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lovehurts
08-07-2006, 03:28 AM
Where as I have a good heart and a very loving personality. I am skinny so I fear that makes me automagically undesirable. My self esteem is ok . But like most people I acknowledge stero types with the human race. Sterotypes that most people acknowledge. Chicks like the bigger guys. Im small and skinny, I blame my genes and the fact that I dont do sports or anything like that. All and all I think most chicks find skinny guys undesirable at a large scale just by 1st sight. Women like the bigger man I suppose. So I feel that the skinny guys are basically dorked. I would post this in EOEE but I was banned from there for being a little too inconsiderate and unthoughtfull. So. This is basically , for once, again, a girls thread to talk about skinny guys and if they could or would have been able to have a chance with you.
As in like I mean like want to keep and hold on to like. I'll die lonely was supposed to be the title...oops.

Cloudstrife4003
08-07-2006, 03:30 AM
U aren't the only one-I AM HATED TOO!! I'm not good with chicks...

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 03:31 AM
:p
Are you skinny too?

Sylvie
08-07-2006, 03:31 AM
I'm skinny too. I've had 2 girlfriends in my life.

I am just underestimated. Me being skinny means nothing.

Cloudstrife4003
08-07-2006, 03:32 AM
ya...EVERYONE EXCEPT GENJI hates me...

Rye
08-07-2006, 03:33 AM
I prefer skinnier guys. I mean, when it's to the point where they weigh less then I do, then usually not, but I do prefer skinny guys to overly buff guys, or very fat guys.

Cloudstrife4003
08-07-2006, 03:34 AM
YAY!!!! I'm 97lbs. i'm kinda underweight..but it's kool...i think..I'm 13 too..

Sylvie
08-07-2006, 03:34 AM
People often make fun of me for the size of my wrists. It hurts sometimes, but I generally don't care.

nik0tine
08-07-2006, 03:34 AM
Wait a minute.. This isn't in EoEO... :shifty:
...
...
...

!!!


*glee*

Psychotic
08-07-2006, 03:35 AM
I'm underweight, and I've never had any problems with girls.

If she turns you down for a date or whatever because you're skinny, she's obviously too shallow for you to form a decent relationship with anyway, and I'm assuming that's what you want.

AN EDIT OF SOME KIND! HOLD THE PHONE! I just weighed myself and calculated my BMI, and it seems I am no longer underweight. I am "normal". I'm sorry, skinny guys. I sold out. :(

kikimm
08-07-2006, 03:35 AM
It depends on how skinny you are. Sticks of either sex are unattractive to pretty much everyone, I'd say. But yeah skinny is better than macho.

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 03:36 AM
Yah, I had a chance with 2 dates actually in high school but I kind of messed it up but it wasnt because I was skinny. I guess you guys are right. I'll keep reading the replies though , they are interesting.

Cloudstrife4003
08-07-2006, 03:37 AM
Isn't 97lbs underweight for a 13 yr old? Like me? EVERYONE hates me at school...They call me gay for some reason..

Sylvie
08-07-2006, 03:38 AM
Not really. I'm 13 and weigh about 85. I'm underweight. Trust me, I eat like theres no tommorow.

DK
08-07-2006, 03:39 AM
I'm underweight, and I've never had any problems with girls.

That's because you like boys. :aimkiss:

kikimm
08-07-2006, 03:40 AM
It depends on how tall you are. If you're short, 97 pounds isn't really underweight.

Sylvie
08-07-2006, 03:40 AM
And also:

Skinny > Fat

I'll take being skinny than being fat anyday. I also love it when fat people make fun of me.

Psychotic
08-07-2006, 03:41 AM
That's because you like boys. :aimkiss:Every boy except you. :kiss:

DK
08-07-2006, 03:42 AM
Ah, unrequited love is such a pain. I'll wait for you, though, Paul, until the day I die. :(

Also, I'll take a nice person over an obnoxious skinny or fat or beautiful person anyday. :spin:

Christmas
08-07-2006, 03:54 AM
Barret: Yeah, you're strong. Probably all them guys in SOLDIER are. But don't
forget that your skinny ass's workin' for AVALANCHE now! Don't get no ideas
'bout hangin' with Shinra.

Cloud: Stayin' with Shinra? You asked me a question and I answered it…that's
all. I'm going upstairs. I want to talk about my money.



Cloud is a pretty cool guy. I spent about ages six and up trying to be him.

Dedicated to skinny boy. (http://forums.eyesonff.com/showthread.php?t=89868)

A dedicated romance thread for Skinny boy (http://forums.eyesonff.com/showthread.php?t=89871)

Two girls to be voted for skinny boy, (http://forums.eyesonff.com/showthread.php?t=87243)

Rye
08-07-2006, 04:05 AM
Aw, Christmas, you sure know how to pick up the morale. :p

Shoeberto
08-07-2006, 04:09 AM
Isn't 97lbs underweight for a 13 yr old? Like me? EVERYONE hates me at school...They call me gay for some reason..
That's Junior High, my friend. All you can do is just push on through.

rubah
08-07-2006, 04:16 AM
While skinny boys are hot as all get out, I do not want a boy smaller than I am. And I am not skinny. Even for a boy.

ljkkjlcm9
08-07-2006, 04:17 AM
I'm 20, I'm 5'9" and I weigh 130

however, I am a lot stronger than I look and I do have muscles (that you can see if you ever get to see me unrobed, but they're not big or obvious)

It's not about how much you weigh, but I mean I'm sure most girls don't want to weigh a lot more than their bf, but sometimes they do weigh more. You have to learn to be a charmer to get the girls, like me!

THE JACKEL

mooglebunni608
08-07-2006, 04:22 AM
Meh, I prefer skinny guys. Muscles are just -ew-
But the same as Rubah. If a guy is smaller than me, there is a problem.
:)

Reine
08-07-2006, 04:31 AM
I weigh 53 kgs, and my brother, who is 6 years younger than me, weighs 58

Yeah, im damn skinny, but I dont suffer from the whole skinny = ugly thing

Angelroo
08-07-2006, 04:38 AM
Skinny guys rule! Trust me! At least they don't need two airplane seats...But how skinny are we talking (I'm curious)?

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 04:40 AM
How skinny in my case?

Angelroo
08-07-2006, 04:48 AM
yep. you, lovehurts

Nominus Experse
08-07-2006, 04:51 AM
Well, truly, if the girl automatically labels you with this form of biased perception, than I question how truthfully deep and complex she may be.

And I have yet to experience the sort of stereotyping that you speak of. I will admit that I have not dated much, and have been dating my current girlfriend for ten months now, but in all the times prior to finding a decent, lasting relationship, it was NOT due to the fact that I was too skinny.

I mean, with my girlfriend, she could have chosen many, many things to distance herself from me, for many aspects that I care not to speak of become readily apparent when I am met in person; however, she looked deeper, and found someone she loved. If she can overcome all of the /xxx.gif/xxx.gif/xxx.gif/xxx.gif that I had when I asked for her to follow me in the sense of romantics, then I imagine that you will one day find a girl caring enough to see past a simple aesthetical quality/fault/wahtever.

I can't possibly be the ONLY lucky one here.

Miriel
08-07-2006, 04:54 AM
Skinny is better than fat, but too skinny is not attractive. Not to me anyway. I like a nice healthy weight. I don't want the guy to be smaller than I am. And that doesn't make me superficial. I just have my preferences.

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 04:56 AM
I dont know how can I say how skinny I am. I mean I dont know how...should I weigh myself and give you my hieght?

rubah
08-07-2006, 05:02 AM
Get a sewing measureing tape, the kind that's like a ribbon, and measure around your chest, hips, and belly button :P

KentaRawr!
08-07-2006, 05:03 AM
I don't think girls won't like you just 'cause you're skinny. Just make sure to stock up on the bling-bling. :cool:

To be serious though, anyone that won't go out with you just because you're skinny probably isn't worth your time. But I do question wether or not the stereo-type is there. I have never really heard of that.

Angelroo
08-07-2006, 05:06 AM
Lol, just tell me how tall you are and approx. how much you weigh. I doubt you're grotesquely skinny, though. So cheer up, skinnybones :)

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 05:10 AM
I weigh 135 pounds about and I am 5 feet tall or soemthing...I think that's about right 4 foot something maybe...

Jojee
08-07-2006, 05:16 AM
5 feet tall and 135 lbs is not in the least skinny. If you're skinny, then I think you're mistaken about the weight and/or height, try again ;) I'm 5 feet tall and 95 lbs, and I'm fairly normal, although by American standards people will often call me skinny.

I like skinny guys. Although yeah, if they're smaller than me... that'd be weird, cos' I really don't know any guys my age smaller than me xD

Angelroo
08-07-2006, 05:17 AM
It's ok, you weigh more than me so you win! :D But seriously you shouldn't be self-conscious

And yeah, the American standards are really nothing to go by as 60-some% are overweight.

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 05:19 AM
yah !!1 LOVEHURTS WIN!:D ;) :love: :D

Jojee
08-07-2006, 05:21 AM
Angelroo: Yeah, but I heard some European country... I think it's France, if not, then England... passed America in overweight-ness lately >:</>D Hah!

Also what's with the forums? They're messed up. Won't let me quote, and every post I make is apparently trying to be a double post.

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 05:24 AM
I cant quote either I thought it was my computer.

Moon Rabbits
08-07-2006, 05:36 AM
Skinny guys are hot.

Alive-Cat
08-07-2006, 09:41 AM
Personally I would hate to be muscular. :(

Pant Leg Eater from the Bad World
08-07-2006, 09:46 AM
How can you think 5 ft and 135 lbs is skinny? I am 5'4 and 120 lbs. I am by far the heaviest set low weight wrestler I know. There is no way you are skinny. So be happy now.

Xenyth
08-07-2006, 09:58 AM
Most of my friends go for skinny guys then macho men. I'm...not sure which I prefer

Anaisa
08-07-2006, 10:05 AM
You shouldn't want to be with anyone that only likes you for the way you look. If somebody genuinely likes you, they won't care that you're skinny.

Slade
08-07-2006, 10:27 AM
I'm pretty skinny. Not small, just skinny. Haven't weighed myself in ages so I can't really tell you my actual weight. But that aside I'm skinny, but I've been told by numerous girls that I am hot, so....yeah. My self esteem went up a few hundred bars :jess:

Jess
08-07-2006, 11:08 AM
As long as they aren't smaller than me it's all good. :jess:

Old Manus
08-07-2006, 11:13 AM
Just be grateful that you aren't fat.

EDIT: Not that I'm fat, of course.

daggertrepe
08-07-2006, 12:10 PM
I'm underweight. In health class the online scale said so. But guys love skinny girls. Not overly skinny, but athletic skinny. :)

Loony BoB
08-07-2006, 12:36 PM
Psh, I'm as skinny as they come and I've never had too much trouble getting the girls I like. So long as you can be yourself and have fun with them, be happy and confident, then you should be okay. Charisma and a good heart are far more attractive things than a bulky body.

PS. 5'8" and 120lbs. I've had seven girlfriends in the past six years. *shrugs*

Twisted Tinkerbell
08-07-2006, 12:55 PM
I've dated guys skinnier than me, looks aren't an issue to me, I'd rather date a guy who is skinnier than me than a guy with muscels.

I Am Stoner
08-07-2006, 12:55 PM
I don't care how my girlfriend looks or how I look. If some girls only go for looks then they can f**k right off in my opinion. I want someone to love me for who I am, my personality, my feelings, my love, not for how skinny, how muscular or how overwieght I am. I am fairly muscular, but im not skinny or fat, but in the middle. What im saying is, if you worry about how girls percive you then you will never get a girlfriend, pull yourself together man and get some confidance, trust me, I bet there a lots of girls out there that would go for you. Don't worry dude, your time will come.;)

Odaisé Gaelach
08-07-2006, 01:52 PM
5' 10" and 120-125 lbs (55-57kg).

Meh. I really don't care.

ff_sweden
08-07-2006, 01:57 PM
I weigh 59 kgs and that´s normal.... because im 1, 80cm

Rye
08-07-2006, 02:31 PM
I'm 5 feet tall and 120 pounds. I'm definitely not skinny, but I wouldn't say I'm really fat either. I guess I'm a medium-ish weight. :)

Owen Macwere
08-07-2006, 02:38 PM
Hmm, I am not really skinny not fat either, I weight about 77 Kg and I am 180 Cm length, but I am not fat. people may think I am comparing my wieght with my length. :p

Fonzie
08-07-2006, 02:41 PM
I'm 5'9 134lbs. I'm pretty strong and a little muscular :D

CRAPTASTIC AVENGER
08-07-2006, 02:50 PM
Some people, like me, look more to personality than muscle becouse I don't want an emipty headed Big guy I don't get along with. I don't see the looks, I see the person you really are so Muscles are kinda optinal in my opinion. Cheer up, theres always someone out there for you.
:D (that was kinda corny but its the truth)

Dignified Pauper
08-07-2006, 03:18 PM
i used to be much more attractive when i was thinner. I say thin because it is a better adjective than skinny.

I was 130 lbs and 5'10, now I'm 165 and 5'10. Some people say I look a lot healthier and better but i have a little bit of a bread basket and pouch for a belly, but you really cannot tell at all.

Either way, my boyfriend is super skinny and kinda toned. I find him attractive. Besides, it may not be because you're skinny, maybe you are just ugly?


P.S.


PS. 5'8" and 120lbs. I've had seven girlfriends in the past six years. *shrugs*

Commitment Issues?

Loony BoB
08-07-2006, 03:50 PM
For them, yes. :p Two were mutual and one was myself doing the breaking up, although that was only after two days.

Old Manus
08-07-2006, 04:32 PM
Maybe you could rustle up a pie chart, BoB?

Fonzie
08-07-2006, 05:06 PM
Why are you so negative lovehurts(negative name :P)?

Raistlin
08-07-2006, 05:12 PM
I'm 5 feet tall and 95 lbs, and I'm fairly normal
Jojo, first off, you're incredibly skinny. Secondly, there's absolutely nothing about you that's normal, freak.

licence
08-07-2006, 05:45 PM
I'm 15 for 6 more days and I'm not skinny. I'm 6ft 2 or 3 and weigh about 151 pounds, maybe more, not much more though. Used to be quite a fat guy though a few years ago, then I was really skinny, now I'm happy with myself. Never had any problems with girls either.
Maybe it isn't your look, maybe it's more of the way you act around girls. If you shy away etc, that might turn them away from you.

I Am Stoner
08-07-2006, 05:58 PM
Listen to the words above dude, they are good advice.

ljkkjlcm9
08-07-2006, 06:10 PM
You know what the best part of this thread is... it's on a Forum for GAMES.

So much for the idea that kids just get fat from playing games all the time. Stupid america and it's generalizations and need to blame things on something.

But yeah... I have a 26"(inch) waist and weigh 130 lbs, and most people think I'm skinny. But of course, that's probably because the Air Force does a waist measurement and you get 3 tries to get below a 29 inch waist, and they only measure me once. I was actually the skinniest person the last 4 times they measured me. But... I just have no fat, I do have some muscle, but not a whole lot. Enough that I'm not a weakling, but not enough that it's really noticeable.

THE JACKEL

Freya
08-07-2006, 06:30 PM
A girl not liking you for being skinny is not right. Dont go for her if thats how she is. I personally like guys skinnier then being big and muscly. If they can easily mkae me do something against my willthen i tend to stay away. I just like my men frail so i can bend them to my will.

Jojee
08-07-2006, 06:45 PM
Wezly, go jump off a bridge! I wish quotes worked. :p Anyway I like being skinny by American standards... but in China I sometimes wore mediums :p :p Didn't really feel skinny at all there.

Hehe and how many of those girls did you meet on the intranet, Bawb? :p Yes pie chart.

fallen_angel9000
08-07-2006, 07:01 PM
idk wat to say cause i've never had a boyfriend. about the skinny thing though, i dont mind it, it's better than muscular.:) so dont worry about the girls that wont date u cause ur skinny. like the previous ppl said, they're probly not worth ur time.

Skarr
08-07-2006, 07:30 PM
I'll admit that being a skinny guy is hard and tough to deal with sometimes. I can understand where lovehurts is coming from, but it's not the end of the world it's only high school ( and that can be a bitch sometimes). Just remember that if weight is an issue to a chic then you're better off my friend.

Peegee
08-07-2006, 07:32 PM
I skipped the replies, but have you considered the obvious answer of eating fatty foods until you aren't skinny any more?

No.78
08-07-2006, 07:39 PM
*reads the topic title* Aww it's nice to see the occasional optimist!

SammieBabe
08-07-2006, 09:23 PM
Until children, I was kinda thin, but I've always been attracted to big guys. I'm about 5'2 - 5'3 and every guy I've seriously dated has been at least 6'0. Hubbie is 6'2. It's not because I'm shallow, its just what I'm attracted to.
Anyway, you shouldn't change who or what you are, based on two rejections in high school. There are plenty of girls out there who would be attracted to you...

Tifa's Real Lover(really
08-07-2006, 09:57 PM
girls go for bigger guys? what a lie xD

lovehurts
08-07-2006, 09:59 PM
Maybe its all in my head then, I seem to be loosing that quickly. :p

I Am Stoner
08-07-2006, 10:39 PM
Hhahahaha, dont worry dude, shrooms make it all go away. Bye bye pain, wooo fly away. hahahaha. Thats what I get for living in the land of hippies all my life.:)

Zeldy
08-07-2006, 11:23 PM
I think it's France, if not, then England... passed America in overweight-ness lately >:D Hah!

Im sure its England :p

Aslong as you have a nice personality it dosn't matter if your skinny, just not skinnier than me kthx

Fate Fatale
08-08-2006, 12:44 AM
I'm 6'0", and I belive that I'm what, 115 lbs. I'm 14 and well 'tis a mess trying to get a girl. No one seems to like the skinny guys around here. especially when there are hotties like drew plank for the girls to drool over. Stupid sports people. I too am stereo-typed as "gay", although I'm not quite sure why. I"ll be a freshman in a few days and hopefully things will have changed.

Cloudstrife4003
08-08-2006, 01:11 AM
Hmmmm...yep...i'm pretty tall...I have a six pack and everything..i must have a high metabolism..i keep staying on 97 lbs *CRY*

JackNapier
08-08-2006, 01:15 AM
I'm tall and skinny but I've had the normal amount of girlfriends in my time. I think it depends on the girls your going after.

licence
08-08-2006, 01:17 AM
Damn, everyone who has given there weight does sound quite skinny for their heights.

Cloudstrife4003
08-08-2006, 01:18 AM
I've only had like 2 REAL relationships-about 50 other ones were just to get someone else who was my friend...I never have Good relationships..I'm cool and everything..but i dunno...I don't talk to much and i'm kinda shy... ^_^

Trumpet Thief
08-08-2006, 01:19 AM
chaos: I always thought girls cared more about the face than the body. :(

Cloudstrife4003
08-08-2006, 01:24 AM
way to help us feel better licence..:(

Trumpet Thief
08-08-2006, 01:26 AM
Rubedo: Something that MIGHT cheer you up is this thought: you would rather be skinny that overweight, wouldn't you?

Materia Hunter Yuffie
08-08-2006, 03:32 AM
I go for personality over looks.

Skarr
08-08-2006, 03:34 AM
Us guys aren't that much different.

JackNapier
08-08-2006, 03:35 AM
You get a thumbs up......arrgh no thumbs up smiley.

Quoting isn't working so, that was meant for materia Hunter Yuffie.

Materia Hunter Yuffie
08-08-2006, 03:53 AM
thanks

Kurui
08-08-2006, 04:15 AM
I feel kinda fat reading this :mad:

Oh well, I'm a girl, and I really don't care what a guy looks like, as long as he doesn't try to put me down for being bigger or smaller than he is :rolleyes2 Today's society should focus more on individual personalities. There's way to many people out there completly obsessed with physical apperence. It makes me want to cry :cry:

Dignified Pauper
08-08-2006, 05:26 AM
I'm BoB..looks like I'll die Loony



Agreed

Shadow8017
08-08-2006, 05:31 AM
what are you talking about? Skinny guys these days are more and more acccepted amongst girls than ever, hell I know alot of girls that even PREFER it. Get over it and quit using it as a crutch.

Shadow Masamune
08-08-2006, 05:42 AM
Never have I seen such a thread screaming, "I'm Emo.."

Please I urge you don't be emo, there are plenty of people in worse situations and if all you have to worry about is being skinny, then life is good.

Over 50% of America is FAT! To be skinny in America is great. Skinny guys with faded pants, and tight shirts (though it's metrosexual) its actually in style.

People make fun of the fact that you are skinny because they are simply jealous. I was skinny for years, I had been swimming since I was 11 years old, I was actually called an, "anorexic mother fucker," once upon a time. I am 5'10" and weighed about 150. Now I am 5'10" and weigh 170, but am getting to about 160 by the end of August, I got a little fat in my old age (21).

I gave up swimming about one year ago and cooked for myself this summer, gaining about 15 lbs. I'd rather be skinny than fat, how about you? Thin is attactive, especially in college.

Dignified Pauper
08-08-2006, 05:52 AM
Skinny guys with faded pants, and tight shirts (though it's metrosexual) its actually in style.

No, that's just European fashion that gays latched onto first and exposed to America.




honestly, in all reality, maybe you're just unattractive, lovehurts, and if that's the case, you'll just have to find someone that matches your level of misfortunate aesthetics, or wait to find a pretty girl who likes you for you. Chances are, the former will like you for you before a pretty girl will. Further, maybe you should not be so picky either.

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 05:56 AM
This isnt about girl trouble....Im not ugly. GEZZE! Ive been asked out on a date many times. The reason it failed is because I ...as in ME turned it down. I just feelt that skinny guys arent as sexy or attractive to the female as the larger and more buffer guy. That is all. Im not emo, Im not ugly. Why does everyone keep saying that I must be ugly. At the least I just need more confidence given the fact that seems to now be in stone for me that girls can like skinner men.

Dude Im 18 years old, how could I be a tottall failure at this love thing even if I wanted to be one...!!!?

WAIT, that's right girls have shown a interest in me before.
whole damn tables full of them.

CALL OFFF THE WHOLE DARN THREAD.

I do ok. Forget this whole thread. I just need to pull myself together. How the hell could I forget who I am like this...I do ok when it comes to this. Forget I said anything.

Wow, just wow , what am I thinking. I just got a little bit skinny since then, I just need to work out a little again, I m tired right now so I blew up ....

Forget this thread. Lovehurts is fine.

Maybe I am being emo with this thread. Forget it.

Thank you all for the posts, I was able to remember how life is for me realisitcally . I was being a emo freak prehaps.

THANKS!!!

:)

Shadow Masamune
08-08-2006, 06:44 AM
Yes I think you are being Emo...

I am 21 and haven't found anyone then again; its hard to find what I am looking for...

For me, I want a lady to be Different. She cannot fit into the category as Teeny Bopper, Gothic, Emo, and/or Sorority type.

I have been looking for a LADY for a couple of years now. One who enjoys
ballroom dancing, Swing dancing, All varieties of music even the oldest.
I want someone I can dance with, listen to jazz with, and drink wine
with. I need someone who fits my unique personality, I like classy
ladies. Swearing is disgusting. I love the Arts and love different
sites. I want one that is caring and compassionate.

I want a lady who wears sundresses and loves class. Being Foreign is
beautiful but never a requirement.


Is this so hard to find?!

...Yes

And who doesn't want a lady who likes Final Fantasy? This would be a plus

So I guess, I just took a post from another forum (related to online dating) and posted it...

CrimeofPassion
08-08-2006, 06:46 AM
I love skinny guys. A lot of muscles is such a turn-off...it looks so gross. :eep:

~*~Celes~*~
08-08-2006, 07:23 AM
I prefer personality over looks, really. I mean, you can't stick with someone who has an ugly personality, it just doesn't work :(

However, it's a plus if the guy has a nice bod. I prefer my guys skinny but with a bit of muscle....not to where they're ripping every shirt that they own, but just enough that I know I can at least be protected to a certain extent. Not that I need a lot of protecting...I may be short (I'm only 4' 10 1/2"), but I'm tough :P

Urumi_boi
08-08-2006, 11:11 AM
Im 190m and im 65 kg....girls look how u can talk and socialize...thats more important...never had probs

Cloudstrife4003
08-08-2006, 04:00 PM
I'm not ugly..I'm actually a pretty handsome guy..but i DO wear tight shirts and baggy pants...maybe they hate the way i dress? But..I guess they hate me bcus...I dunno...lol ^_^

licence
08-08-2006, 04:35 PM
To all those girls who say they prefer personality over looks. How would you ever learn a guys personality if you hadn't been attracted to him physically to start with.

ljkkjlcm9
08-08-2006, 04:51 PM
EVERYONE prefers personality over looks, but of course you must be attracted to them first. I don't know a single person that would actually want to BE WITH someone who was just a horrible person even if they were gorgeous. They may want to hook up with them sometimes but not actually be with them. The idea of personality over looks means that eventually it doesn't matter how they look, they could become less attractive to you, they could get disfigured you'd still love them.

THE JACKEL

Cloudstrife4003
08-08-2006, 04:52 PM
yay! thanks jackel!

licence
08-08-2006, 04:56 PM
Yes, I get that Jackal.

But the point I was making is, they have to be attracted to looks in the first place.


I did see that you pointed that out in your second sentence or something. Sorry.

For example, you could be in a bar and see a girl that isn't what you look for looks-wise but she could be the nicest girl on the planet inside, but because there is no physical attraction to her, you'll never find that out.

41-Inches-Wide
08-08-2006, 04:57 PM
^ It's not that you have to feel a physical attraction to want to get to know someone. Maybe if he does something curious in class or has something that interests you, like a cool bag or a magazine or a videogame and you'd notice, then you'd ask him if he's into that and then the conversation could progress from there on.

You don't have to have a crush on someone to get to know them.

Kurui
08-08-2006, 04:58 PM
To all those girls who say they prefer personality over looks. How would you ever learn a guys personality if you hadn't been attracted to him physically to start with. Maybe by talking to them or being friends with them first?

licence
08-08-2006, 05:00 PM
Point taken.

Still however, that would come back to how the guy actually acts, which is a point that had been raised throughout this thread. If you have nothing at all physically that interests someone or don't do anything to get attention, chances are, they won't get to know the real you and be stuck looking at your exterior.

Posted by Kurui :
Maybe by talking to them or being friends with them first?

Right I understand that, but why would you just talk to a random guy that doesn't interest you? I see what you mean from the friends part.
I'm meaning though, that on a night out, if you see a girl/boy that you think is good looking, chances are if you have enough confidence, you will attempt to spark a conversation. On the other hand, if you see a boy/girl who isn't good looking to you, odds are you won't attempt to talk to them or get to know them

fallen_angel9000
08-08-2006, 05:44 PM
i understand the fact that u have to be attracted to a person to strike a conversation with them, but some ppl actually dont care that much. and wat if someone was just trying to make a friend? would looks really matter in that case?? but as of dating someone, ya, the ppl would have to be attracted to their looks before they get up the courage to strike a conversation. (this is confusing:confused: ).... but wat if its someone over the internet or the person does something that makes u curious? then they can get to know each other w/o worrying about looks... cause then wat if ur attracted to their personality?

ljkkjlcm9
08-08-2006, 06:19 PM
I'm sorry, if you're never physically attracted to someone, you will never be with them. Trust me. I have female friends that think I'm the greatest guy in the world. And they love me, as a friend, because they never had that physical attraction to me. Physical attraction is important to start a relationship.

THE JACKEL

Kurui
08-08-2006, 06:31 PM
Right I understand that, but why would you just talk to a random guy that doesn't interest you? I see what you mean from the friends part.
I'm meaning though, that on a night out, if you see a girl/boy that you think is good looking, chances are if you have enough confidence, you will attempt to spark a conversation. On the other hand, if you see a boy/girl who isn't good looking to you, odds are you won't attempt to talk to them or get to know them I don't claim to be a good example or anything, but I'll talk to anybody who talks to me first, and manages to hold my intrest in the conversation considering that I hardly ever start conversations with people, male or female. A random guy can intrest me without being attractive at all.. maybe it's just me?

licence
08-08-2006, 06:33 PM
No it won't be just you. Just I suppose everyone is different and we both have different outlooks on the matter.

Also, I would talk to anyone who spoke to me if they came over as a nice person after a while. I'm not anti-social or ignorant.

I Am Stoner
08-08-2006, 06:38 PM
Lovehurts dont worry man, you may be an emo, but those who judge people who can express thier feelings and call the "emo's" are not very nice peole, no matter how many people say that you are an emo say, yea so wtf, at least im not a stuck up <!--mutha fuka-->*snip* who likes to judge people who can put thier views forward. The people who say those things obviously think that all men should be "hard, stiff-upper lip, get on with it" type people, if you bottle your emotions up inside then one day they will come flooding out in one massive rage and you may end up hurting someone a lot or even turning psycotic. So always show your emotions fuk everyone else who says different.

Do not go around the filters. ~ Leeza

Twisted Tinkerbell
08-08-2006, 06:42 PM
Please don't turn into Psychotic, Lovehurts, one's enough for all of us. I know I've lost weight again recently, I was bullied for being too thin in high school (teenage boys are pure evil!) I think I look fine, and don't worry if you're emo, so is one of my best friends.

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 06:46 PM
Thanks kitten. YOu're right. Even if I dont get lucky with girls who cares I still have alot more fun stuff to live for. I had opporutnities in the past , I just turned them down myself. Wierd.

I want to travel alot, see alot of the world, prehaps girls, gf, marriage just isnt for me. I dont need to be tied down.

Twisted Tinkerbell
08-08-2006, 06:49 PM
And with divorce rates at an all time high why waste the money on a wedding?

Drift
08-08-2006, 06:52 PM
its called eating, maybe then you'll get some weight

Cloudstrife4003
08-08-2006, 06:54 PM
I eat all kinds of food...and lots of it!! and i don't gain weight one bit! it's like that movie,thinner....ooooooooooo!!!!

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 06:54 PM
:p

True, forget that. Most people dont even get the concept of marriage anymore. I rather just be free, yah. No marriage . Sky diving and all that crazy jazz. Heck living single you could affoard it all, I bet I could. Especially If I keep working with show biz. My 1st job ever was an extra in spiderman 3. :p

I want to be a film director.

Anyways about being skinny, who cares I have more to live for than to care that Im not fat or that I cant lift cheer leaders over my head. Im going to climb moutains taller than ...than. ...yah.

Im going to climb moutains.:p

I can still do great things, I dont have to be overly buff to be sucessfull and happy in life. I got talent what do I care about having more wieght or mass. I can direct freakin films, Ive been in a freakin paramount production,.

YAH!!!'

YAAAAH!

That's right I can be single who care.:D :D :D
Im me and thats all I have to be good at.:)

Twisted Tinkerbell
08-08-2006, 07:02 PM
Look at Tim Burton, great director but ya want to pin him down and demand he eat something.

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 07:05 PM
Look at Tim Burton, great director but ya want to pin him down and demand he eat something.



:p

I love tim burton! He did excellent work with batman, edward scisscor(!!!??) hands
Nightmare before christmas.


Yes, TIm Burton is on my list of admired directors.

On the dvd on nightmare before christmas in special features you see his 1st film. It was simple but really cool.

Twisted Tinkerbell
08-08-2006, 07:07 PM
VINCENT!! I love that! My ex looks like the Vincent, I found that a little weird.

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 07:10 PM
vincent price....you know right?

If you ever saw any of vincent price's work you are tottally awesome. How about the originall house of wax?

Oh yah and on topic , skinny ....

Twisted Tinkerbell
08-08-2006, 07:15 PM
Yeah I know all about vincent price, I'm a horror film adict, look at the media today, they're all going on like we have to be skinny as hell, and then they bitch about these people that are too skinny, and all time high in eating disorders, I don't stop eating and I've lost weight. Strange.

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 07:20 PM
Yeah I know all about vincent price, I'm a horror film adict, look at the media today, they're all going on like we have to be skinny as hell, and then they bitch about these people that are too skinny, and all time high in eating disorders, I don't stop eating and I've lost weight. Strange.


Yah but they say that most Americans are fat...:tongue:
Over wieght. I look around and I see some further south but where I live we need Jesus's second coming so that he can drive trucks into town and feed the multipitude with fish and bread and all of that good stuff.

YOu must be cursed...about the wieght thing.

Yah, I dont mind being a little skinny, I just needed to contact myself again. I wasnt focused on me and who I am.

It's not horrible being skinny but its terrible to be weak inside. Im not the type that acts that way in life, maybe every once awhile at the forums due to poor choice of words but no.

I know what I want to do, talking to you has some how made me want to go shoot a video, which I think I will be doing shortly.

LunarWeaver
08-08-2006, 07:36 PM
Oh jesus, there are people in this thread that are 14 years old and weigh more than I do. Excuse me, I have to go make a MySpace suicide note they'll make a ytmnd about.

lovehurts
08-08-2006, 07:38 PM
you shouldnt even joke about stuff like that. I got to go. Unless your serious then Id like to talk to you about your feelings if you dont mind.

LunarWeaver
08-08-2006, 07:42 PM
I'm never serious, so I wouldn't let it keep you up at night. I'm just very skinny too, that's all I meant. I could just say what I mean, but that's about as much fun as a PSP.

Mobius
08-08-2006, 07:42 PM
i think diffrent girls like diffrent dudes some like big buff dudes some dont and it depends on how your face looks in general and how your personality is cause some girls can love the way your face look or your bersonality a whole lot more than your body trust me cause im not all small but there is room for plenty more muscle but im straight pimpin three girls right now lol

Eiko Guy
08-08-2006, 07:54 PM
why is everybody dissing muscles im 14 with a six pack and light muscles everywhere else
i understand that weird mr universe is nasty but light is okay and skinny is okay as long as its not broomstick skinny

licence
08-08-2006, 07:59 PM
Not everyone is dissing muscle. I also have light muscle etc but I can see that everyone has preference. Even then most people here have said they don''t like big buff men, which leads me to think of big muscleheads. Am I right?

Shlup
08-08-2006, 08:24 PM
I like my man-meat lean. My husband is skinny. He's 5'11" and 125 lbs.

BizarroSephiroth
08-18-2006, 03:58 PM
:p
Are you skinny too?

I am very skinny. I had an eating disorder when i was 3 so i am not very tall either. So i feel ur pain dude, i rly do.

YunaGirl05
08-18-2006, 04:09 PM
Its human instinct for women to be attracted to guys with muscles and men to be attracted to girls with curves and boobs but in this modern world you just got to work with what ya got if your personality isn't good enough and they just care about your body then you probably shouldn't waist your time with them anyway.