I don't know dod ... it's a two edged sword ... if you didn't say anything letting them know, then you could be (in their eyes) culpable. I understand your train of thought, where you're come'n from, but even if you had'nt said anything, i still don't think that it would deserve getting kick'd from the party. But different people do things differently, maybe if you get them in ur party you can boot them ... :evilking: