0.0 omijeebus im old!!!!!

[NeoTifa]

so, like, totally. i got engaged last night. ;_; i dont feel any different. i had always thought in my mind that i would be older, holding a bouquet of flowers, idk, itd be more specially, glowey, and sparkly or something. happiness and daisies. NO!!!! i feel no different. and i wept. not tears of joy, but tears of sorrow. i dont know why. the words engaged and fiance sound foreign on my lips, and now i have to deal with the financial burden of a $100,000 wedding or something.

topic: congradulate me or die!
topic 2: are you married/engaged/in serious relationship?

[Jojee]

xDDD Shouldn't you be happy after you get engaged?

How'd he ask!?!?

[NeoTifa]

idk why i cried bad tears!!! we were sitting on my bed, and i was showing him how bad ass vincent was in dirge of cerberus. i told him i felt bad and i wanted to go to bed, so he said to hold on a minute. i figured he was putting on his shoes, so i went in the living room and looked at an avon book to wait for him. he said come here, so i did, and he told me to sit down and that he had a question he wanted to ask me the night before. he ummm pulled out the ring and handed it to me and asked me if i wanted to marry him. i just kinda looked at it dumbfoundedly, and i knew it was coming too, and couldnt say anything like 5 mins later i blurted out a yes. my eyes were all teary and such. see, ive known about it for a while, and we were supposed to go military ball the night before, but i was depressed and didnt want to go. he was gonna ask me there.

[cloud21zidane16]

Congratulations!
How long until the wedding?

[Madame Adequate]

Doesn't sound like you're anywhere like ready for this.

[Leeza]

Topic 1: Congratulations, however, I agree with Milf. You've got some sort of unfinished business to settle before you're ready to accept this proposal and be happy with it. I hope you can figure out what it is. His proposal was very sweet and he does sound like a great guy.

Topic 2: I was married, but I'm not anymore.

[NeoTifa]

lol so you wouldnt take the die option?

yea, i think its becuase im in love w/ someone else (see fake love thread lol) but have accepted that i will never be with him, so im sorta happy about this. i stress over anything, and worry about too much, so a big soiree like a wedding is gonna have me sick and sleepless for months before it. im not planning on actually doing it until i graduate college though. so s****** is gonna be way outta the picture ^_^

[Captain Maxx Power]

Wait, what? You're getting married and it's making you sad? For the love of crap, do something about it! One of my best friends had to cancel his wedding plans because he wasn't happy. If you've got issues over this (which you plainly do), now's the time to sort them out. Seriously, just because you expect to be married doesn't mean you should be married. Screw convention and think about yourself and your own wishes.

[~*~Celes~*~]

if you love someone else, you should tell him about it so there aren't any secrets in your relationship. Secrets are bad, and he'll find out somehow in the future. It's better that he knows about it now before you're married.

Congrats

[scrumpleberry]

Congrats, but I agree with everyone. You need to sort out your problems first.

[Ichimonji]

Yeah, you're in a bit of a weird situation. You really need to sort your feelings out before you even think about getting married. Congratulations though, if you want it.

[Jessweeee♪]

Y'know I always thought it'd be neat to be engaged forever but never actually getting married xD

[Cookie]

I'm married to my money. All fifteen pounds.

[Pant Leg Eater from the Bad World]

Topic 1: Congrats! I think. You are certainly in a predicipickle.

Topic 2: I am currently in a serious relationship. Just over 20 months.
Though I have been thinking about finding myself a boyfriend for the side. But that would be casual and not serious. Not like it is with my girlfriend.

[Roto13]

If you're so miserable at the thought of being engaged and getting married that you're crying, you probably shouldn't be engaged at all. xD I was thrilled when I got engaged. I told everyone I met. xP I'm married now. Have been for about four months.