sorry, but to me painting your nails or wearing makeup like eyeliner and whatnot if you're A- not in a movie/tv show or B- a clown will always seem girly to me. there are certain things that people consider 'girly' or 'manly' and a third class that we consider neutral toward gender. granted, our dfinitions are sliding toward neutrality on all accounts, but it'll be a while before we're all the way there.