The answer to this question will vary for all of you. For some its heart-breaking, others a relief. How long has it been since your 16th birthday?
I was responding to a thread and realized, my god! It has been 4 years! For some that seems either exponentially vast or a blip in time. But answer for yourself. How long has it been? This is obviously aimed at an older audience. But if you feel like posting " 4 months" or "today!" you can. Just to make us oldies feel worse.