adults wright or wrong?
adults always say that people my age and around it (im 14) cant be in love. we are too young and we dont understand things like that. just because we are young doesnt mean we dont have feelings.
do you agree that we cant be in love an stuff like that or do you think we are to young to have feelings like that??
Are the answers you get here going to change your opinion in any way?
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I think it's possible, but it's also a lot more likely for 14-year-olds to think they're in love when they're really... not.
I believe that the definition and meaning of love grows and changes as a person gets older. It may be entirely possible for a 14-year-old to be in love, nobody can actually tell you with any certainty what you are feeling. That is up for you to discern. However, I think that as you grow older and begin to develop more into your own person, your idea of love will grow immensely and what you felt as a 14-year-old will not be seen exactly as "love" but something different.
no i was just wonderin wat people thought...Originally Posted by Mirage
I think a 'kid' can be in love, but I do not think they can ever make it work, nor control whatever urges they have long enough to know it is love and not lust. I also do not think that a 'kid' can properly make love work.
When I was 14 (a year ago) I always thought that if I ever got into a relationship, I wouldn't be strong enough to make it work, or I wouldn't be good enough, or I wouldn't be able to protect my girlfriend. That sort of thing always haunted me so I never got into anything.
I'm now going on to college and only now do I think I could make it work. Maybe because I haen't got school holding me back and I can be myself more.
The thing is I wouldn't hold my opinion to much, I've never been in a proper relatonship. I suppose my reputation in school as a clown put girls off me. Don't get me wrong I hve plenty of girl friends, but none have acually ever been interested in me (to what I know)
Anyway what I'm trying to get at is that, with teenagers raging hormones, it might be that which is telling them to get a boyfriend/girlfriend, a sort of lust. Teenagers have never experienced this feeling before, so they want to try it out. The thing is most haven't matured yet so they most likely would never have anything serious. A few kisses, holding of hands, but actual love? I doubt it. Speaking as a teenager, I know how stressful this can be, and how desperate you can be for a partner. But that is mostly out of lust, not love for a particular person. Unless you have really strong feelings of course, there are always exceptions
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Its threads like these that make me feel ashamed of my age.
I.. I am 14 too
I doubt anyone under the age of 25 knows what romantic love is. All they seem to know is lust.
Their wrong for saying so, but could be right anyway. How I see it, an adult can never say they know something solely because there older.
YES.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
bulli'm thirteen and i love a person just becase peaple are young does'nt know when there in love fcking agism bastards that sh1t pisses me off
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YES.bull
Couldn't have said it better myself.
I'm pretty sure anyone could have said it better.
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