Leg, torso and facial hair of any kind are just gross. I can deal with arm hair provided it's not too thick (read; thicker than mine), and I actually find it quite cute under certain circumstances . Private areas is the lady's own discretion. If a women were to ask me to shave my body hair I'd gladly do so. I'm not too attached to it to be honest and only don't shave it off myself out of sheer laziness.