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Your story kind of reminds me of my sister though:
she has a boyfriend who also prefers to 'party'

so after work he go's to a friend to have a drink while later that evening he has said he would come over to see my sister.
BUUUTTT as always he has to muich fun with that friend and he calls my sister that he is not comming with some lame excuse.. Ofcourse my sister does know it is just an excuse.

the most stupid about this situation is that my sister already broke up with him once becaus of reasons like this one.. she took him back becaus he promised to change that..
but just a week or 2 later i heard my sis being mad at the Phone again :l.
i think she is a fool for not seeing that he is not changing his flaws

he pissed... in the laundy basket.... seriously?
:S how old is he? shouldn he be at an age where getting super-drunk is simply a no-no?

Welll he came home all kinds of drunk, took a piss in the laundry basket, and passed out on the couch.

And he's eaten like -everything- I bought on Saturday already and that has to last until Thursday or Friday annnd. I don't get to see my kid this weekend 'cuz our electric bill is way expensive this month and rent is due. And we're out of -cat- litter of all things, so the cat's gonna be using the bathroom all over the place and I'm not cleaning it up. I refuse.

that is a really smurfed up situation, yes.
obviously he does not know what priority's are!! :S

My dad raised my me & my sister, so I'm really close to him. He talks to me all the time about preparing for his death. I just kind of let it go, though. I can't stop it when it comes but I don't have to obsess over it.

Still, he's still really healthy. I don't know what it would be like if he weren't. I'm really sorry.

FWIW, tipping isn't "automatically added" at every restaurant in Ohio. That guy is a moron.

Though it smurfing should be.

Some (read: some, not all) will automatically charge you 15% gratuity if your party is 8 persons or more.

I usually tip 15% if the waiter/waitress is nice. 20% or more if they make me feel good after eating there.

The only time I've refused to give a tip was when the waiter asked my date why they never went out together, even though they had plans to. smurf you dude, I'm on a date!!

It seems pretty ridiculous he'd rather play a video game while you don't have money for food

I don't hate you.

I am so sorry for what you've gone through and I hope that for both abortions that you didn't have to go through it alone.

It is a horrible decision to have to make with no easy or obvious answer. All you can do is make the decision that is right for you and your family given the circumstances before you. Anyone who wants to hate you for it is shallow and self-centered. Anyone who wants to debate you on a decision like this is... is someone I wouldn't be able to stand.

I admire your strength, to be able to that honest with yourself and still let yourself feel. Keep your chin up.

Thanks guys. That means a lot

well its really a mather of view.. some see it as murder, some see it as a better dicision.
i see it that way to. if i were pregnant i would have got an abortion to.
i can easely say that i am not emotionly/financially ready for a kid. i dnt want kids at all!

ppl are easy in judging, saying it is murder, but i consider not being able to take care of a child or sort of murder to!

i hope you feel better soon and realise that you have made the right decision for this time!

i think it would have been emotionly even harder if you choose to give birth to a child and then give it out for adoption

edit: im pregnant-fobic :l

Well, I wont pretend to agree with it, but I can see your reasoning and I am happy to see you actually care and acknowledge your decision. I know it can't be easy, so if you need someone to talk to privately, feel free to PM me.

We're all human and we all make decisions that not everyone will agree with, but that doesn't mean we don't deserve support in difficult times.

I can't imagine why I'd hate someone or consider them a horrible person for exercising their right to choose. Honestly, I don't think this is the sort of place where you're going to get a lot of hate messages for discussing your decision to have abortions.

I'm not really sure what else to say though since I've never been in your position and can't pretend to understand how you must feel about everything, but it isn't mine or anyone elses place to judge you for it. If it is a decision that has caused you grief then I hope you can come to terms with it in time.

lmao ... I got alllllll the texts. And he's got the pictures from our vacation somewhere.

I know how chicks can be all malicious and whatnot, and I know he'd probably try to flip the story around to make me look like a psycho, but, whatever.

I know she exists. According to him, they dated once before a long time ago and she made him wreck the Solara he had. I just think that he's saying they're together to get under my skin. He did it before (saying he was dating her) but then when he came over he was like "I don't have a girlfriend. You know how I am." as in.. I should know better than to listen to that type of his BS.

I told him he's obviously lying about it or he wouldn't be texting me and trying to hook up with me behind her back since he's supposedly not like that.
And if he's -not- lying, it just makes me wonder what all he was doing when he wasn't home with me. He always accused me of cheating and I finally told him that people only do that to their significant others when they have a guilty conscience of their own. I learned that the hard way.

If she really does exist, she probably wouldn't believe you even if you did tell her.

I think anyone who has ever been a server can really appreciate the situation. When someone says they tip 10% I go off the wall. x)

you havent even met his mother yet? :O do you live far away from her?

so he is away 12 hours a day? thats not nothing!!
haha :P perhaps its good that she yell at your Bf to cook for you :P

i hope i can live with my bf soon to :o though i dont see it happening this year. perhaps when he is done with his education in the army... wich he is going to start this year

lol I wasn't the one that started the conversation in the first place.

But yeah, it's definitely a hot button issue - I think even worse than religion or politics. People get so angry on both sides lol.

Don't bring up the tipping thing here, either. Just...don't.

lmao He's working on his culinary skills. His mom (who I have yet to meet) like.. Calls regularly and I wind up talking to her. She's like "JEHMEH! You cook for BJ!? You make him eat vegetables!? GOOD! No more tattoos JEHMEH!" and I'm like "yesh mum" and then she yells at him to cook for me more. XD

I can't really complain. He gets up at 4:30 every morning for work and doesn't get off until 4:30 or later in the afternoon - in spite of his 2 breaks he gets in the mornings (at 8 a.m. and then again from like 11:30 - 1) and I'm not working right now, so.. Meh. He's picking it up slowly but surely. We're supposed to be moving soon into a bigger place and be getting a dog. -Then- he's really gonna have to help. lulz