Too weird as in not being in a school setting for once would be too weird? I've thought about taking a year off before and making money. It would be a good idea and would definitely help to pay off some loan debts. For the time being, I'm on pace to graduate early so if I were to take a year off, it would be after I get my Bachelor's and before getting a Master's (if i choose to go to more school beyond the 4-year degree).
Haha no worries! I went to Mankato, just finished my freshman year this past spring. I'm probably gonna work full time this fall and winter and take a couple online classes at a community college or something, I'm not completely positive yet. I wasn't planning on taking any classes this semester at all, but I realized that'd be too weird for me
That's cool. What school and what year are you? (I promise I'm not a stalker, just making conversation).
I go...Well, went, to school in Minnesota. I live here too, but I'm not going to the same school as last year.
Where do you go to school again?
I'll agree with that. It sucked, and I was unhappy for more than a year of that relationship, but it was all I saw at the time =\ You're right though, such is life. I'm just happy I got out of it and now I can watch out for myself more
Yeah I can relate to that. I thought the fighting was healthy and it wasn't a big deal. I got pretty comfortable and I'm not one to hold grudges. Early on in a relationship if you can look down that road and see that it's not going to be a pretty picture then I believe it's a little easier and maybe even for the best to end things so you can still try to be friends. Ah such is life.
Well, that's good. Me and my ex used to argue all the time over absolutely nothing. I thought people were supposed to argue, that's just how relationships were, so I ignored it. (It was my first "real" relationship...Lasted 2 years) Eventually he began getting jealous of guys I'd hang out with and even girls, and one night everything just exploded and I cut it off. =\ Better now than later though, I guess is what I'm getting at. It could have escalated to such a level, and you could have gotten so used to the fighting and to the status of the relationship that you couldn't imagine what it would be like to be without each other. That's never good either. So, uh...I dunno what to say, now that I've rambled on...Heh
Well the thing was I started working this full time job for the summer to make money before going back to school. It directly conflicted with her work schedule as like a nanny because I worked third shift yet she would be working when I was sleeping. That was what started a rift and I tried to see her as much as I could (I think space is needed in a relationship) yet she said she wanted more. She admitted to me she started fights with me on purpose to see if I actually cared about her and to actually feel something which I thought was just disturbing. I called her out on how much she loved to fight with me over absolutely nothing all the time. We were two very different people, too. Opposites may attract, but just can't last that long it may seem. I'm over it.
Oh no, really? I'm so sorry! *hugs* That kind of thing always blows. Not much you can do but move on though, right? She doesn't know what she's missing out on...
