My class ring is all I wear. White gold with Blue Spinel stone.
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My class ring is all I wear. White gold with Blue Spinel stone.
I'm not into gold. I'm a silver girl. I have silver large heart earrings, small silver studs in my second set of holes in my ears, a silver heart necklace, and a leather and sterling silver choker necklace that I pretty much wear everyday. I'll attach the jewlelry. Also, leather wrapped into silver is very coo.
I have alot of jewelry that has been given to me over the years. I never wear most of it, but I still think its pretty. The only jewelry I wear on a regular basis is my watch (Fossil) and my diamond engagement ring and wedding ring. They're both white gold. When I do wear other jewelry, its white gold or silver...
I be blingin, yeah.
No "bling bling". I have three rings worn around my neck on string for personal reasons.
I need a huge ring so when I punch people I leave my mark.
I agree. All that matters is that you recognize that it's just about respect.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dignified Pauper
Ten Reasons You Should Never Buy a Diamondon topic, I don't really have any desire to acquire flashy material goods. Guess that's just me and my pinko socialist leanings for you.Quote:
1. You've Been Psychologically Conditioned To Want a Diamond
The diamond engagement ring is a 63-year-old invention of N.W.Ayer advertising agency. The De Beers diamond cartel contracted N.W.Ayer to create a demand for what are, essentially, useless hunks of rock.
2. Diamonds are Priced Well Above Their Value
The De Beers cartel has systematically held diamond prices at levels far greater than their abundance would generate under anything even remotely resembling perfect competition. All diamonds not already under its control are bought by the cartel, and then the De Beers cartel carefully managed world diamond supply in order to keep prices steadily high.
3. Diamonds Have No Resale or Investment Value
Any diamond that you buy or receive will indeed be yours forever: De Beers’ advertising deliberately brain-washed women not to sell; the steady price is a tool to prevent speculation in diamonds; and no dealer will buy a diamond from you. You can only sell it at a diamond purchasing center or a pawn shop where you will receive a tiny fraction of its original "value."
4. Diamond Miners are Disproportionately Exposed to HIV/AIDS
Many diamond mining camps enforce all-male, no-family rules. Men contract HIV/AIDS from camp sex-workers, while women married to miners have no access to employment, no income outside of their husbands and no bargaining power for negotiating safe sex, and thus are at extremely high risk of contracting HIV.
5. Open-Pit Diamond Mines Pose Environmental Threats
Diamond mines are open pits where salts, heavy minerals, organisms, oil, and chemicals from mining equipment freely leach into ground-water, endangering people in nearby mining camps and villages, as well as downstream plants and animals.
6. Diamond Mine-Owners Violate Indigenous People's Rights
Diamond mines in Australia, Canada, India and many countries in Africa are situated on lands traditionally associated with indigenous peoples. Many of these communities have been displaced, while others remain, often at great cost to their health, livelihoods and traditional cultures.
7. Slave Laborers Cut and Polish Diamonds
More than one-half of the world's diamonds are processed in India where many of the cutters and polishers are bonded child laborers. Bonded children work to pay off the debts of their relatives, often unsuccessfully. When they reach adulthood their debt is passed on to their younger siblings or to their own children.
8. Conflict Diamonds Fund Civil Wars in Africa
There is no reliable way to insure that your diamond was not mined or stolen by government or rebel military forces in order to finance civil conflict. Conflict diamonds are traded either for guns or for cash to pay and feed soldiers.
9. Diamond Wars are Fought Using Child Warriors
Many diamond producing governments and rebel forces use children as soldiers, laborers in military camps, and sex slaves. Child soldiers are given drugs to overcome their fear and reluctance to participate in atrocities.
10. Small Arms Trade is Intimately Related to Diamond Smuggling
Illicit diamonds inflame the clandestine trade of small arms. There are 500 million small arms in the world today which are used to kill 500,000 people annually, the vast majority of whom are non-combatants.
Am I the only girl who has never really been attracted to diamonds? I don't dislike them for moral reasons or anything like that, I just don't see why they're so special. At least sapphires and rubies have pretty colors. Diamonds are just shiny, that's it.
Yeah you'd have to be either really ignorant or just a huge jerk to buy diamonds these days, and that gaudy crap is an eyesore anyhow.
The above article is why I was careful when picking my engagement ring. I like diamonds for their molcular composition, rather than because "a diamond is forever."
Or DeBeer's new campaign for anniversary rings: "This time say... 'I forever do.'" I laughed my ass off the first time I saw that because I thought it was a satire. But it wasn't. Then I laughed and was outraged at the same time. xD
EDIT:Nah. A lot of the other girls on the wedding LJ communities have non-diamond rings. They're really pretty. I considered a peridot ring because they're pretty too, but I wanted something clear.Quote:
Originally Posted by Miriel
Diamonds still have one practical use: When sharpened, they are extremely effective at cutting things. However, lasers have pretty much rendered that use irrelevant as well, from what I understand.
I dunno... can't you "diamond enforce" things? Like tools and stuff? You can't "laser enforce" anything. xD
Ah yeah, that's a fair enough point. I guess they still have uses in industry.
The only jewelry I wear all the time is my dogtags. That includes when I sleep or in the shower. Other than that I sometimes wear a cheapo couple dollar moodring here or there.