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Loony BoB
10-20-2006, 05:36 PM
Found this on another forum I go to... well worth the read and the videos.

<b>Strongest Dad in the World</b>
<i>Rick Reilly, Sports Illustrated</i>
I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit shoots. But compared with Dick Hoyt, I suck.

Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons.

Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day.

Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him on his back mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S. on a bike.

Makes taking your son bowling look a little lame, right?

And what has Rick done for his father?

Not much--except save his life.

This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs. "He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life;"

Dick says doctors told him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. "Put him in an institution."

But the Hoyts weren't buying it.

They noticed the way Rick's eyes followed them around the room.

When Rick was 11 they took him to the engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything to help the boy communicate. "No way," Dick says he was told. "There's nothing going on in his brain.

Tell him a joke," Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed.

Turns out a lot was going on in his brain.

Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to communicate.

First words? "Go Bruins!" And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, "Dad, I want to do that."

Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described "porker" who never ran more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles?

Still, he tried. "Then it was me who was handicapped," Dick says. "I was sore for two weeks."

That day changed Rick's life. "Dad," he typed, "when we were running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!" And that sentence changed Dick's life.

He became obsessed with giving Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly shape that he and Rick were ready to try the1979 Boston Marathon. "No way," Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway, then they found a way to get into the race officially.

In 1983, they ran another marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the following year. Then somebody said, "Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?"

How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't ridden a bike since he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon?

Still, Dick tried.

Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?

Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? "No way," he says.

Dick does it purely for "the awesome feeling" he gets seeing Rick with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together.

This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their best time? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35 minutes off the world record, which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens to be held by a guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at the time.

No question about it," Rick types. "My dad is the Father of the Century."

And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that one of his arteries was 95% clogged. "If you hadn't been in such great shape," one doctor told him, "you probably would've died 15 years ago."

So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.

Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care) and works in Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass., always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and compete in some backbreaking race every weekend,
including this Father's Day.

That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really wants to give him is a gift he can never buy. "The thing I'd most like," Rick types, "is that my dad sit in the chair and I push him once."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ryCTIigaloQ&mode=related&search
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=040xxFO86NY&watch_response

Christmas
10-20-2006, 05:44 PM
Oh my. :bigsmile:

escobert
10-20-2006, 05:45 PM
Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? "No way," he says.

Nominus Experse
10-20-2006, 05:46 PM
I can say with all seriousness that this article and video caused me to well in tears momentarily.


That's simply beautiful, so perfectly beautiful and selfless.

oddler
10-20-2006, 06:17 PM
Greatest person ever. :)

Noctivagus
10-20-2006, 06:18 PM
That was wow... what a great dad. That was amazing.

SammieBabe
10-20-2006, 06:20 PM
That literally made me tear up...

Noctivagus
10-20-2006, 06:24 PM
Don't watch this if you've been to a funeral today, just got choked due to it

Rainecloud
10-20-2006, 06:53 PM
Inspirational.

Thanks for that, BoBster.

Quindiana Jones
10-20-2006, 07:15 PM
I watched the first vid whilst listening to When You Were Young by The Killers. Beautiful.

Rye
10-20-2006, 09:04 PM
That literally made me tear up...

Same. It's amazing the dedication some people have.

Decessus
10-20-2006, 09:27 PM
Wow. That made my day.

Shlup
10-20-2006, 10:30 PM
Pfft, you people need to watch Oprah. Seen it!

...Okay, you don't need to watch Oprah. In fact, don't watch Oprah. I'm sad.

Captain Maxx Power
10-20-2006, 10:38 PM
Me being the negative ninny I am, I see this and get down for being a complete dillhole in comparison. Thanks for making me feel like a evil loser BoB! :(

Miriel
10-20-2006, 10:52 PM
Pfft, you people need to watch Oprah. Seen it!

...Okay, you don't need to watch Oprah. In fact, don't watch Oprah. I'm sad.

I watched it on Oprah too. xD

Ryth
10-20-2006, 11:02 PM
That's a wonderful story. Greatest dad ever. :)

~SapphireStar~
10-29-2006, 12:27 AM
Noctivagus told me about this and it truly is moving.
That man is amazing.

Markus. D
10-29-2006, 12:59 AM
AWESOME!

Dreddz
10-29-2006, 01:13 AM
Great guy. Video was a bit cheesy though...

Rase
10-29-2006, 01:36 AM
It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?
:up:


Yeah, I remember hearing about this a number of times. Still very cool and reading it is a great way to get over a "self-pity party".

Vincent, Thunder God
10-29-2006, 03:01 AM
That was truly touching.

FiragaBreak
10-29-2006, 03:42 AM
If I had a heart, this would be where I reak down in tears, but all n all That was a very nice vid.

NorthernChaosGod
10-29-2006, 06:32 AM
I saw that a couple weeks back on a forum that I frequent.

Chloe.
10-29-2006, 09:01 AM
Wow :bigsmile:

Shiny
10-29-2006, 05:27 PM
Awww, how sweet. I love determination.

NINJA_Ryu
10-29-2006, 11:01 PM
So hes basically the flash, while carrying someone. BEt he could have a world record by himself :P

but yes
truly one to emulate

Pete for President
10-30-2006, 12:30 AM
definately worth reading this.