Who cares? I used it around gay people all the time. If they're your friends and they freak out about it just slap 'em around the chops. Otherwise ignore them.
Try using "What the gay?" in everyday conversation.
Bjorn.
Carl Carlson.
faggertron
Skylar.
stamen
Are you talking about megaman?
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Maybe even Benjamin! Or is that stretching it a bit too far?