I always feel weird about adding a friend's gf/bf on facebook because im worried about how awkward things will get if they break up. And Im the type of guy who's happy to add a freind of a freind who ive only met once.
I currently have 3 friend's girlfriends pending acceptance.
Yeah, unless I don't like them.
Yes. I also don't have a problem defriending them later though.
It depends on how well I know them. If I've actually gotten to talk to them, sure. If I've hung out with them--definitely.
If it's because of one of friendly comment on a picture....well, smurf. Really, why not?
I actually have become friends with friends (now ex) boyfriend or girlfriend, and ended up being better friends with them than my original friend. Unless they like, cheat or are abusive, I feel no need to automatically delete someone just because they and my friend broke up.
I can only think of one possible instance where this sort of situation came up but I was already an acquaintance of the guy so it wasn't a big deal anyway. I probably wouldn't add a significant other purely because -- wait nope I can think of another situation but I'm pretty sure the dude thought I was a threat so I just put his mind at ease. Whatever.
If I've at least met them maybe. I don't need someone adding me just to spy on my friend more. If they break up and we're not good friends I just unfriend them.
are they hot
Yeah, why not?
Only EoFFers add me on FB anymore so I haven't had to deal with this situation. I guess I'd take it on a case-by-case basis.
Sure, if they want to give me access to everything they do or have ever done, that's their problem.
I have no problem adding the significant other of friends or friends of my significant other if I actually plan on hanging out with them.
If I've actually met and hung out with them a couple of times and they're dating a good friend of mine. If I've met them once and looks like they won't be coming around again, probably not.
How else will you know when to swoop in?
I always accept, especially if I hate my "friend"
Only if I'm actually friends with them. Why would I "friend" anyone otherwise?