With your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/loved one

I was wondering who celebrates their anniversaries and who maybe doesn't even really have one, or isn't bothered about them, but mostly HOW do you decide when it is?

I find when you're at school it's a lot like , "will you be my girlfriend" and then you go out, and you kinda know when you started going out But I think for most of us things can progress really slowly with a relationship and maybe there's not even a point at which you say - now we're "together" or something.

So in this case how do you know when your anniversary is?? It's nice to celebrate being together I suppose but it feels weird to have one if you can't place a date you actually were more than friends with a person!

I find month anniversaries kinda funny and over the top though. Maybe just being married is a good time to start having anniversaries.