It has nothing to do with patience. I've beaten the game multiple times, and I still think it's one of the worst in the series. That being said, that doesn't mean it's a bad game. As was said, had this been made and given a name other than FFVIII and removed the minor relations to other Final Fantasy titles, I'd probably complain about it a lot less.
But you know what? It is titled Final Fantasy VIII, so I will use the other games as a base of comparison. And you know what? Final Fantasy VIII was the first Final Fantasy I played, so nobody can pull that "You're just sour because you like <insert first FF game here> more than FFVIII!" crap. I played FFVIII, enjoyed it, played others, and realized there's nothing too terribly special about the game.
There are many, many worse games out there. However, I believe it fails to live up to the standards Square sets for its product by naming it Final Fantasy.