I learned that if you say it too often, it looses it's meaning. But it depends on the relationship how often you 'have' to say it.
I learned that if you say it too often, it looses it's meaning. But it depends on the relationship how often you 'have' to say it.
Agrees!. *nods*Quote:
Originally Posted by The Real Dark Messenger
Those three words can either be a blessing or murder.
In the relationship I'm in right now, I say "I love you" to my girlfriend at least twice daily. Why? Because I mean it. Why not more often? Because, like was said earlier, it can lose its meaning altogether.
Taking the time to say those words can really make a difference, though.
Everytime she's sad, everytime she's happy, and everytime in between :bigsmile:
Every day 2-5 times ONLY IF tha guy means it!
Say it whenever you have the chance...life is short...misfortune is unexpected...so say it when you have the chance and really mean it...
I totaly agreeQuote:
Originally Posted by 10-Breaker
Hey! I ain't smurfin no one else. Doesn't that say it all bitch? XD
If its said to much it might loose its meaning, but every day to let them know you still care, if its forgotten then!!!!!!!!!!Not good enough!!!!!
It might lose its meaning. Yes. But it might also deepen its meaning to something much more, well, meaningful.Quote:
Originally Posted by GeneralSapphire
Maybe, but if thats all they will say!!
Well the first time my husband, then boyfriend, said "I love you", it had a great impact on me. A decade and 3 kids later we know for a fact we love each other but it is still nice to hear it every day, particularly now that I don't look like Julia Roberts anymore ;)
If you mean it? as many times as you feel it is needed in a situation, you argue with her, you end it by telling her you love her, you see her and she appears down, tell her you love her, you see her and she's looking amazing tell her so and tell her you love her. Starting to see the pattern here?
If you don't actually love her then NEVER say those words. Those 3 little words mean a lot to women "I love you" is just something that makes any break up with a girl so much harder and more hurtful. If you don't love her and she tells you she loves you then do what I used to do in that situation...
Girl "I love you baby, you make me so happy" (yada yada yada)
Me "Yeah...*Kisses her* you're so cute baby" (avoidance but the kiss and the change of topic if performed properly means she forgets I never actually said I loved her too.
Another way of avoiding it is to simply use the responses "that's nice", "me too" (this one is tricky, many will see it as you are telling her you love her, I see it for what it is. Put in context of she told you she loves you replying "me too" essentially says that you love yourself also...god I love the english language), "Do you?" Pretty much anything goes as long as you never say those 3 little words. Believe me I got a lot of practice in avoiding those 3 little words and it makes all the difference in the break up because when they tell you "but you said you loved me!" *cue crying* you can say "well actually name a time I said the 3 words "I love you"? Because I think you'll find I never said those at all ever.
Thankfully now I don't have to avoid those 3 little words as I do really love Tinker's
hhhmmm... it all depends on what type of girlfriend you have... if you have a attention hog you should say it at LEAST 2-5 times a day
You have reinforced my stand on why I tell my wife those 3 words everyday :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Renmiri