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My boyfriends sister moved in a short while ago and it is worse than I thought it would be.
She is getting phone calls in the middle of the night waking me up, first off. She told me her friend who lives long-distance wanted to call her but it isn't free on her cell phone, so I said she could use our phone as long as it is incoming. That doesn't mean at midnight!!

She only pays 200 a month to stay there and she pays 100 at 2 week intervals (which is pretty cheap, especially since she doesn't even have to buy groceries) and she just payed 100 and then two days later (yesterday) asked for it back! She said she had to get her car repaired, so obviously, she hasn't been making any effort to save up her money to move out.
On top of that, she's talking about painting and decorating! It isn't her place! and she is supposed to move out in as little time as possible!

We went to get her keys made and she asked my boyfriend for 40$ worth of gas money. We only drove a mile. He said no, I'll give you 20 to be nice, and she filled it to 25.

We buy the groceries and she is welcome to them. She went out the other day and bought a carton of chocolate milk, which my boyfriend proceeded to drink, and she actually got upset.

We have 4 towels. We use one, then switch to the others and in the meantime, clean those. Good system. She keeps using our towels. She uses them once, then asks for another. So I am often stuck using my boyfriends towel or rushing to clean the other one of mine. She is apparently to cheap to spend 15$ on a towel.

Worst of all, she put....Jersey Shore on my television!!!!! I had to go hide in my room for hours (it was a marathon) but I could still hear. I could still hear.

I find she is taking advantage and is not acting apropriatley for the situation. I am very upset at my current living situation.
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  1. Shaibana's Avatar
    i can understand that your upset, from what uve writen here it seems she is just taking over the house and stays with you as if she was ur child.
    i think its verry disrespectful to stay at someones house and jsut take.. and not giving (much) back.

    i hope youll be able to fix these issue's quickly :o
    good luck!!
  2. demondude's Avatar
    What a bitch. Have words with her.
  3. sharkythesharkdogg's Avatar
    It's your place. Talk to your boyfriend first since it's his family. Voice your concerns and see how he feels. Either way, she's no longer a guest. She's family you're doing a favor for. You shouldn't treat her like dirt obviously.

    Still if someone isn't going to have things exactly the way they want it shouldn't be her. She's in your house depending on the two of you, so most of the time it should be her watching what you want. She should show her appreciation by doing the laundry, etc. Opposite of a good host, there's supposed to be a good guest.
    Updated 08-10-2011 at 05:39 PM by sharkythesharkdogg
  4. Shlup's Avatar
    I really don't know why you put up with any of that. Jersey Shore?? No.

    My roommate (husband's cousin) is a pretty solid slob. His one chore is to bring the trash cans in, but he usually doesn't, so I put them in his parking spot. Anything he leaves out in the kitchen for more than three days gets put in a weird place.
  5. Shaibana's Avatar
    haha Shlup, thats a nice one xD (trash car on his parking space etc).
  6. Old Manus's Avatar
    She keeps using our towels.