(Self) censored curse words aren't a bit better than actual curse words. Especially when it's done with bleeps like on TV. The only thing it accomplishes is drawing even more attention to the fact that there is swearing going on.
The worst part about american TV shows is the mother fcuking bleeps all the time.
They're just words. Who cares? I swear pretty regularly. I also use slurs for more or less any group of people pretty often, including groups I am part of.
I think people just need to calm the smurf down and stop caring about the exact words themselves, but instead the meaning behind the words in the current context.