Er... I don't know. There are certain physical qualities to which I'm particularly attracted (specifically a short girl and red hair), but I wouldn't put either of those as a requirement.

I guess someone with whom I enjoy spending time would be a good match. That doesn't mean that she has to enjoy doing everything I enjoy doing. Really, a lot of the things I really, really enjoy (writing and reading for example) aren't exactly group activities. Then again, there was that one time when I was reading smutty novels out loud to a group of my friends in Barnes and Noble. We skipped ahead to the dirty stuff. The same guy walked by three or four times; it was creepy, so we left.

Well, the only thing I can really say is an absolute requirement is someone who enjoys my company as much as I enjoy hers. I don't try to create some dream girl other than that. I'm sure there are many different ways I can connect with someone, so I don't feel a need to limit it to certain parts of my life.

Edit: It would also be great if she didn't expect me to be a manly-man. I'm terrible at that kind of thing.