how can you......

[BizarroSephiroth]

......tell sum1 to back off or leave sum1 alone without being mean? Is it possible?

[scrumpleberry]

Depends on the situation.

[I Am Stoner]

......tell sum1 to back off or leave sum1 alone without being mean? Is it possible?

Yep it is.

Just say 'look can you please back off, I know this sounds harsh but just leave them alone. please?'

If that dont work then be a right mother smurfer to them and make thier life hell.

[Polaris]

'smurf off' xD honestly just say 'I better stay alone for a while please!'

[Araciel]

why would you want to be nice about it? being a straight up jerk is all most people understand.

[scrumpleberry]

why would you want to be nice about it? being a straight up jerk is all most people understand.

Jerkery begets jerkery.

[Araciel]

exactly.

[Rengori]

Yes, it's just hard to not come off as mean to the person.

[Lynx]

you could jsut smile at them while you tell them to shut up and get away that might work or they might think your a bigger jerk?

[cloud21zidane16]

Just say, I hope this dont sound mean but .........(explain your feelings)....... so i hope you feel okay about this

[Avarice-ness]

Tell them you love them and they should run away. =D

[Ouch!]

"Please leave me alone." To an extent, Dyslexicon is right. Most people will ignore you unless you're firm, and being firm can often be interpreted as being mean. Just say it. Don't beat around the bush trying to soften the blow, it's a waste of time.

[Proxy]

You could always say GTFO!!
I'm chargin mah lazuh!
But really, yes there are ways to be polite about it.
But it's more fun to be mean, and being mean always gets the point across

[The Unknown Guru]

"Please, just leave him/her alone."

[cloud_doll]

"Please leave me alone." To an extent, Dyslexicon is right. Most people will ignore you unless you're firm, and being firm can often be interpreted as being mean. Just say it. Don't beat around the bush trying to soften the blow, it's a waste of time.

Vuury true.
I know sometimes I hate to be mean, so instead of telling someone to back off or whatever, I just avoid them. Unless they really piss me off, then I'll be firm.

But still, ithere's always the situation where someone might be annoying, or making jokes or something that offend you and they don't even realize it. Then you just gotta be calm with them.