Have you ever lost a friend?
A few days ago a friend of mine (well sort of friend but that's another story) had a very serious accident, a balcony fell on her and she is in very critical condition, I feel so sad and depressed she is only 17 GODAMNIT!!!........she probably won't make it
Anyway to the point now, have you ever lost a friend and if yes how did you fight it?
I have lost a few freinds; but I didn't mourn them.
i never forget about my true friends...heck i never forget about people who made a distinguished appearance in my life anyways. Thats sometimes the problem i mourn even my enemies. They trample me and i just take it...HA! aaaaanyways! you never forget the people you care about most, and there's really no way to, even after they're gone. Lets just hope your freind makes it out ok, i will have her in my thoughts
~*Fizzgig*~
True friends are one of the most important people to me. And I only have 2. Everyone else are mere accociates and aquaintences and ive lost many, just not through accident's.
Well because I don't like hiding behind words the acual reason I made this thread was because I don't know what to do if I lose her
And I'm shy to ask closer persons to me
Fortunately, i haven't lost any.
That's terrible about your friend, and even worse luck with how it happened. I guess all i can say is i hope she pulls through.
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MikeL you need to hang in there, dying isn't easy and iam sure you're friend is going to make it. Just support her through it and you've got nothing to worry about.
Thanks for the support you show me guy/girls, I guess the only thing I can do now is hope for the miracle
It's a terrible thing to lose a friend I have lost 3 of mine, one in a RTA (car crash), one due to an overdose at a party of drugs and a third committed suicide. I've also lost friends irrevocably due to arguments and even once tore apart my friends in to two factions during an argument I don't speak to them and in their eyes I am dead.
It's terrible yes but at the same time you got to be strong have faith that she'll live, humans are far tougher than we give ourselves credit.
As for what to do, there isn't a day in your life where you will not ask yourself this if the worst comes to the worst my advice will be, seek professional advice and counselling it can help also think would she want you stuck doing nothing all day but crying for her loss? No they wouldn't. I took to going out and having as good a time as possible due to the fact that nothing would have made them happier.
Both of my grandmothers died right in front of me, and they were kind of like my friends. I mean, I understand that there is a difference; a big one.
It will be fine.
I'll keep her in my prayers.
=]
Three of my friends (well... two friends and an aquaintence) also have died in an car accident, due to weather. It's sad, they're too young, ya know? D: It gets better with time. ^_^
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Yeah time is the best healer, true.Originally Posted by Jojee
The problem is that it passes slowly ^_^
although me and my brother arent really on talking terms anymore, he tends to get involved in car accidents quite a bit. His first accident, he almost died, along with his boss and a newborn baby and its father that they almost hit. The car spun out of control and his boss got glass in his eye. :\ Luckily spiro only got out with a gash on his elbow. He also almost got into a reaaally bad car accident on the highway. Luckily he hit the brakes on time, but one of the guys in the unlucky car had glass in his neck, and my brother held him as he died.The dude was 22, my brothers age. Thats not a fun experience for anyone to go through and i keep hoping my brother doesnt go through that. Its always hard losing someone close to you. Dont deny yourself the feelings that come with it. Its better to cope with them, and get the m out of your system, otherwise you'll become depressed for a very long time.
~*Fizzgig*~
Well you said she's in critical condition, but she's not dead. :o So hope she gets better. ^_^
Yeah you're right but it's not her death I'm afraid of it's that she survives, I acually hope she will die, why? because there is a big chance that she won't walk again and it's a real pity she is so young and so bieutiful
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