Is Cyber-Sex Infidelity?

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10-03-2006, 08:24 PM
The Devil Man

Is Cyber-Sex Infidelity?

Today, your friendly neighbourhood Devil Man was reading a tragic (yet tragically hilarious) story in his newspaper.

A woman was divorcing her husband. Her reason? When she and her young 7 year old daughter came home from doing grocery shopping, she went into the Living Room/Lounge and caught her husband butt-naked and doing the Satan's-Handshake :radred: in front of his computer screen :chuckle:

That's right. He was Bashing the Bishop. He was Spanking the Monkey, all in front of his webcam for his lady-friend on the other side of the Atlantic. So wifey decided to divorce him on the grounds of infidelity.

So what do you think? Does cyber-sex count as infidelity (despite no mixture of bodily fluids actually occuring)? Would you dump your girlfriend/boyfriend for doing sinful deeds over a keyboard?

What do YOOOOOOOOOOU think? :eek::eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
10-03-2006, 08:26 PM
Jowy

It's cheating without intercourse. And if that were my significant other, I would frown upon it and kick them to the curb.
10-03-2006, 08:28 PM
Yamaneko

I'd throw away the chair.
10-03-2006, 08:28 PM
K-chan

Yeah, I think it's kinda cheating in a wierd way. I mean, geez watch porn or whatever if you have to, but try to stay away from relationships like that over the net. Though, to be COMPLETELY honest, I'd just be more freaked out than mad if I caught my gf doing that. 0_o
10-03-2006, 08:28 PM
Kappy

Well I think the woman was just afraid she wasn't hot in the bedroom.
10-03-2006, 08:29 PM
Sefie1999AD

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Originally Posted by Jowy

It's cheating without intercourse. And if that were my significant other, I would frown upon it and kick them to the curb.

Sounds about right. I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend (if I had one) was doing that with someone online.
10-03-2006, 08:31 PM
Xander

Yep, it counts, and this is kinda pathetic but it's actually happened to me before when I had an online relationship when I was like 14. My guy had cybersex..... with a guy.... it upset me quite a lot.

If they're doing that with them, why? >_> They obviously suck.
10-03-2006, 08:34 PM
The Real Dark Messenger

Yeah, I think it is... it's quite a touchy subject...

The only way I don't think that it isn't indidelity is if it's a game that a couple is playing together... otherwise, I would really be hurt if my partner had cyber-sex.
10-03-2006, 08:35 PM
theundeadhero

INFIDELS!
10-03-2006, 08:40 PM
~SapphireStar~

I wouldnt do it. Ive had some people MSN flirting wiht me, even that feels werid to me and I feel as though Im cheating, even though Im no longer with my ex!

I would leave someone if they were having a webcam affair.
10-03-2006, 08:41 PM
Zante

I personaly wouldn't call it cheating, its not realy that different as if he was watching porn. But then it really depends on the argreement between the two. In this case the wife obviously wasn't ok with him doing it, so it does count as infidelity.
10-03-2006, 08:42 PM
StarChild

yes, I think it's cheating, if that had been my boyfriend/husband I would kick him out.
10-03-2006, 08:47 PM
Miriel

Hell yes it's cheating! How is it not? I mean jeez.

That guy needs to be kicked in the nuts.

Chatting with someone online and going "ur so hot! I want u" to someone who isn't your significant other is bad enough. Going on webcam and jacking off for someone who is *watching* you do this... how can anyone not count that as cheating?
10-03-2006, 08:51 PM
Nominus Experse

That is cheating.

Cheating is not always limited to direct sexual intercourse.

And the the idea of cyber sex has always been one that I fail to understand or care for.
10-03-2006, 08:56 PM
Roto13

Not only is it cheating, it's a really sad kind of cheating that can't really be considered worth the risk.
10-03-2006, 09:41 PM
McLovin'

I AM DIVORCING YOU! YOU CHEATED ON ME WITH hotwebcambabe1255!

What a modern age we live in.
10-03-2006, 10:03 PM
sephirothishere

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I AM DIVORCING YOU! YOU CHEATED ON ME WITH hotwebcambabe1255!

What a modern age we live in.

yup....id call it sick....pretty much.....i bet his wife was fugly though....
10-03-2006, 10:05 PM
Jess

Yeah, it's cheating. It's quite sad that people would risk a real life relationship doing that, too. :jess:
10-03-2006, 10:11 PM
Rye

Yes, and it's especially sad too, because as others said, it's risking a real relationship for something so silly as "I put on my wizard hat, I cast lvl 3 eroticism, etc"
10-03-2006, 10:17 PM
The Devil Man

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Originally Posted by Rye

Yes, and it's especially sad too, because as others said, it's risking a real relationship for something so silly as "I put on my wizard hat, I cast lvl 3 eroticism, etc"

Speaking from experince then, Rye-chuuuuuuuuuuuuu!? :bigsmile:
10-03-2006, 10:41 PM
Levian

It's not cheating if you don't get caught!

Now, where should I hide and how fast should I run there?
10-03-2006, 10:43 PM
BustaMo

It's pathetic is what it is. I hope it was a wake up call for Mr. Meat Beater.
10-03-2006, 10:44 PM
Heartless

It's gross and yes,it's cheating.
10-03-2006, 10:48 PM
Croyles

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Originally Posted by Devil Man

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Originally Posted by Rye

Yes, and it's especially sad too, because as others said, it's risking a real relationship for something so silly as "I put on my wizard hat, I cast lvl 3 eroticism, etc"

Speaking from experince then, Rye-chuuuuuuuuuuuuu!? :bigsmile:

Yeah seriously. No one thought anything about wizards and magic levels until you mentioned it in great detail...

Anyway, yeah course its infidelity, and pretty disturbing.
10-03-2006, 10:53 PM
Psychotic

If that happened to me, I'd dump her, not for cheating on me, but for being pathetic.
10-03-2006, 10:55 PM
Yamaneko

What if it was another girl on the other end?
10-03-2006, 10:56 PM
Shlup

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Originally Posted by Miriel

Hell yes it's cheating! How is it not? I mean jeez.

That guy needs to be kicked in the nuts.

Chatting with someone online and going "ur so hot! I want u" to someone who isn't your significant other is bad enough. Going on webcam and jacking off for someone who is *watching* you do this... how can anyone not count that as cheating?
10-03-2006, 10:59 PM
kikimm

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Originally Posted by ShlupQuack

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Originally Posted by Miriel

Hell yes it's cheating! How is it not? I mean jeez.

That guy needs to be kicked in the nuts.

Chatting with someone online and going "ur so hot! I want u" to someone who isn't your significant other is bad enough. Going on webcam and jacking off for someone who is *watching* you do this... how can anyone not count that as cheating?

Yeah man here too. I mean, come on. Watching porn is so much different. You're not involved with or talking to anyone in a porno.
10-03-2006, 11:03 PM
Ryth

That is the most idiotic thing I've heard today. Cheating is horrible. Cyber cheating? That is simply pathetic. This whole thing is disgusting. It certainly is infidelity.
10-03-2006, 11:19 PM
Anaisa

I'd class it as infidelity of the saddest kind. An internet affair! What a loser! You'd think he'd have realised if that's the best affair he could manage to have, that he was lucky to get himself a wife in the first place.
10-04-2006, 05:42 AM
DarkLadyNyara

It's cheating.

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Yeah man here too. I mean, come on. Watching porn is so much different. You're not involved with or talking to anyone in a porno.

Exactly.
10-04-2006, 11:01 AM
ℓσ¢кнαятαиgєℓ

Cyber sex is wrong and i know some one has done it, his name is george burt and he did it to a girl named kim or is it amy
10-04-2006, 11:08 AM
Roto13

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Originally Posted by Croyles

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Originally Posted by Devil Man

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Originally Posted by Rye

Yes, and it's especially sad too, because as others said, it's risking a real relationship for something so silly as "I put on my wizard hat, I cast lvl 3 eroticism, etc"

Speaking from experince then, Rye-chuuuuuuuuuuuuu!? :bigsmile:

Yeah seriously. No one thought anything about wizards and magic levels until you mentioned it in great detail...

That's actually the first thing I thought of. http://www.adamchance.com/funny.htm

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Originally Posted by ℓσ¢кнαятαиgєℓ

Cyber sex is wrong and i know some one has done it, his name is george burt and he did it to a girl named kim or is it amy

You're such a good friend <3
10-04-2006, 12:03 PM
DK

The reactions in this thread are hilarious. :jess:
10-04-2006, 12:17 PM
Polaris

YEAH, IT IS CHEATING THAT GUY SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF DOING SMTH LIKE THAT! :mad2:
10-04-2006, 01:48 PM
Shaun

I can't really comment as I don't know why this man did this. I think it's pretty selfish.
10-04-2006, 01:50 PM
ℓσ¢кнαятαиgєℓ

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Originally Posted by roto13-ness

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Originally Posted by Croyles

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Originally Posted by Devil Man

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Originally Posted by Rye

Yes, and it's especially sad too, because as others said, it's risking a real relationship for something so silly as "I put on my wizard hat, I cast lvl 3 eroticism, etc"

Speaking from experince then, Rye-chuuuuuuuuuuuuu!? :bigsmile:

Yeah seriously. No one thought anything about wizards and magic levels until you mentioned it in great detail...

That's actually the first thing I thought of. http://www.adamchance.com/funny.htm

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Originally Posted by ℓσ¢кнαятαиgєℓ

Cyber sex is wrong and i know some one has done it, his name is george burt and he did it to a girl named kim or is it amy

You're such a good friend <3

thanks i back kara up everytime. its the men that have hurt kara in the past. i have protected her since i met her and, i hate men who try and hurt her in the way that makes her upset. i always try to be there for her
10-04-2006, 03:28 PM
Resha

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Originally Posted by ℓσ¢кнαятαиgєℓ

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Originally Posted by roto13-ness

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Originally Posted by ℓσ¢кнαятαиgєℓ

Cyber sex is wrong and i know some one has done it, his name is george burt and he did it to a girl named kim or is it amy

You're such a good friend <3

thanks i back kara up everytime. its the men that have hurt kara in the past. i have protected her since i met her and, i hate men who try and hurt her in the way that makes her upset. i always try to be there for her

I...love you xD :heart:

And yes it's cheating wtf xD
10-04-2006, 03:51 PM
Armisael

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Originally Posted by Jowy

It's cheating without intercourse. And if that were my significant other, I would frown upon it and kick them to the curb.

Yup, that sounds right!
10-04-2006, 04:16 PM
Reles

Thinking of another woman and acting on it is cheating, whether it being an emotional or physical relationship. It would disgust me if that happened to me, I'd dump the guy.
10-04-2006, 04:18 PM
Quindiana Jones

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Originally Posted by Rye

Yes, and it's especially sad too, because as others said, it's risking a real relationship for something so silly as "I put on my wizard hat, I cast lvl 3 eroticism, etc"

I thought it was just me who did that.

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