As long as it'll get you in her pants, say it.
As long as it'll get you in her pants, say it.
Don´t use that if you don´t feel it i mean i never said that to any of my girlfriends and they did not seem to care there are other words and actions which are just as good;)
Kishi had his heart broken, obviously a delicate guy.
To stay on topic: I say you do it once in a while, but at the same time show her your love, not just tell it.
For once, I agree with the guy in Red.
You should never, never, NEVER say 'I Love You' to a girl, EVER! :eek:
Do not make that mistake, EVER! It is absolutely wrong to do so.
There is only one time you need to tell her you love her and thats if you want to have sex. If you feel like having sex with your chick then, sure, go ahead and say 'Oh honey, you are so special to me, so precious. I love you and am glad to have met you :heart:'
Then you are more or less guaranteed to have some kinky action.
But apart from that.... NEVER! :eek:
One: It is a sign of male weakness.
Only the weak show their emotions. A true man does not do such a thing.
Two: It makes sure that the girl knows her place!
If you tell a chick you love her, she'll get all sorts of silly ideas in her head about the future and having your babies and being married etc... MAKE SURE YOU KEEP HER IN CHECK!
Three: It gives the girl something to work at.
If you tell a girl 'I love you'... it's sort of like completing a game and seeing the ending. There's nothing left for her to work hard towards! She will have no more aims, nothing to achieve. If you say nothing, it makes sure that she has to keep working very hard for your affections.
And Four: There could be something better around the corner.
If you say 'I love you' to a girl and she gets all happy and then BAM! :eek: Two days later you meet an even hotter chick... you'll have wasted your affections for no reason.
Let me give you an example. Say you buy a Nintendo Wii this Christmas for $200 and all of a sudden, out of NOWHERE Sony suddenly announce they were joking about the PlayStation 3 price and release the PlayStation 3 for only a $100 with 5 games (:eek:)... you'll have wasted your money for no reason!
Get what I am saying, dude? There is always something better around the corner!
So there is absolutely NO REASON to tell a girl you love her unless you want a bit of bedroom action, in which case it is perfectly fine to lie :) Only say 'I Love You' IF YOU WANT SOMETHING IN RETURN!
Remember! Give her something to work for and don't put any ideas into her head :)
Listen to your friend Devil Man for he talks wisdom :thumb:
It's a quotation from a certain novel. I don't particularly believe it myself.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dr. Casey
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I personally feel you should never say it unless you ABSOLUTELY feel they are someone you are willing to spend your life with. A lot of people don't take the "L" world lightly and it tends to change the entire relationship, sometimes for the better but also for the worse. I definetly wouldn't say it first.
Just tell her that you like her very much as a girlfriend, or just say ditto whenever she says she loves you. Oh, and don't listen to me btw.
Levian is a hard cold Viking, he doesn't love women. Only icebergs and his battleaxe.
And whenever he feels like it should be said and if he means it. :)
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There is only one time you need to tell her you love her and thats if you want to have sex. If you feel like having sex with your chick then, sure, go ahead and say 'Oh honey, you are so special to me, so precious. I love you and am glad to have met you '
Then you are more or less guaranteed to have some kinky action
sephirothishere concursQuote:
Only the weak show their emotions. A true man does not do such a thing.
ya..i liek to say.."get out"..after im done....with her...for a hwile..til next time...ya know...hahaahahhha....Quote:
Two: It makes sure that the girl knows her place!
thats my philosophy...like devil man...your clearly a genius.....Quote:
And Four: There could be something better around the corner
Never ever say it first, it's a very bad idea, trust me.
Guys should only say it if the girl says it over and over and he actually doe s love her and things such as "I know" and "ditto" don't work anymore, also, when you want to get in her pants.
THE JACKEL
Replace all other words with the phrase "I Love You" and you can/can't go wrong! :bigsmile:
I put every day, bubt I wanna put the caveat: so long as it doesn't sound forced. If you say I love you and mean it, it's grand! If you say I love you to fill a quota, you'll just come off as a jackass.
As many times as he wants, but only if he truly means it.