Conversation Between Jinx and Pumpkin

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  1. I think it's just a sore spot for different people for different reasons which leads to a disagreement. I see both sides of it and can accept both because it isn't a huge sticking point for me, but when someone has been affected negatively one way or another, it becomes one of those things that some people just won't agree on. I've gotten upset on this forum way too often, and the whole reason I'm back is to learn to not let other people bring me down so hard, so now I'm just trying to put aside differences in opinion with people I get along with and accept that that's who they are and those are their views.

    That's not me trying to say you're wrong or I don't see your point or anything. I'm just saying I'm not sure if this is something that everyone in the thread can agree on.
  2. My main point that people are just getting bent out of shape over is that people have boundaries and you don't get to define what someone else's boundaries are. Period.

    You might not like it, and you might find it harsh or mean. But you don't know why that person has those boundaries, and they don't need to justify anything to you.

    And of course, that goes for any and all boundaries about any and everything.
  3. Yeah, I can understand how that would be frustrating and make it a sore spot. Lord knows I have enough of those things on my own :P
  4. That's good. I'm glad. I guess I just took it a bit personally because I've had too many people infringe on my boundaries and make me feel uncomfortable, and then been vilified because I should've catered to them.
  5. I understand what you're saying. I really wasn't trying to shame anyone.
  6. I wasn't too upset until people started in.

    My point still stands: people have boundaries and no one is obligated to compromise those for the sake of other people. And even though we should be nice to one another, no one is obligated to be friends with anyone.
  7. I apologize if my secret upset you. That wasn't my intention
  8. Last round of the Newlywed game is up!

    http://home.eyesonff.com/general-cha...ml#post3377345
  9. Round 2 of the Newlywed game has started and it is now your turn to do the guessing!

    http://home.eyesonff.com/general-cha...ml#post3376946
  10. Thanks! I'm glad you're enjoying it!

    You should submit something to the EoFF fanfic contest. I know it would make Scotty happy
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