Who has it the easiest?

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Originally Posted by The Man

And yeah, guys have it easier in a lot of social aspects, for example, if we sleep around we're players, whereas if girls sleep around they're sluts. However, we're still the ones who have to take the initiative in flirting most of the time, and for people like me who are shy offline (I know, that's almost impossible to imagine) that's terribly intimidating :monster: And even when we do manage to get into relationships it's not like we ever understand what the hell it is you want :monster: Girls still probably have it more difficult overall, but in the specific field of relationships I can't offer much sympathy xD

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I agree with you very much. I've always thought that it has been extremely unfair that girls are labeled as "sluts" if they have had multiple partners, whereas boys are actually praised for it. Something isn't right there!

I also agree on the intimidation part. Boys are expected to be these outgoing "studs" who think about sex a lot. Not all boys think about sex all the time. I know many girls who are hornier than me :greenie:
And, as The Man said, girls are difficult to figure out in relationships. I was in a relationship that was ruined because she was so hard to figure out. I didn't know when to give her attention, and when not to.., And other things as well. I don't think you girls know how puzzled, bad, and small you can make us guys feel sometimes. I do think that girls have it harder in general, though.

Girls have it easier because they have boobs.

I'd take period pain in exchange for boobs.

(I'm never going to be fat enough to have man boobs. Damned metabolism, always trying to keep me down)

penises are cooler becaue you can go WACK with them

Guys. At least they don't have to suffer from evil periods and period pains, stress caused by it, and giving birth. Dammit, they could have had the periods XD

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Originally Posted by Psychotic

Girls have it easier because they have boobs.

I'd take period pain in exchange for boobs.

(I'm never going to be fat enough to have man boobs. Damned metabolism, always trying to keep me down)

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Why don't you just get implants?

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Originally Posted by Psychotic

Girls have it easier because they have boobs.

I'd take period pain in exchange for boobs.

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I hear ya. Breasts are just great. They really are and I don't think women appreciate them enough. They're always complaining about the extra baggage and such...

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Originally Posted by Anaisa

Why don't you just get implants?

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ARE YOU SAYING MY BOOBS AREN'T BIG ENOUGH?

I'm sensitive about that issue, you know.

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Originally Posted by Psychotic

ARE YOU SAYING MY BOOBS AREN'T BIG ENOUGH?

I'm sensitive about that issue, you know.

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No, I don't know how big they are. But you said you couldn't grow any, so the best option would be to purchase a pair.

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Originally Posted by Anaisa

No, I don't know how big they are. But you said you couldn't grow any, so the best option would be to purchase a pair.

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I'd like breasts, but then again, I'd like a lot of things a whole lot more, such as a walrus, or a gold-plated submarine, or an army of robot-zombies, and so breasts will just have to wait.

The next guy who says that girls are impossible to understand is gonna get kicked in the crotch.

What's so hard to understand? Why are you in a relationship in the first place if you don't know what your significant other wants? Are you really that dense? Are the girls you've been with really that uncommunicative and difficult?

Hi Tony, I want a hug. *is hugged*

You people obviously aren't communicating properly.

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Originally Posted by Miriel

Are you really that dense?

You people obviously aren't communicating properly.

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Keen observer of the the obvious.

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Originally Posted by Miriel

The next guy who says that girls are impossible to understand is gonna get kicked in the crotch.

What's so hard to understand? Why are you in a relationship in the first place if you don't know what your significant other wants? Are you really that dense? Are the girls you've been with really that uncommunicative and difficult?

Hi Tony, I want a hug. *is hugged*

You people obviously aren't communicating properly.

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I began a relationship with her because I liked her very much. I knew she could be kinda difficult to understand sometimes in advance, but I was in love so I was just like "to heck with it". Yes, she was very uncommunicative about how she felt and what she wanted, which made it very difficult to be with her as you might imagine.

With all due respect I don't think you've ever been in a relationship with a girl (of course unless you're lesbian... I wouldn't know), so you don't know how you girls can make us guys feel confused and what not. It could be that we weren't communicating properly... the chance is there, but I know many guys who have had the same problem with their girlfriends. Maybe it's just the Danish girls who can be like that... but I highly doubt it.

It's been my experience that women generally expect us to figure out how they feel at any given moment without telling us, which leads to much confusion :monster:

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Originally Posted by The Man

It's been my experience that women generally expect us to figure out how they feel at any given moment without telling us, which leads to much confusion :monster:

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Exactly!

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Originally Posted by The Man

It's been my experience that women generally expect us to figure out how they feel at any given moment without telling us, which leads to much confusion :monster:

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That's stupid. I would never expect anyone, not my boyfriend, not my closest friends, and not even my family to know what I'm feeling at any given moment. No human should expect that from another human.

"Women generally" expect that? I bet I've had more long term (though not romantic) relationships with woman than most of the guys on this forum. And very very few of them fit into that difficult, neurotic, stereotypical role that so many guys seem to buy into. People in general are difficult to understand, but I would expect that if you choose to be in a relationship with someone it would be because you two understand each other and are very open with each other. If that's not the case, why be in a relationship at all?