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Infidelity doesn't work. I know.
Open arrangements can be agreed on, but they tend to hurt more than benefit. Cheating is a no-no in any relationship. Honesty is everything.
I agree that the length of the relationship is a factor: shorter= dump them as an unfaithful waste of your time; longer= more worthwhile healing the relationship. Sometimes circumstances also come into it.
I also agree that as one gets older, one tends to be less tolerant of infidelity.
Recommendation: don't do it.
if the chick had a child i didnt know about from a previous encounter....(i know is not cheatin but.....) i wud be outta there.....kids piss me off.......
I've been cheated on and it made me lose just enough trust that it changed the dynamics of our relationship, especially when we were apart from eachother.
I've cheated, unintentially destroying relationships and hurting people I deeply cared about enough to make me not ever want to do it again.
I've now adopted a zero-tolerance, one-strike-and-you're-out policy with regards to cheating. Why should I tolerate the cheating by my partner when I no longer tolerate it from myself?
If my gf cheated on me with another girl. OMG I would so ttly have a 3some ^_^_^_^Quote:
Originally Posted by Yamaneko
If my boyfriend cheated on me I'd probably try to forgive him, but I'd find it really difficult.
I picked yes.
I would really hate to forgive someone for cheating, and I couldn't imagine being around them if they had done so. Plus I think if a person has weak enough will power that they do cheat, then that won't change, and it's only a matter of time before the chance arrises again and they take it.
However, I love my current girlfriend too much and I wouldn't want to lose her.
But if it happened more than once I'd have to end it.