Originally Posted by
Pureghetto
I worked full time for 6 months (relationship length). Post relationship length I visited windsor several times.
Now I didn't spend every cent I made, but let's take a 9 month run.
I made 3000$ a month. So that's 18000$.
Where did this money go? By today it would've increased to a compound interest amount of probably 25000$ easily.
I spent it on:
- trips to a 400 km distance via train and bus or whatever
- dinners for her and her cousin who I really enjoyed the company of (odd thing to do now that I look back on it)
- myself (mostly)
- pie
Now, I'm not blaming her on me not having 18k; I'm blaming myself. I still spend all my money unless I consciensciously save my cash. But spending as much money as I did on a relationship when she barely spent anything on me (in comparison), that's wrong.
THat's the craziest thing I've ever done. I'd be crazy to do it again.