What I'm more confused about is how they got "God hates fags" out of Rom 9:13.

13As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
Ironically, Esau's not gay. He was hated because he sold his birthright to his brother for food because instead of becoming a shepard he became a hunter. He was the first born, and his inability to do what he was suppose to led him to cowardice, that cowardice 'caused him to give up and give Jacob the whole first-born rights. Also, it's not god that hated him, the words are spoken by Rebekha his mother. She was speaking about Esau's cowardice and the dishonor towards the family.

Not to mention he had three wives.

Then again, they could be looking at an entirely different Rom. 9:13.