Originally Posted by
Skyblade
Yeah, I think a lot of people really don't realize how much of what we see from Squall is his thoughts. He doesn't whine or complain hardly at all, he just mentally screams at the incredibly difficult positions he's thrust into. When Rinoa's hanging off the side, you can tell he wants to help her, but he's balancing the current slaughter of people under his command against what he wants to do, which is go save her. And everyone yells at him for it. Why did they put him in charge and give him their "full support" if they're going to complain when he actually acts like a leader and puts his command above his personal life?
This sort of thing happens a lot. Squall is shoved into frustrating and awkward positions, and has to cope with responsibilities and situations he never wanted. And going through those is how he grows up. Rinoa helps to pull him along and put him in more such situations, and I think their feelings develop fairly naturally as they both mature together.