It's not the interwebz, it's him. He's an asshole. Drop him as a friend. He's negging you and insulting you to belittle you so you'll want to be with him. You've obviously had this conversation several times, and he doesn't respect your boundaries. He doesn't seem like he's actually your friend--he's just trying to get something from you.
I know it hurts right now while she's still little. When she gets older, I'm sure she'll understand everything you and your sister/family did for her in trying to make sure she had the best childhood possible.
I mean. All I have is a picture. That's it. And not even the one of us together. We didn't know each other for very long. He got deported while I was pregnant. There's no chance of him ever coming back - not legally or illegally. I didn't hear from him for a year and the only reason he called me was because the girl he'd gotten engaged to dumped him. And either way, he has no rights to her. Once you leave the country like that, it's seen as abandonment and you lose privileges to the child. I'll never know where he is. And he'll -never- step up and volunteer to be there for her. I tried maintaining some -sort- of relationship with him, but it's just pointless. I'm not going to let her go through that kind of hurt and disappointment. It hurts enough that she asks me if she can have a dad whenever she wants one and when she says she has 3 mommies and I'm supposed to be her only mommy and she's supposed to live with me.
Holy trout, is Hi5 still a thing? I think I registered for that in like... 2006 or some trout, absentmindedly. Don't burden yourself with being uncomfortable right now for the sake if your little girl. You don't need to take responsibility on gathering information for her about him because he stepped out. If someday she asks you about her father and you come up short for answers, you have nothing to feel guilty about because he is the one who chose to leave. When the time comes for her to understand the situation, you can ask her if she wants a relationship with her father and go from there. I wouldn't bother with him until then if this is the sort of distress he causes you.
Best wishes.
lmao! Shorty. He's fine *eyeroll* I think he's a closet hypochondriac. Like seriously. He was in tears about the whole thing last night and was like "What am I gonna do!?" and I'm like "You're gonna go to the Doctor, do the treatments, take medicine ..... And re-write your will so that I get everything." I feel bad for him and I want these stupid doctors to figure out what's wrong with him, but IMO, if you expect the worst, that's what you're gonna get. There's no point in freaking out about stuff.
Holy crap. I hope that he's okay and it's nothing too serious.
Aww Noxy. I hope he's doing okay you know.
whoa something mortifying at the top of the blog roll
Oooo thanks! ^_^
I think I'm following you! Food Photography ? An Introduction This might be somewhat useful. I only glanced at it really, but it seemed pretty solid advice to consider. Taking pictures on a phone can make things slightly more difficult just because the camera tends to be of lower quality than a camera that's just meant to take pictures, but you can still set up some good pictures with a lower quality camera. One of my really good friends does a relatively successful baking blog. I may ask her if she has any good resources you can look at to help improve your food photography.
XDDD make it! ^_^
And now I'm craving for some pasta.
XDD it -really- is. like. for realz.
Mmm, that sounds so yummy.
awww yay !! Thanks muchos Locky!! <333
This looks really good! I'll be sure to add it to my favs!
:D It means zoh, and zeez, depending on placement. For example I read it as zoh muh gawd-zeez But seriously while I'm incredibly anti military, you're not going to be persuaded by a blog comment. So I'll just say that if he has a potential job where he can retire by 35 (something I'd probably kill for, and I hope he's not killing for), but he'll just blow the money on things he can enjoy now, he's putting the value on things that you don't care for: specifically now. I'm not saying you don't care about now (you have to do something now) but you're putting a higher value on things later - retirement, living comfortably without employment, that sort of thing. Two people with conflicting time preference are going to get on each other's nerves, and it doesn't even matter [i]why[/i] they think this way. Maybe he underestimates his future needs. Maybe he doesn't even care. But [B]you [/B]care, and since this hugely factors into whether things you do in the present result in a determination of 'success' or 'failure' (you think playing Ragnarok now and goofing around is failure; he does not), this is going to manifest all over the place - not just in video games or whatever he's doing with his spare time. This means even if you feel there is something wrong, he will not. Something to think about.
what do the z's stand for in zomgz
Like I'm all for having a wild night every now and then -at home-. But like. I can't deal with people urinating in places that aren't the toilet. My ex did it one time. He came home so completely wasted (at least your sister's bf -called-) at like 3 or 4 a.m. he could barely even stand up, much less walk. Somehow he made it to the bathroom, but he fell against the wall and peed all over the bathroom floor. .... And then refused to clean it up the next morning. SOOOO I used one of his -white-, -clean- work shirts and threw it on top of the mess and left it there. Then the girl that was staying with me in Texas for awhile came home at like 3 a.m. after I'd been watching her daughter so she could go to work.. Completely effed up. I was -livid-. She passes out on the couch, but then 30 minutes later, gets up, stumbles into -my- room, and pops a squat on the carpet. Like, I drink, and I get drunk, and I can drink. A lot. But I -never- get blacked out drunk anymore. Whether it's because my tolerance is that high or I just can't drink that much that quickly anymore, IDK, but I don't get so retarded drunk that I don't remember anything the next morning. My ex is 33 now and my bf is 29. He'll be 30 in January.
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