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Uh, yeah? Death and I have a strange relationship. We know of each other's existence, but none of us care about the other. Not trying to come off as a badass who laughs in the face of death, because I'm not and I don't, I've just never been the type of person to mourn someone's loss.Quote:
Originally Posted by MikeL Valentine
Maybe because you don't think much about it...Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunny
im sorry about your friend. I had one, and he died of coke and meth and he was 18 years old. i didnt know how to deal with it, i lost a few pounds and then i just couldnt stop crying. i eventually got over, but i'll always miss him.
Oh really? Did you ever acually had a friend? :rolleyes2Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunny
Sorry about that but you don't seem to care at all and that is called ignorance, no?
Do not insult my intelligence or resort to such pathetic insults such as that. I have lost friends and family. But I have never mourned their loss because death is a natural occurance. Sure, I miss them and I wonder how life would be were they still around, but that is not exactly mourning in my book.Quote:
Originally Posted by MikeL ValentineOh really? Did you ever acually had a friend? :rolleyes2Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunny
Sorry about that but you don't seem to care at all and that is called ignorance, no?
Regardless, stop whining.
Insult your intelligence? :confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunny
Whining?Quote:
Regardless, stop whining.
Hehe well I never said that I would cry or something if that's what you mean (I don't remember what crying looks like) and I myself have already lost friends and family but now it's a defferent case I never morned for anyone and that's what surprised me:
(I should have probably said it earlier) We are not acually friends we are....well.....rivals but I won't get in details (you probably understand why)Quote:
Originally Posted by MikeL Valentine
Apperently one of my friends fathers killed himself in front of him last night. I just can't imagine doing that to my son.
There's nothing wrong if someone cries cause they lost someone dear to them. Crying is there for a reason and I don't know why people say "I never cried before" or in your case "I don't remember how crying is" why would you be proud with that?. Crying is part of expressing your feelings and emotions. My apologies, but this is not a matter of prides.
I don't feel proud that I don't cry, I feel stronger, even if sometimes I really need to I just can't because if I do I make others feel sorry for me and that's something I don't want.Quote:
Originally Posted by Owen Macwere
Well, no one wants others to feel sorry for them, pity them, but you can still cry when you are alone. All I'm saying is there's nothing wrong in crying at all. That's all.
Even alone it's hard for me to cry, it's deficult to explain it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Owen Macwere
And yes there is nothing wrong with it, exept if you prefer playing it cool or something :rolleyes2
9 friends all at once because they thought what they were doing was a joke. I moved after that and never spoke to em again. It has seriously left me as a distrustful person.
I lost 15 friends they Hurricane Katrina, and still lookin'...
I am fortunate enough to not have lost anyone close to me yet, by death that is. I have become estranged from friends though. We just do not talk as much as we used to and such. It does and does not bother me. For the most part, most of the friends that I grew apart from were never really close friends, I hung out with them in school and such but besides that we did not do much together. Some of them are like "you do not message me as often" or stuff like that (I have most of my friends from High School on MSN) but the thing is, I rarely did message them. I think there is about only one friend I really miss and that is because we grew up together. We were very close and had few things that we did not tell each other. It sucks when you lose someone that close but I guess things like that happen.
I remember being somewhere and watching this comedy thing on someone's computer. In the show there was this serious moment though where they describe friendship. The main character said some friends are like leaves and go away with the seasons thus their lose is normal, then there are a few that are like branches (in other words remains close to you). Then there are those leaves that try to become branches and it is those ones you have to watch for (as in for potential good friends). I think I kinda screwed it up, but still, it was something that stuck with me.
I think it's worse to know someone is going to go and being unable to do anything about it than just straight out losing someone...sure the shock and suddeness hits you pretty bad but it make's it easier to accept and you never have to feel that pain of helplessness...
EXACLY.......Quote:
Originally Posted by omegaweapon2005