I know. I was just using the promiscuity thing as an example of how my moral code functions. I don't do it, and I'd deeply regret doing it, but others do it and that's entirely up to them.
I don't buy that. It's not against your morals if it only applies to you. It's just not your thing. If you think people should/shouldn't do something, that's morality. If you don't want to do something but you don't care if other people do it, that's not morality.