When I first ventured into chat, it was 2005 and I was just some dumb kid. I did however meet some awesome people and many of them became good friends (who all subsequently left EoFF forever and now do real life things on Facebook). I was never intimidated by the thought of chat, but I can see why people would be, particularly if it's a busy period. I think it's a great subset of the EoFF community, and it would be excellent to see some new (or would it be old?) faces coming in from time to time. :D
If you want to see if chat is your thing, just have a go. What is the worst that could happen?