*shakes head*
thats just stupid man..
*shakes head*
thats just stupid man..
I wonder how it would be it was the other way around, with the girl saying something like that about an ex.
Obviously you have no idea just how much guys lie in that case. We lie constantly. About almost everything. It just makes our lives easier to just lie all the time. In my experience being completely honest, as this topic illustrates quite nicely, is not what women in general want.Originally Posted by fire_of_avalon
(SPOILER)Also if I get another argument pointing out the lack of semantics in my statements that don't explicitly exclude a small percentage I'm going to break something. I get this counter-argument all the time. Yes, I know that not everyone is the same, you don't need to point it out to me. Also it's general chat, lighten up, srsly.
There is no signature here. Move along.
[caveman]Man win thread. Man lols.[/caveman]
CMP people are calling you out on your utter bullcrap, not on semantic arguments. There is no way to spin "All guys lie to girls, all the time, and it's the only way girls are ever happy." in any kind of way which allows for exceptions. Did you ever think that a decent enough guy might not have to tell lies to keep girls happy? Maybe it's not the girls, Maxx.
The guys lying to their ladies all the time (and the ladies who actually need to be lied to in order to keep from going insane) are on the fast track to failure.
Pretend I'm a good looking, intelligent and generally awesome girl.
Oh hi Maxx *giggles*, you're a really caring and sweet guy. So...are you gay?
Lie your way out of that one, son.
You don't need to pretend
there was a picture here
1) Girls who ask those kind of questions are dumb.
2) Most girls are way more sensitive to language like that then most guys. In general, a guy won't be that phased if a girl said something like that. Not saying they wouldn't be, but they'll take it a lot better.
3) Regardless, tact is very important. You, my friend, need to run what you say through your head before you say it.
4) The reason all the guys who are saying girls are dumb are single is because girls are dumb, and we aren't willing to drop ourselves down to that leve.
5) To Psys quandary: Yes, I am gay. But I'm also a women, which is why I want in your pants.
I wouldn't really be that insulted in that kind of a situation. If I had a GF, and she said to me, "You aren't very sexy", then I wouldn't mind, because I don't pride myself on how well I do in bed. That's not really what I look for in a companion.
But maybe that has something to do with my being single...
Dude no matter what NEVER EVER say anything about your exs! They can be pretty, sexy anything, but ur gf doesn't ned to know -.-" That's rule number one: never talk about past! To make it worse by saying 'sadly' it sounds you regret not having sex with her! That's even dumber! -.-" God men sometimes are really dumb <_<
Women must feel they are special -.-"
Maybe YOU lie. Maybe a lot of the guys you know lie. The guys I know don't lie. These are men who'll tell me "that shirt makes you look pregnant. If you don't want people asking you when the baby is due, you should wear a different shirt." The argument isn't about semantics, it's about just being wrong. There isn't some small percentage of men who don't lie. All people lie some of the time, but no one lies all of the time.Obviously you have no idea just how much guys lie in that case. We lie constantly. About almost everything. It just makes our lives easier to just lie all the time. In my experience being completely honest, as this topic illustrates quite nicely, is not what women in general want.
(SPOILER)Also if I get another argument pointing out the lack of semantics in my statements that don't explicitly exclude a small percentage I'm going to break something. I get this counter-argument all the time. Yes, I know that not everyone is the same, you don't need to point it out to me. Also it's general chat, lighten up, srsly.
And YOU lighten up!
Signature by rubah. I think.
I fully agree with Jess on this.I don't agree with this. I'd much rather to be told truth than be lied to.
OH NO YOU FOUND/FIND SOMEBODY ELSE ATTRACTIVE, HOW TERRIBLE!I don't think that is the issue, it's the fact that your girlfriend felt like you hold regrets in being with her. I think the only thing you said wrong was the "sadly", because aside from that you were just answering her question and being truthful. I still think that ignoring you and not talking to you for 3 days is over dramatic, as a simple apology should do the trick because you just worded what you said the wrong way.
Also, having to lie to your girlfriend to appease her is just dumb and unnecessary. Any relationship where lying like that is needed and necessary is headed for failure, like Roto said. Honesty is the way to go.. just edit what you say if needed :P
But... girls aren't dumb. I have a girl and I've been elevated by it, not reduced. I have attained more, not stooped to less. If the only girls a guy can get are the sort that would lessen him, well, he's not an impressive catch to begin with!
you need a more easy-going girl, man.
everything is wrapped in gray
i'm focusing on your image
can you hear me in the void?
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