"I think it's silly to say that abortion is not ok after 90 days but it is ok on the 89th day."
I'd say it's fair if that's the difference between something being considered alive and something not. If something is not alive in the sense of being a child on the 89th day but is on the 90th, that seems reasonable to me.
3 weeks seems a bit quick for a heartbeat to be detected, but maybe my facts are off.
In the end, I don't think ANY law should be so broad and sweeping that it doesn't have room for circumstances. My biggest problem with being against abortion is that it often means there are no abortions allowed ever, under any circumstance; if I understand the Bush Administration's as well as many, many Pro-lifers' views correctly here and that to me is not a policy that doesn't seem fair since there will always be exceptions.
This is also a debate that can spill over into religion and can further the issue by making it much more personal because it can now directly impact one's beliefs.
As well, I've always found this issue in particular to be a really odd one to debate because so many folks will say they believe one thing, but if the situation happens to them, many will act differently. As the saying goes, "Do as a say, not as I do".
Take care all.