Sex!

Sometimes when I watch animals having sex (accidentally, not on purpose :P) and what they doing are... very amusing. I think monkeys are the best one ... or even maybe rabbits!

Cant help it.

Back on topic;

Anyways, does it really matter if you're a virgin or not? Nowadays, I don't think anybody can tell whether you are slightly a virgin or not, therefore it's pretty much pointless. Although I think being not a virgin is benefiting, because you might have the expierence of what and how you deal with it much properly, meaning you will do a better job at having sex with a girl next time. It can be embarrassing if you screw it up :rolleyes2

Yeah, I'm not into any religion, so the "must not have sex untill getting married" thing in bible is bull (that's my opinion, no offence meant) because our lives are meant to have fun, so why not have the chance? :rolleyes2

I've had sex quite a few times. But not in a long time. It was just me and a mate messing around a while ago.

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Originally Posted by Roto13

More people need to laugh during sex. It's so much nicer if both parties are relaxed and comfortable enough to giggle now and again.

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So true.

I personally, would like to experience sex with another guy. Sadly for me, there are not exactly many, any, openly bi or gay guys within my community of friends. Though there is this really cute guy at school. . . Anyways, I would only do so with the permission of my wonderful girlfriend, who, incedentaly, has already told me I can experiment with guys, so long as she knows.

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Originally Posted by SapphireBlue*

Well...I can't really say much about sex...cuz I'm still a virgin, I'm a catholic and my goal is to try to not have sex until I get married. I'm still not sure if I could handle waiting until I'm married but hey, I'm gonna tryyy...lol :rolleyes2

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I don't believe in sex before marriage either... I'm Christian, so it's all part of the religion, but not only that, I'd probably hate myself if I had sex before I was married.

i can't believe i am reading this i'm only 13:whoa: *walks away*

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Originally Posted by Serapy

Nowadays, I don't think anybody can tell whether you are slightly a virgin or not,

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How can you be "slightly" a virgin. You either are or you're not. :p

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Originally Posted by Mirage

Why do you think that is bad?

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when you put marriage is your goal - you'll stop those devil thoughts
whith all respects

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Originally Posted by Remedy

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Originally Posted by Mirage

Why do you think that is bad?

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when you put marriage is your goal - you'll stop those devil thoughts
whith all respects

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Devil thoughts! xD!

*pats you on the head*

Sex doesn't bother me. Maybe its with growing up with it being on TV and being a mainstream thing, it just doesn't seem as scary or a big of a deal.

Im a virgin, and I would hopefully like to wait till Im atleast legal.

I don't think there should be a limit, unless it starts affecting their lifes etc. If they get obsessed or become sexually exhausted or whatever.

Sex before marriage is fine by me.

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Originally Posted by Remedy

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Originally Posted by Mirage

Why do you think that is bad?

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when you put marriage is your goal - you'll stop those devil thoughts
whith all respects

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Devil thoughts! xD!

*pats you on the head*

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yeah ;)
you mean cap on my head

Here is a question that bothers me...

If you have oral sex, you would you still be considered a virgin? My health teacher and all of these other people say that you wouldn't be a virgin if you've had oral.

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Originally Posted by *~Dagger Trepe~*

Here is a question that bothers me...

If you have oral sex, you would you still be considered a virgin? My health teacher and all of these other people say that you wouldn't be a virgin if you've had oral.

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Nah I think that u'll still be a virgin ^^

That's what I've thought. I think you're a virgin until coitus.

Do you have a lot of it, just now and then, or never?-Now and then. Less than I used to.

Do you think there is a limit on how much sex someone should have? -Yes!!! Tried having sex every day for a week whe trying to get pregnant. Not fun at all when it's a chore. :( Do it when you feel like it, never more.

What about marriage, do some of you think premarital sex is bad?- I had it. Helped me find a very yummy husband :love: :love: :love:

Any other relevant things you want to add?-Sex with love is magic. Sex for sex sake is just not the same at all. And USE CONDOMS!!!!!

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Originally Posted by *~Dagger Trepe~*

Here is a question that bothers me...

If you have oral sex, you would you still be considered a virgin? My health teacher and all of these other people say that you wouldn't be a virgin if you've had oral.

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Depends on the meaning of virginity to you.

The medical scientific meaning is to have that little skin "down there" and that only gets removed with intercourse (or sexual playing around that area). Oral sex, making out, heavy petting, etc... does not tear that skin so in the medical sense the girl would still be a virgin.

On the religious, "honor" meaning though, virginity means innocence so any sexual ACT would be enough to remove that innocence. Masturbation, petting, making out, oral sex, sometimes even talking or thinking about it is enough for certain religions and cultures to proclaim "lack of innocence" and saying the girl or boy is no longer "a virgin"

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Originally Posted by Renmiri

Do you think there is a limit on how much sex someone should have? -Yes!!! Tried having sex every day for a week whe trying to get pregnant. Not fun at all when it's a chore. :( Do it when you feel like it, never more.

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I think this is true, to an extent. A sex drive is kind of a use-it-or-lose-it thing. :P