Quote Originally Posted by NeoTifa View Post
thanks everyone. ive resolved to the fact that i will never be with the other person=objectofaffection, so im a lot happier now. and laer know i like said person. i think he tries to set us up sometimes, by inviting him everywhere we go XD jerk.!
If you genuinely think that you can be happy in life by simply "settling" then think again. It's because of people "settling" with what they have that divorce rates are so high - people get married too early or for all the wrong reasons. What everyone is saying is true; you shouldn't be simply pushing aside these issues you have to be all "lolz ima hav gren n blu dresseses and stuf xD" - it's textbook denial and it's not healthy for you. Also four years is a long time and you'll probably do a lot of maturing between now and then (you're only 16ish now anyways, a mere child). If you don't want to discuss this here then fine, but don't disregard the advice that the vast majority of people are giving you. Think, reassess, contemplate and then take affirmative action.