I'm a Guy and I like to Cry ;__;

Is it okay for guys to ever cry? Like this ---> :crying:

Because yesterday I did :tongue:

Yesterday in the evening I got some Mails from one of my dearest friends. Now this girl... she has already become very special to me! She has such a lovely heart and I enjoy talking to her so much :love: I hadn't heard from her for a couple of days as she was busy with University, but last night...

KABOOM!!! :eek:

I got some BEAUTIFUL mails from here. And they were so beautiful that I started crying! Just like that! ---> :crying: They were really nice to read. They were tears of happiness! Waaaa-taaa!!

Yes, Yes, Yes! It is true! Devil Man has a soft centred heart! :heart: But don't tell my friend, okay! It's a secret! :spin:

So the Topic of my Thread is this:

Guys do you EVER cry too, if something effects you emotionally? Or do you hold the tears in?

And Girls: What do you think it is okay for guys to cry? Or do you think ---> "What a wuss! :lol:'

I know I like to cry... sometimes :love:

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What do you think it is okay for guys to cry?

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I don't like when guys cry, coz they cry then I start crying and big mess! :) But it's ok for a guy to cry... it shows they have emotions and aren't machist!

I don't like it when anyone cries but, when I see a guy start to cry I feel more bad for him then I would if I saw a female start to cry. So, I guess it's okay with me. Unless they're crying over something stupid.

I don't think I have ever cried in the past 9 years. :Oo:
I do get annoyed, and feel unsettled, but I don't cry. I scream into my pillow.

It's been a long time since I cried...I can't recall the last time I cried...but I believe when you're sad...cry is the best way to release the stress then after releasing the stress find a way to solve it...that's my opinion anyway...

Western civilization:

A guy would need a really good reason to cry in front of others, but it's totally fine to cry if you're locked up in a room all alone. It's also fine to be sad in a dry way in front of others. This is what people think anyway. Weird, but it's how it works.

As for me, I haven't cried since I was 12. That doesn't mean I haven't been sad, though. I've been sad a lot of times, but I did not cry. It's not like I hold the tears back either, there's just nothing to hold back. I guess I'm not so emotional, at least not in the sad department.

Of course it’s okay for a guy to cry and as XandrewX said, crying is a good way to release stress – to get your mind cleared.

Personally, I like a man that can show his emotions. As long as he doesn’t cry all the time – because then I’ll start crying :whimper: :crying2:

But then again – even though I think it’s all right that a guy cries, I would like to be able to get some comfort of my own, without the guy start crying too, he he :D

I tend to get angry before I start to cry. It takes a lot to get me blubbering usually. Usually failure of my friends or family will set me off.

I cry a lot; I'm pretty sensitive to most things.

I only cry when something terrible happens.

There's nothing wrong with crying, so long as you've got a good reason. I don't cry very often, but if something's worth shedding a tear for then I don't see the point in holding it back.

I have absolutely no problem with guys crying. I wish I could cry more, but I only seem to do it when something really bad happens. I can only remember two times I've cried in about five years. It actually sucks, because sometimes it feels like a good cry would make me feel a lot better.

i would say never...but it's not true

I think its fine if they cry. Ive only seen my ex cry and he did get upset a load of times when we were together. Both his grandparents died whilst we were dating and I was there for him. And he cried alot when we were spiliting up.

The last time I cried was a few weeks ago, and that was barely a few tears.

Apart from that I haven't cried in years.