Oh, I understand what you're saying.
I'm kinda in the middle, now that I understand more the actual context that you're taking. Part of me says "Well, I guess I can agree with that." Whilest the rest of me says that it's just the same as a predetermined destiny.
What you're saying seems more psychological than what I was thinking at first.
*Think, think, think*
The best way I can think of to explain it is that you feel like you're choosing for yourself, when it's really determined by a natural "instinct"-like determined predestiny.
x.x
I'm confusing myself.
I understand what you're saying.
Or I think I do.
And I'll just say again that I like to feel in control of my destiny, so I don't believe that our lives are predetermined.
XD