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    Quote Originally Posted by Mikztsu View Post
    OOC: little bird chirped in my ear while ago that you were dead, Rainecloud. I'm pretty pleased to see you're alive.

    Though, I still got to pay you back for sending me those diapers. /readies his sniping rifle
    For the last time, I did not post you those diapers.

    I posted you a videotape. One solitary videotape.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainecloud View Post
    If that isn't the case, focus on the negatives and force yourself to dislike them.

    Works for me. =/
    I do that!

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    I'd stay in contact with that person, and do as much as I can to make her get what will make her happy. I'll help her gets who she loves and who can make her happy instead of me. That way I'll be happy as well. If the love you are talking about is true and pure. That's what I'll do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainecloud View Post

    For the last time, I did not post you those diapers.

    I posted you a videotape. One solitary videotape.
    Ohhh rrrreally. Then why the heck did I receive a Royal Mail package from England full of diapers?
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    oh that was me. :P sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Iceglow View Post
    oh that was me. :P sorry.
    I WILL KNIFE YOU!

    Seriously though, if anyone knows anything about those diapers sent to me three-four years ago ( and I know someone here does), I think it's finally the time to give in and reveal the mastermind behind this plot.

    I'm not angry. :shoot:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ki Ki View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Rainecloud View Post
    If that isn't the case, focus on the negatives and force yourself to dislike them.

    Works for me. =/
    I do that!
    same here, kinda. Well not always. Depends on the girl and how much I had liked her.

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    Don't talk about diapers. That's weird. Mik, please make your diaper sniper threats via PM xD

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    3 or 4 years ago ? Bummer, I could have used those diapers then!

    Now all my pups are potty trained, thank heavens!

    I ran away from my crushes if he didn't feel the same. Same for ex-boyfriends. Staying around someone you still have feelings for and he doesn't is torture!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Renmiri View Post
    I ran away from my crushes if he didn't feel the same. Same for ex-boyfriends. Staying around someone you still have feelings for and he doesn't is torture!
    It is a torture if you think of yourself only and act selfishly. It wasn't that person's fault that you love him/her neither his/her fault that they don't love you back.
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    When it turns out that way every time, you get used to it.

    I find it best to just ignore the feelings, and just be friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Owen Macwere View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Renmiri View Post
    I ran away from my crushes if he didn't feel the same. Same for ex-boyfriends. Staying around someone you still have feelings for and he doesn't is torture!
    It is a torture if you think of yourself only and act selfishly. It wasn't that person's fault that you love him/her neither his/her fault that they don't love you back.
    Huh ?

    Well, in my case the guy couldn't give a damn about me so who would I be being selfish to by avoiding him ?

    It's not a matter of fault, where love is concerned no one is at fault for not loving or for loving. It just happens.
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    I had really big crushes on some girls in school. I would go out of my way to just say hi to them. I was happiest then and even though I doubt they ever wanted to be more than friends, remembering them now makes me feel all warm and fuzzy... Then sad cos I never had the courage to ask them out...

    Though I agree with Rainecloud, in hindsight I doubt I would've been happy had I actually did something about my feelings. She'd be like "lets go out" and I'd be like "I wanna stay in" and trouble would arise and we'd eventually break up from that, leaving no feelings of warm and fuzzyness in my memories. Or so I would expect.

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    I try to win her over, and usually fail. There's about a 50/50 chance we'll wind up friends.
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    I think it depends on my relationship with the person. If I start getting a crush on someone who I don't know THAT well, I'd probably start talking to them less and see if it goes away. If it's a good friend that I like, I think I'd just deal and wait for it to be over. Even though it's hard to be around them while the feelings are still there.

    But I'd like to just avoid the person altogether. Ideally, that would be best. Sometimes I just can't resist though :(
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