If you died on the morrow, how do you think people remember you? If you don't like the answer your thoughts give you, sure there's time enough to change that. If you lack in any self awareness this question may give up false answers as people with no self awareness throw up answers they believe but no one else does. Try not to do that.
I'll be remebered as cold by many, with respect by more, with humour by a lot & with genuine love by the chosen few. It ain't something I give out readily, something I'll pay for at my funeral but who cares, by then I'll be dust.
I'm happy enough with that.
WHAT SAY YOU?