Thatīs the problem with our youth nowadays...they just want to get it on!!!!!!!!!!!
Itīs almost a crime if you arenīt having sex during your teen years...
But donīt rush it young ones who still havenīt hit the jackpot, just keep it strong and your time will come!
Donīt do it like me...i was just tired of being a good old virgin so i decided to go after one of those french girls...back in 1930...that was a mistake no doubt![]()
I'm still a virgin, guilty as charged but i don't really care i am however, horny as hell though.
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Kindergarten... don't ask... and I'm being serious.
Do you have a lot of it, just now and then, or never? Lately never... it's probably going to be awhile as well.![]()
Do you think there is a limit on how much sex someone should have? No, but I do feel that everyone should have one "lost vintage weekend" with a loved one. One or two days where you stay inside and just go at it and have fun. Build a makeshift bed in your living room and just stay there and make the most of it. I always enjoy getting to know every part of my lover.![]()
What about marriage, do some of you think premarital sex is bad? No, I'm actually against marriage more than premarital sex.
Any other relevant things you want to add? Too many to list and most would probably get this thread closed![]()
I am curious to know what you feel your "sexual style" is. I'm pretty gentle but I prefer aggresiveness in the bed from my partner. I love when it's almost like a battle to see who can please the other more...
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sex??![]()
I like Yuna cause, yeah.
Well, here I come.
Sex, from my point of view, is just an extension of what is love. It is one of the many expressions love can give us, and one of the things that define us in the end.
I have never had sex, because I decided to don't have sex until I find the person I'm more attached in the love side, it sounds quite "oldie", but I find sex to be the consumation of love, not the beginning, in contrast of the vast majority of the people around me.
I think that everyone is free to have sex whenever they want, but they have to be full aware of what they are doing, and to don't have sex just to "satisfy their inner desires".
If a person wants to have sex before marriage, go ahead, but be aware of what are you doing, and if they want to do it after, excelent, you have proven yourself of being capable of control your inner sins.
Also, sex, is just a word to define the interaction of bodies in the coitus, but, "making love", is when you fusion your soul with your partner, and fulfill that emotion you and your partner have inside of you, that is "LOVE".
In conclusion, don't have sex just to fulfill your desires, do it for fulfilling the love you have with your partner.
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Last edited by Ramza Beoulve; 04-07-2007 at 08:40 AM.
SEX, eh? (SPOILER)What does that stand for again?
I don't think I could do a whole weekend. Well, maybe. But the sleep would have to be really good. I mean, I just did a whole day. And we had to take breaks to eat and rest. We even got high(it feels crazy awesome when high). But yeah, I am so tired, I don't know how I am still awake.
Sex is good. I repeat, sex is good. Good means fun and full of goodness.
<PaperStar> live fast, die young, bad plefs do it well
Sex is a very interesting thing for my girl and myself, and most likely for many others as well. It's a very dynamic aspect of a relationship, as there seems to be countless things to explore and develop. Additionally, every person is different, and so one action taken during sex may be completely different than how it was with someone else.
A Missionary can be very different with different people, so I am told. I have only been in one sexual relationship - that being the one of now.
I think sex is a very good thing to have in a relationship. Is it needed? Of course not, but many find it pleasing and advantageous for obvious reasons. I mean, think on it:
It seems to me that a full and healthy sex life is spontaneous, adventurous, forgiving, passionate, and most of all, exciting. All of those listed - and more that I have most likely missed - are very lovely aspects of a what most would consider a working and/or healthy, full relationship with their significant other.
But I don't say this to mean that sex is needed to have a stable relationship, or that a stable relationship will give rise to a grand sexual lifestyle. Just an observation: interpret it as you wish.
As for that of myself, I love sex. I talk about it quite a bit, as one often does with things they enjoy. But it's also not the world to me either. I don't require it every day, and haven't come to expect it every day. I see sex as a spontaneous, almost whimsical thing that comes and goes with the mood (surprising, I know). Sometimes I will have sex three times a day, and other times I will go three days without having any form of sexual activity. A ten minute quickie, or the back-breaking two or three hour marathon sessions: it doesn't really matter, as I feel that one of the loveliest aspects of my sexual life is spontaneity.
It almost saddens me to see people try to schedule their sex life, for whatever reason. It takes an integral element of excitement from it, I believe. I can see how people will try to increase their sex life to have the feelings associated with sexual activity leak over into their daily lives and relationship; yet, to have it scheduled or expected on set days or times seems rather... backwards, to me.
It's my belief that sex is only what you make of it. Some may see it only as a fun and exciting thing to do with others - completely physical and whimsical in who and what and where and when. And others will feel that it is a sacred thing, to be had only with one select person. I don't feel that one is more right that the other, and see no real reason for others to pass their judgment on others for not agreeing with their choosing of lifestyle.
Personally, I feel that sex is something unique - something select and loyal to one partner. Mind you, I say this in the view of one partner at a time, not for life. Other than the small flap of skin that is ripped, virginity is what you make of it.
To me, sex feels as though it is innately intertwined with my love and affection towards my girl. I love her, and wish to please her in any form and method I can. She wishes the same, and so sex is a wonderful method of pleasing both. There is a passion and heartfelt cry as mad as love in the sweat and gasps. On the surface, it's purely physical, but in these actions taken, there is an underlying meaning that we both share. A personal, deeper, layered feeling that others cannot completely see.
The idea of having sexual relations with another for a purely physical reason is less appealing to me, but that doesn't make me superior to those that do.
I also know my partner from head to toe, inside and out. I know her as well as I know my own body (perhaps even better). There is a definite security in having that supreme familiarity of one another's bodies. Additionally, there is an excitement in discovering one another's bodies, exploring and searching under the covers. There is then made a history - often slightly humorous - had between the two lovers.
If you have not yet gathered, it is my belief that premarital sex is nothing of an atrocity, and ought not be a stigma. My only qualm is in concern to those who take part in sexual activities when young. Use condoms and contraceptives, for STDs and pregnancy are very serious things. You must understand the gravity of what sex can bring.
Marriage is simply an extravagantwaste of moneytradition anyways.
I don't think there is a limit to how much sex a couple ought or ought not to have. Really, it comes down to this:
If you desire sex so much that you feel you NEED it, then your love of sex has crossed over into the realms of addiction.
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If the act of sex were to mean more to me than my girl, then I would be concerned.
Obviously, physical developments such as bruising or forms of irritation in the nether region should be an indication that the couple ought to try and cut back. But I have yet to actually meet anyone that has had sex to that degree.
I probably have a modest bit of sex, time permitting. I am only able to see my girl around two or three days a week, but in those days we see each other, it seems we often have sex once or twice, sometimes three times a day. Though, there are times when we have gone without sex for three or so visits without realizing it until much later.
Without blood or tears in skin, I don't feel as though I am having sex.
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Really, it is actually scary when it gets to that point. At least for me. I don't like it when it hurts to have a hard on. This has happened to me twice. I seem to only need a day or so to recover completely though. I know that my girlfriend has gotten to the point durring sex where it hurt, and also to the point where I could no longer fit because of swelling. That can be pretty scary too.
<PaperStar> live fast, die young, bad plefs do it well
But of course! Pausing for munchies and a good movie or some cuddling is part of the game"Sex" in this context is more than just the actual minute you are ... < blushes >
Sex done with a partner you like includes foreplay, that little exhausted sleep or movie you have after, waking the partner up after you "recovered", having some food, showering together....
And only doing it while it's still comfortable and enjoyable.. or at least while your hunger for each other overwhelms the slight discomfort of doing it too oftenAfter that just cuddle or sleep or watch a movie or just enjoy each other's company