, "Yeah, let's go! I'm so nasty!" And I'd be nailing her and she'd be like, "Oh, you're nailing me! cool!"

Did she feel like a bag of sand? ;)
ha!

Drift
04-04-2006, 09:13 PM
still waiting on that girlfriend thing to go through first ya know?

tifastrife
04-04-2006, 09:18 PM
well i lost mine at 14 bad i no but am not proud of it:(

Timber Maniac
04-04-2006, 09:22 PM
...........perhaps I should have looked to see if other people can view my poll response before I voted..........

Ultima Shadow
04-04-2006, 09:25 PM
Does raping beavers tentacle-style count?

If so, then no.

If not, then... still nope.

I'm a virgin... even though every girl within a 700 miles radius wants to have sex with me so badly that they would do ANYTHING just to get it on for 1 min, because I'm soooooooo damn SEXYEEEEEEEEAAAAAAH!!!!!

However... I'm also very picky. So I'll only do it with the best of the best hotties. Too bad, it seems like none of those exists within my 700 mile sex-magnet radius.

Flying Mullet
04-04-2006, 09:30 PM
Perhaps you need to work on your radius?

Ultima Shadow
04-04-2006, 09:56 PM
Perhaps you need to work on your radius?Yeah, probably. I'll just need to find out HOW I'm supposed to make it reach futher. Of course, I could just create my own TV-show with the title "Watch this program if you are a hot chick" that I'll send worldwide! In the TV-show, I'll just appear on the screen for a while, doing my sexy indian rain-dance and some other attracting things to spread my undeniable hottness into the hearts of all the hot girls who are watching the show. Then, I'll arrange a gigantic worldwide hottness competition were the winner gets to have sex with me... if she's looking good enough.

Anaisa
04-04-2006, 10:13 PM
Perhaps you need to work on your radius?Yeah, probably. I'll just need to find out HOW I'm supposed to make it reach futher. Of course, I could just create my own TV-show with the title "Watch this program if you are a hot chick" that I'll send worldwide! In the TV-show, I'll just appear on the screen for a while, doing my sexy indian rain-dance and some other attracting things to spread my undeniable hottness into the hearts of all the hot girls who are watching the show. Then, I'll arrange a gigantic worldwide hottness competition were the winner gets to have sex with me... if she's looking good enough.
With a show that only "hot chicks" can watch, the ratings will be really low. It would be a race against time to find one before the show got cancelled.

Ultima Shadow
04-05-2006, 11:01 AM
With a show that only "hot chicks" can watch, the ratings will be really low. It would be a race against time to find one before the show got cancelled.
Do you seriously think they could cancel something "I" come up with? :greenie:

Also, everyone are allowed to watch it. It's just that all hot chicks absolutely MUST watch it. ;)

Aara
04-05-2006, 12:46 PM
I lost mine when I was 14. I played FFX & I was So sad Tidus went away. So I has sex with a guy that looked like him.

Ballistix Man
04-05-2006, 12:57 PM
I lost mine when I was 14. I played FFX & I was So sad Tidus went away. So I has sex with a guy that looked like him.
Wow fanaticism to the extreme.

Reine
04-05-2006, 12:59 PM
I kinda share Jebus' view here, but of course there is the scientists' "curiosity towards the unknown" :shifty:

Aara
04-05-2006, 03:50 PM
I lost mine when I was 14. I played FFX & I was So sad Tidus went away. So I has sex with a guy that looked like him.
Wow fanaticism to the extreme.
Yeah. *giggles*

Ballistix Man
04-05-2006, 03:52 PM
I bet its a lil odd now that there is X-2

Levian
04-05-2006, 03:52 PM
Let's just be glad she wasn't sad when Kefka passed away.

boris no no
04-05-2006, 03:54 PM
Let's just be glad she wasn't sad when Kefka passed away.
What are you talking about? Kefkas hot as!

Morgoth_Bauglir
04-05-2006, 03:59 PM
Let's just be glad she wasn't sad when Kefka passed away.
What are you talking about? Kefkas hot as!


lol

tifastrife
04-05-2006, 05:35 PM
I lost mine when I was 14. I played FFX & I was So sad Tidus went away. So I has sex with a guy that looked like him.

thats quite weird the guy i was with kinda look like a younger version of Squall:eek: wee are way to into ff games obv lmao j/k:love:

faster skating penguin
04-05-2006, 06:35 PM
I lost mine when I was 14. I played FFX & I was So sad Tidus went away. So I has sex with a guy that looked like him.
Wow fanaticism to the extreme.
Yeah. *giggles*

I always thought Tidus was small in the pants. Confirmation?

Psydekick
04-05-2006, 06:37 PM
You did it with Squall:eek: I am 12 so obviously im a virgin. Well perhaps i had a bit of a "behind the bikesheds" with PSY:rolleyes2

Flying Mullet
04-05-2006, 06:38 PM
Yeah, we know all about you and Psy.

Ballistix Man
04-05-2006, 06:43 PM
I lost mine when I was 14. I played FFX & I was So sad Tidus went away. So I has sex with a guy that looked like him.
Wow fanaticism to the extreme.
Yeah. *giggles*

I always thought Tidus was small in the pants. Confirmation?

Anaisa
04-05-2006, 07:10 PM
With a show that only "hot chicks" can watch, the ratings will be really low. It would be a race against time to find one before the show got cancelled.
Do you seriously think they could cancel something "I" come up with? :greenie:

Also, everyone are allowed to watch it. It's just that all hot chicks absolutely MUST watch it. ;)
Well, it definitely wouldn't be cancelled if Team Super Sexy had their own channel to broadcast it on!

tifastrife
04-05-2006, 07:23 PM
You did it with Squall:eek: I am 12 so obviously im a virgin. Well perhaps i had a bit of a "behind the bikesheds" with PSY:rolleyes2
well obv it wasint Squall lmao but he really does look like him but younger obv god he is hott *dribbles*:tongue:

Jack
04-06-2006, 01:04 AM
18. This year in fact.

I did it with my girlfriend of almost 1 straight year but we've been out before when I was 16... Basically, her ex used to force himself on her all the time when she was 14 (eww) and his friend tried to rape her. So she was so scared, and I liked her too much to push for anything.
We had put it off and off because we were enjoying whatever we were doing... Our friends had built up all this pressure so we became worried about it...But we eventually came to our senses...

Either way, i wish i'd done it sooner, but I enjoy it too much to care about crap like that. To put it nicely, its good stuff. :D
We can't believe we got all worried about it, it's great.

Lychon
04-06-2006, 01:10 AM
18. This year in fact.

I did it with my girlfriend of almost 1 straight year but we've been out before when I was 16... Basically, her ex used to force himself on her all the time when she was 14 (eww) and his friend tried to rape her. So she was so scared, and I liked her too much to push for anything.
We had put it off and off because we were enjoying whatever we were doing... Our friends had built up all this pressure so we became worried about it...But we eventually came to our senses...

Either way, i wish i'd done it sooner, but I enjoy it too much to care about crap like that. To put it nicely, its good stuff. :D
We can't believe we got all worried about it, it's great.

In the most Holy and High words of Bill and Ted:

"EXCELLENT!!!"

That stuff with her ex-boyfriends is just appalling, and even more appalling is realizing how often it happens to girls and women. Kudos to you for being there for her.

-LYCHON

Renmiri
04-06-2006, 02:45 AM
17 for me.

With the right person and practice, sex can be an extremely wonderful, very intimate experience that can take a relationship to entirely new levels.

Here's the thing really about sex: it's all about personal comfort. If you feel truly comfortable and are safe, I don't see a problem with it. Now, how can you tell if you're truly comfortable? Therein lies the debate as it's different for everyone. Though in most cases, you'll know if you really feel THAT comfortable that you're ready to explore that aspect of your relationship. Granted, it might not be for everyone, but if you approach it in a mature fashion, it's not really a big deal.

I forget where I heard this, but it was part of a discussion that I found very interesting: the culture of sex, especially for teenagers and young adults has become very murky of late. There are a lot of myths and misconceptions out there that really sully all that sex can and should be with people. From the notions that you should be a complete love-making expert from your very first time (Which is just about impossible, though it improves) to the thought that the more partners you have, the better you become, the whole universe involving sex is very much in distress.

Sex for most people is a very touchy subject and I'm not sure what the answer is, but if approached correctly, it is a wonderful thing in my opinion.

Take care all.

Mom of 3 here. No teenage pregnancy thank heavens! 3 little darlings and 10 years of marriage. Listen to the Captain, that's my advice.

On a side note, for those who opted to wait, sex is delicious, but not always. The first time will be pretty much your worst time, but if you do it with someone who cares about you and you trust him/her, then it will only improve. Sometimes it will feel awkward, sometimes it will be delicious. Sex life with a partner you care is like a journey. Some days you get nowhere other days you can swear you saw the moon on your way up.

Sometimes you will get carried away and do it with someone who doesn't deserve your trust and you will regret it. Sometimes your emotions will hurt a lot. The sense of betrayal allied with shame and regret sting. And how! But don't despair because eventually you will find the right way - for you - to decide whether it is worth it or not. And when you find that special someone that deserves your trust and cares about you it will be magic. Even when you just hold hands.

PS: And for the ones who are doing it, please don't forget condons! Sex is already too complicated without your overall health at risk....

thizzle
04-06-2006, 06:08 AM
Im a virgin. Any californian girls want to have sex with me now?

age13

Zell's Fists of Fury
04-06-2006, 06:11 AM
Yes. :aimkiss:

Leeza
04-06-2006, 06:22 AM
Looks like this thread has run its course.