No bother.
miss shauna... please.. is there any way to destroy my thread? i dont want her to see it. please.. im sorry
ok, well um thank you i will try. as much i can. thankk you
There is nothing wrong with relying on others. You just need to start trying to stand on your own two feet as well. We're here for you to help however we can, but you are the one who will make that happen.
ah ok.. well still , i will try not to rely on others too much as of now, ive done that for too long... though uh... it might not go as planned but uh i will try
I never said to leave everyone alone, or to not reach out to others. If a specific person tells you that they need some space from you, then give them it. It can be incredibly demanding on a person to support others - it's not a slight against you, or saying that they don't want to help you ever, or that you are a bad person and you make them feel bad. They just need a bit of time. You have other people who are happy to support you, so if you need to vent or need advice, reach out to them instead. Or like I said, maybe reflect on other advice that has already been given.
ok, ill try my best to leave everyone alone and try to get better, but im still taking a break from chat just incase i do something stupid again like annoy my friends, especially sefie, more. but thanks
And remember there is only so much shoulder we can give you to lean on - you need to try standing up by yourself too. People are not having a bad time trying to help you, but sometimes they might need some space and breathing room for themselves - and that's okay. It doesn't mean that they don't like you, or don't want you around. When they're ready they'll reach out again - but in the mean time, think about the advice they have given you and maybe consider what you can do moving forward.
ok, im sorry to cause you to say that i thank you for trying but uh... idk.. im sorry
You're not breaking rules - I was talking to you on a purely person-to-person level. People try to help you because they want to help you. Do you think Night Fury has a bad time when she gives you advice? The only one who is having a bad time is you, and we are trying to help you through it. Like I said, step away from something if you need a break - but don't put the blame on yourself for something that you have decided is your fault.
