Helping People

EXCEPT HER CAR WAS FULL OF DENTS FROM YOU PUNCHING IT AND IT EXPLODED LATER.

Bad Gau.

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Originally Posted by The Captain

It's certainly a good thing, I highly recommend it. So long as you can help someone else without damaging yourself, I don't see any sort of drawbacks.

Take care all.

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OOC:	There's nothing wrong with damaging yourself to help someone.

Anyway. Helping people feels great. One of the best feelings there is. Even if I only helped in a small way.

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Originally Posted by Loony BoB

So long as you're helping them. Some people might think that they're helping by convincing them that their ex sucks, and that might not be what that person really needs.

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I didn't tell her that her ex sucks. I told her how to make it easier for both of them, the best way I knew.

I suck at helping people. I usually just make it worse.

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Originally Posted by Yamaneko

If your planned outcome by helping someone is to feel good, then I don't think you should feel good about that. A virtuous person would help or advice another person in it of itself, expecting no particular outcome.

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I help people partly because it makes me feel better about myself. There's nothing wrong with that at all. Perhaps it's not the best reason for doing so, but they still benefit from it.

I hate helping people, I'm always nervious if it worked out alright and if my help was good enough and so on, yet I'm a sucker and go out of my way to help people, maybe I should kill myself, stop me getting it wrong and feeling, really, really, really, stupid.....

I like to help people. It makes me feel nice inside.

By the way, how do you join LJ communities? I have an account, I just don't know how to join them.

I don't really feel anything towards helping other people (random people online, for example). I just do it. Call it karma, and none of that Westernized bulltrout karma either. Real karma.

It seems strange to get rewarded for doing something you're supposed to do.

As for my friends, I always try to be there for them.

Yes, I love helping others, though I don't get to as much as I'd like...hell, its rare that the opportunity comes along.

I hope one day I'll be able to help lots of people.

I'll help someone if I don't have to do anything.

you can help me in fantasy baseball by not editing your lineup for the rest of the season.

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Originally Posted by Yamaneko

If your planned outcome by helping someone is to feel good, then I don't think you should feel good about that. A virtuous person would help or advice another person in it of itself, expecting no particular outcome.

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I definitely agree.

It's good to help others. Just don't do for some sort of 'payback'.

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Originally Posted by Mr. Graves

It's good to help others. Just don't do for some sort of 'payback'.

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I always thought helping others was rewarding in itself....:(

Yeah. Just don't expect anything material and it's all good.

Exactly.

I am the eternal Good Somaritan. I will go out of my way to help someone out, or at least cheer 'em up.

Self detrimental good deeds are okay. However, a person does owe it to oneself to think of oneself occasionally. Gotta strike a balance.