I'm probably the wrong person to ask about why people get excited about that crap to be honest. Me and my wife got married at the justice building downtown with our parents, my sister, and her brother in attendance. Then we just had a party for our friends that night and that was it. And after the big shindig my sisters wedding was this weekend I realized we made the right choice. Interesting fact: my dad actually offered to bribe my sister and her husband to just take off to the Dominican or Vegas or something and make it quick and simple. His exact words were, "I can make the cheque out to the wedding hall or I can make it out to you, it doesn't matter to me." I don't know, some people dream about that stuff, but frankly it seems like a lot of work to make a bunch of other people happy if you ask me. If you're not into that stuff then you're not into that stuff. My recommendation, unless whoever you marry someday wants a big wedding desperately, talk them into taking a trip somewhere with a couple of friends or family members and do it there. Then throw a party when you get home. A lot simpler and a lot more fun in my opinion.
Thanks that would be great :P. I've had a weird issue lately. It's not even really an issue now, but it pops up in my head every once in a while and it might be an issue one day. I don't know if I should get married. I mean women get all excited and happy and the whole thing seems like a giant stress ball to me. And the rest of it I just don't care about. Like table seating. Why can't people just sit where they want? And why are flowers such a big deal? Why do you need a photographer when you can just have family and friends take pictures? Why do people pay so much money when there's so much better things to spend it on? I feel like I fail at being a woman when it comes to that. And my boyfriend talks about how his ex wife got all excited and he thought it was sweet and he makes comments that make me feel like he expects me to be the same way, but I'm not. The only thing I've ever cared about in a wedding is getting married in a Catholic Church and I wouldn't be able to do that if we stay together because he's not Catholic and divorced. I don't know why I care now when I'm not even on my way to becoming engaged, but I do.
Our winter is too long. I'd be happy to ship you a month or two of winter if that were possible.
yeah summer is the worst. fall and spring and winter are all I need. There is no winter here .
The past two weeks have been filled with itchy watery eyes, and plugged up sinuses. Plus I hate the heat. smurf summer. :cuch:
Bad allergies ? That's okay I'm stuck in South Carolina and I have a heat allergy. I can barely leave the house.
I think Canada Day should be renamed allergy day in my honour.
Happy Canada Day!!
Well thanks! Don't worry about it, people get busy. I hope everything goes well with the wedding. Congrats to her!
I must have missed the first one so I'll have to go back and read it when I get back home on Sunday, but I just read the Cid one on my phone and it's awesome. Especially love the facial hair mentions (I think FF4 Cod probably powers his airships with beard). And sorry that I haven't had the chance to really read or respond to your last two PM's. I've been a bit busy and I'm just going to get busier since my sister is getting married on Saturday. Should be back in full force on Sunday though. Excellent job again. Keep it up.
