If you'd grow a pair of boobs, get a cute avatar and sig, and then become Aisan, you can be the drummer again.
I'm asian, and a chick. My avatar and sig are both pretty spiffy (Though not cute. Ikki is far from cute, and the only reason I have him as my theme is 'cause the picture is pretty). I think I deserve the spot of backup vocalist D< Or something of the like.