"As the days go by, we face the increasing inevitability that we are alone in a godless,
uninhabited, hostile and meaningless universe. Still, you've got to laugh, haven't you?"
I'd stay in contact with that person, and do as much as I can to make her get what will make her happy. I'll help her gets who she loves and who can make her happy instead of me. That way I'll be happy as well. If the love you are talking about is true and pure. That's what I'll do.
Last edited by Owen Macwere; 01-18-2007 at 03:41 PM.
oh that was me. :P sorry.
Don't talk about diapers. That's weird. Mik, please make your diaper sniper threats via PM xD
Signature by rubah. I think.
3 or 4 years ago ? Bummer, I could have used those diapers then!
Now all my pups are potty trained, thank heavens!
I ran away from my crushes if he didn't feel the same. Same for ex-boyfriends. Staying around someone you still have feelings for and he doesn't is torture!
When it turns out that way every time, you get used to it.
I find it best to just ignore the feelings, and just be friends.
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I had really big crushes on some girls in school. I would go out of my way to just say hi to them. I was happiest then and even though I doubt they ever wanted to be more than friends, remembering them now makes me feel all warm and fuzzy... Then sad cos I never had the courage to ask them out...
Though I agree with Rainecloud, in hindsight I doubt I would've been happy had I actually did something about my feelings. She'd be like "lets go out" and I'd be like "I wanna stay in" and trouble would arise and we'd eventually break up from that, leaving no feelings of warm and fuzzyness in my memories. Or so I would expect.
I try to win her over, and usually fail. There's about a 50/50 chance we'll wind up friends.
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I think it depends on my relationship with the person. If I start getting a crush on someone who I don't know THAT well, I'd probably start talking to them less and see if it goes away. If it's a good friend that I like, I think I'd just deal and wait for it to be over. Even though it's hard to be around them while the feelings are still there.
But I'd like to just avoid the person altogether. Ideally, that would be best. Sometimes I just can't resist though :(