I don't spend a lot of time on myspace, but for some reason I have some anxiety concerning "friends." I'm ok with someone thinking we are friends in real life, because it isn't broadcast electronically through the world (and possibly into space), but when I am called upon to approve or deny a friend request, it suddenly becomes very "real" and I'm not sure what to do. Are we really friends? If so, are we ready to be officially joined in the union of "myspace friendship"? What are the societal expectations once we have taken that step forward in our internet relationship? A shoulder to lean on when :-( or a pal with whom to "lol"? Is it enough that I have confirmed our friendship electronically or will it be taken as an intentional slight if you don't make it into my top 8? These are things that keep me up at night.

Even worse, when a stranger reaches out to me, seeking friendship... I'm flattered, truly I am, but I fear our relationship will be entirely superficial. How can a lifetime of camaraderie be based on a mutual interest in dream theater? As firm a foundation as dream theater is, it just isn't enough. How can one approve and move forward with that? I don't know if I am what you are looking for... what if I hurt you?

If I have denied your friend request, be strong. I did it for you.